Bullying can be very traumatic and have long-term effects in our lives. In this episode, I talk about how bullying from my past was affecting my present, how being raped manifested as a bully wound, and how I recognized my trigger and healed this pattern. I also answer questions about how a past rumor can still affect the present, and how to heal from the trauma of being bullied by a "mean girl."

Timestamps:

• 0:00: Intro 
• 4:09: Teaching
• 20:34: Listener Question 1
• 44:22: Listener Question 2

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This episode is in response to a TikTok I created that went viral about what she's learned during her first 6 months of being sober. In this episode I discuss why I decided to go sober for 12 months, how often I was drinking before, how to handle boredom, the upsides and downsides of sobriety, advice for feeling your feelings, and if I plan on drinking again.

Timestamps

• 0:00 Intro
• 3:10: Question 1
• 10:29: Question 2
• 17:47: Question 3
• 25:22: Question 4
• 30:22: Question 5

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Trust is essential to the healing journey and connecting to yourself. Many people don't know how to trust themselves after trauma, so in this episode, Amanda discusses why learning to trust yourself is so important, what it means when you feel unsupported by the universe, how to connect to your intuition, and how to trust yourself when making a big decision.

Timestamps:

• 0:00: Intro
• 1:01: Teaching 
• 10:46: Listener Question 1
• 22:31: Listener Question 2
• 38:00: Listener Question 3

For this episode's show notes, please visit: https://newviewadvice.com/13

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Friendship breakups are really common, but often are filled with shame and can be left unhealed. Though these breakups are painful, friendships can be one of our greatest teachers and it's important to take the time to heal and move through the grieving process. In today's episode, I answer questions about the end of friendships, healing from gossip culture, and how to know when it's time to end a friendship.

Timestamps:

• 0:00: Intro
• 0:36: Teaching
• 9:42: Listener Question 1
• 24:07: Listener Question 2

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On average, people spend 30% of their lives working. Because of this, it is so important to find a career that is fulfilling and can bring you happiness. In this episode, I answer questions from someone who is unhappy working 24/7, a teacher who feels burnt out, and a person who finds themselves unhappy in their first job.

Timestamps:

• 0:00: Intro
• 9:36: Listener Question 1
• 24:56: Listener Question 2 
• 38:38: Listener Question  3

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Many of us use unhealthy coping strategies as a way to avoid feeling our feelings. In today's episode, Amanda answers questions about three different unhealthy coping strategies - using alcohol, food, and shopping to cope with difficult feelings - and how to become curious about why we may be using these unhealthy coping mechanisms and how to start finding healthy ways to engage with life and process our feelings.

Timestamps:

• 0:00: Intro
• 8:01: Listener Question 1
• 23:00: Listener Question 2

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Anxiety can make it difficult to live in the present moment. In this episode, Amanda talks about why so many people suffer from constant anxiety, how to start looking at your fears and anxiety, how to start grounding and relieving your anxiety today, and how to start healing your anxious thoughts.

Timestamps:

• 0:00: Intro
• 5:59: Listener Question 1
• 23:21: Listener Question 2

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Sexual Assault and rape is all too common. These traumatic events often leave survivors feeling lost, confused, and hopeless. In this episode, Amanda discusses why it was not your fault, how to move past self-blame, how to forgive yourself, and the importance of healing this immense trauma.

*Trigger warning - this episode goes into detail about sexual violence.

Timestamps:

• 0:00: Intro
• 3:25: Teaching
• 13:39: Listener Question 1 
• 36:52: Listener Question 2
• 59:29: Outro

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Heartbreak is inevitable. Everyone experiences heartbreak at one time or another, and it's important that we allow ourselves to move through the feelings and to go through the stages of grief. In today's episode Amanda answers questions on break ups, ghosting, and how to forgive yourself for breaking up with someone.

Timestamps:

• 0:00: Intro
• 6:16: Listener Question 1
• 22:47: Listener Question 2
• 36:55: Listener Question 3

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Relationships can be challenging, and also very rewarding. In this episode, Amanda offers advice on how to become more conscious in your relationship, as well as answers questions about how to let go of controlling your partner, what to do when you've been in an on and off again relationship, and what to do if your partner doesn't support you making changes in your life.

Timestamps:

• 0:00: Intro
• 5:08: Listener Question 1
• 26:34: Listener Question 2

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