Now What? Podcast

In this episode we are joined by Eli Doyle. A mum to her little boy Teddy and founder of +One Dress Hire. Eli is currently in the trenches, navigating the early days of her seperation. We chat through her current reality of learning to find her feet in her new experience parenting on her own, juggling a business with her minimal time, financially providing for her family and the loss of social connections and friendships- feeling on the outer. For those who are currently in the early days of this journey, we know this episode will give you comfort that you are not alone.

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Rach & Jess are diving straight into some of your juicy questions this week!In this solo episode, we are answering a few questions that have come through our DM's over the last 2 weeks.In these questions we share our thoughts on:- fantasizing over exes while still in a relationship - how to navigate cheating/ would we ever go back?- constantly fighting over household tasks/ would we stay or would we go?We love receiving all of your questions, so please make sure you send them in so we can cover them in our next solo ep.

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Ella Boylan is a contemporary landscape artist and mother, in this episode, she shares with us her incredibly personal journey of loss and grief. Ella and her late husband Jay, were childhood sweethearts. Ella takes us from their first party pash when they were teens, to their decision to start a family, and the tragic accident that took his life.

Ella reflects on the challenges of being a young widow and the impact of Jay's death and the trauma that followed, now helping her daughter cope with grief. She emphasises how important it was through this journey to remain positive and optimistic while living with grief.

Finally, she discusses her journey of finding love again after loss. Despite the heartbreak, Ella finds solace in her art and uses it as a means of expression and healing.

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Marcia Leone is a mum of 2, founder of the clothing label 'Not So Mumsy', an author and she generously shares the highs and lows of motherhood to her social media platform online.

In this conversation, we dive into her journey going from a supportive coparenting relationship to 24/7 solo parenting and the impact this has had on her life, her work and her new relationship.

She shares with us the boundaries she had around dating someone new and how important it was to introduce gradually and always prioritise her children first.

We are so grateful we got to go behind the tiles of instagram to get a look into the inner world of Marcia Leone.

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Marcia's "A Retreat for Mother's":https://www.notsomumsy.com/blog/themothersretreat

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Crystal Bailey is an interior stylist, entrepreneur, and single mum to 2 boys- while they spent many years living with their dads, they are now back living with Crystal full time. In this episode Crystal bares all, sharing with us an incredibly honest and raw journey of the tough decision she made to give up custody of her children temporarily, to focus on her own well-being and mental health. She talks about her challenging transition early into motherhood and navigating Postpartum Depression. Through sharing her story, Crystal aims to inspire and support other single mums. Crystal talks us through her healing process and the stability she has now achieved, opening up about her past toxic relationships and the importance of setting boundaries. Lastly, Rach and Jess couldn't pass up on an opportunity to get some tips for designing homes on a budget and creating homely spaces in rentals.

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This episode is a raw and honest chat that allows you to know our co-hosts on a deeper level. Rachel and Jess do a quick deep dive into reflecting on their favourite and least favourite traits about themselves and the importance of self-awareness. They share tools to help them move through difficult times and discuss their regrets and lessons learnt. Whilst also sharing what they envision for themselves in 10 years and the importance of savouring their achievements.

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In this conversation, Erin Deering, co-founder of the bikini brand Triangl, shares her journey of self-discovery and healing. She discusses her challenges with mental health, the struggles in her previous relationship (who was the father of her children) and the importance of finding happiness and contentment within oneself.

Erin also talks about the navigation of her journey into single motherhood and the co-parenting dynamic with the father of her two boys while he was still living overseas. She emphasises the significance of inner healing and self-reflection, as well as teaching her children about what truly matters in life. Finally, Erin discusses the importance of celebrating success and finding joy in the present moment. In this conversation, Jess and Rachel discuss various topics related to personal growth and overcoming challenges. They touch on the power of spiritual practice in finding solutions, having future goals and the importance of gratitude and appreciation.

Takeaways:

• The journey of self-discovery and healing is essential for personal growth and happiness.
• Finding contentment within oneself is more important than external success or material possessions.
• Co-parenting with an overseas partner can present unique challenges, but effective communication and mutual respect are key.

• Celebrating success and taking time to appreciate the present moment is essential for overall happiness and fulfillment.
• Exploring spiritual practices can help shift perspectives and find solutions in challenging circumstances.

*Please note this conversation covers sensitive topics. If you or someone you know is struggling please contact Lifeline on 13 11 44.

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Erin's Book, Hanging by a thread

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In this conversation Canna Campbell, a financial planner and founder of SugarMamaTV, shares her journey and approach to finances. She discusses the importance of minimalism and how it can impact one's financial well-being. Canna also provides insights on overcoming a scarcity mindset and balancing values with budgeting. She introduces the concept of the $1,000 Project, which involves investing in shares, and offers strategies for managing finances with irregular income. Additionally, Canna shares her experiences in navigating finances in a relationship. In this conversation, Canna Campbell discusses the concept of 'Fruitful February,' which focuses on budgeting from a place of abundance and prosperity. She shares practical tips on negotiating better deals with service providers and using the savings to increase mortgage repayments. Campbell emphasises the importance of having an emergency fund before investing and highlights the need to assess individual circumstances when determining the appropriate amount. She also shares her personal and financial goals, including prioritising self-care and making inroads on her mortgage.

Takeaways

• Approach budgeting from a place of abundance and prosperity, focusing on smarter spending and negotiating better deals.
• Before investing, establish an emergency fund to provide financial security in case of unexpected expenses or loss of income.
• The amount of emergency money needed varies for each individual and should consider factors such as income stability, dependents, and potential risks.
• Set personal and financial goals, such as prioritizing self-care and making extra mortgage repayments, to work towards financial freedom and independence.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

01:15 Canna Campbell's Journey and Approach to Finances

04:07 Becoming a Single Mother

09:16 Minimalism and its Impact on Finances

12:21 Balancing Values and Budgeting

18:43 Overcoming Scarcity Mindset

25:29 The $1,000 Project and Investing in Shares

31:07 Managing Finances with Irregular Income

33:30 Navigating Finances in a Relationship

37:00 Fruitful Frugal February

38:28 Fruitful February: Budgeting for Abundance

42:39 Emergency Fund: A Financial Safety Net

45:55 Personal and Financial Goals

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https://www.sugarmamma.tv/

Canna's Books:

https://www.sugarmamma.tv/books/

Canna's Courses:

https://www.sugarmamma.tv/online-courses/

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