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Episode 2400:

April Dykman highlights eight unexpected costs that caught her by surprise after purchasing her first home. From changing locks and lawn maintenance to skyrocketing property taxes and appliance repairs, these hidden expenses can add up quickly. Dykman’s advice? Save more than you think you’ll need and avoid maxing out your budget to ensure you can handle these unforeseen costs.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.getrichslowly.org/8-surprise-expenses-for-new-homeowners/

Quotes to ponder:

"Cosmetic upgrades turned out to be a lot more expensive than I originally thought."

"Part of the reason we bought the house was to entertain family and friends more often (and more comfortably)."

"Luckily, my husband and I had the extra money in the bank to cover these expenses, but I can see how people can get into serious trouble if they aren't prepared."

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Episode 2399:

LaToya Granados opens up about her journey to intentional motherhood, sharing both her struggles and triumphs in balancing self-healing with parenting. Through embracing mindfulness, therapy, and setting core values, she illustrates how prioritizing self-care and purpose can transform motherhood into a rich, rewarding experience. This heartfelt narrative encourages mothers to cultivate joy, self-reflection, and emotional health, ultimately creating a nurturing environment for their children.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.simplyfiercely.com/intentional-motherhood/

Quotes to ponder:

"I went into the tunnel on purpose, with a purpose."

"When I am unhealthy, I show my daughter unhealthy patterns."

"Motherhood does not equal misery sprinkled with some magic along the way. It is the abundant life with all the ups and downs and glory that life can possibly offer."

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Episode 2398:

Shawna Scafe reflects on the ups and downs of being a stay-at-home mom and why she feels fortunate despite the challenges. The key difference? The strong community of women who support each other through the journey of motherhood. She highlights the importance of friendship, shared experiences, and getting out of the house to combat isolation and find joy in the everyday chaos.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://simpleonpurpose.ca/stay-at-home-moms-have-it-good/

Quotes to ponder:

“I am a stay at home mom who has it good BECAUSE of the women I get to do it with.”

“Motion is so good for your emotional well being.”

“Your life is always better with friends (it is science!).”

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Episode 2397:

Allison Carmen explores strategies for reducing anxiety in children who feel overwhelmed about their future. She emphasizes the importance of teaching them to focus on the present, encouraging curiosity over certainty, and building resilience to adapt to life’s uncertainties. These practices can empower children to feel more secure and hopeful about what's ahead.

Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.allisoncarmen.com/helping-our-children-feel-less-stressed-and-worried-about-their-future/

Quotes to ponder:

"Sometimes, the best gift we can give our children is to help them feel okay not having all the answers."

"By encouraging curiosity, we teach our children that uncertainty can be a place of opportunity rather than fear."

"Focusing on the present can be the antidote to anxiety about the future."

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Episode 2396:

Ingrid Y. Helander explores gentle strategies to overcome social anxiety, especially during social gatherings. By shifting focus to self-discovery, connecting with one person, or taking on a supportive role, you can turn anxiety into opportunities for personal growth and authentic connections. These methods help you embrace your comfort zone while gradually expanding it.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ingridyhelanderlmft.com/3-safe-ways-to-be-a-little-more-social-and-have-a-lot-more-fun/

Quotes to ponder:

"Notice parts of you that feel broken or imperfect. These parts of you need your love and care."

"Your goal in this technique is to have just a moment to appreciate someone and feel a comfortable connection."

"Young parts of us love it when they realize we are grown and they do not have to go to the party alone."

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Episode 2395:

Evan Marc Katz explores the complexity of relationships with rocky starts, offering guidance on navigating early red flags and understanding long-term compatibility. Through Eve's story, he highlights the importance of shared goals, open communication, and addressing insecurities to create a strong foundation for lasting commitment.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/does-a-relationship-with-a-bad-beginning-mean-theres-no-potential

Quotes to ponder:

"Believe the negatives, ignore the positives. If you have a bad feeling deep down about a man’s trustworthiness? Believe that feeling."

"Ultimately, marriage is a choice, not a feeling. If either you or your boyfriend is waiting for an epiphany, you might both be waiting for a long time."

"Your life goals and your boyfriend’s life goals are one and the same."

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Episode 2394:

Dr. Diana Kirschner offers essential tips for creating meaningful online connections, helping you find potential partners who are truly compatible. From highlighting shared interests to setting boundaries on communication, these techniques can transform your dating experience and guide you toward healthy, lasting relationships.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovein90days.com/five-online-dating-communication-tips-starting-healthy-relationship/

Quotes to ponder:

"Shared interests are very important to a lasting love relationship."

"See if he flirts back with you. Flirting is a key component of healthy relationships."

"Be honest but no confessionals. Being with someone who has poor boundaries is not a setup for a healthy loving relationship!"

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Episode 2393:

Lisa Merlo-Booth offers grounded guidance for handling a partner’s emotional withdrawal by encouraging self-respect and firm boundaries. Instead of chasing or apologizing excessively, she suggests communicating limits and focusing on personal well-being, emphasizing that healthy responses can often bring clarity to both partners.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lisamerlobooth.com/the_other_side_/

Quotes to ponder:

"Set limits, be clear with your expectations, and don’t pursue someone who’s acting irresponsibly."

"When you pursue irresponsible behavior, you contribute to more irresponsible behavior."

"Realize this is irresponsible and you deserve better."

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Episode 2392:

Steve Pavlina’s insightful comparison between physical and emotional trauma underscores how, just as athletes face the dangers of repeated head injuries, many people endure “emotional concussions” by tolerating harmful environments and neglecting their own well-being. Recognizing and addressing these patterns is essential for emotional recovery, fostering healthier decision-making, and restoring self-trust.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://stevepavlina.com/blog/2020/05/emotional-concussions/

Quotes to ponder:

"Recognizing that you can’t trust your feelings is a hard realization, but if you’ve suffered the equivalent of repeated emotional concussions, then your emotional intelligence could be severely lacking."

"When your emotions are functioning well, and you consider taking a heartless job, your feelings will scream at you: What are you doing? No way!"

"Self-trust is wonderful, but it needs to be rooted in rationality."

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Episode 2391:

In Jeff Goins' reflection on fatherhood, he recounts a treasured moment when his dad gave him a custom trophy that subtly spoke volumes about love and pride. Through this story, Goins explores the quiet, often unspoken ways that fathers shape us and the complex, evolving journey we have with them, revealing how fatherhood can be both imperfect and profoundly impactful.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://goinswriter.com/dad-essay/

Quotes to ponder:

"There is a mystery to our fathers, a piece of these men that we never know. Through their silence, they teach us."

"As the years went by and I grew from a boy to a man, my relationship with my father ebbed and flowed with the patterns and conflicts of life."

"The trophy said it all: Well done."

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