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Episode 2811:

Kat Medina shares a raw and heartfelt reflection on 15 years of partnership marked by love, laughter, heartbreak, and growth. Through hilarious college memories and hard-earned life lessons, she reveals how embracing gratitude, humor, and vulnerability fuels lasting connection, even in the face of life's messiest moments.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.katmedina.com/article?id=relationship

Quotes to ponder:

"He led me to realize that there are strength and beauty in vulnerability."

"My goal is to reduce the time it takes for me to truly appreciate the challenges, allowing myself to see the beauty in each moment before it's too late."

"As long as we continue to get back up and try again, we'll be able to take on life together...and have a damn good time."

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Episode 2810:

Evan Marc Katz explores the delicate balance between staying open to love and protecting oneself emotionally, validating the emotional risks of vulnerability while offering logical strategies to maintain clarity in relationships. By recognizing early misalignments in values and goals, women can experience deep connection without sacrificing self-respect or long-term happiness.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/how-do-i-remain-open-to-love-and-also-protect-myself-emotionally

Quotes to ponder:

"It is still 'better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all,' isn't it?"

"Even if your theory that 'love is blind' is true, it doesn't mean that it should be impossible to objectively evaluate the quality and compatibility of your relationship."

"If he NEVER talks about marriage, kids, family, future, houses, etc…, the writing is largely on the wall. And it's not his fault if you never choose to read it."

Episode references:

Predictably Irrational: https://www.amazon.com/Predictably-Irrational-Revised-Expanded-Decisions/dp/0061353248

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Episode 2809:

Dr. Mariette Jansen unpacks the subtle signs of narcissistic abuse in relationships and the psychological toll it takes on victims, from diminished self-confidence to emotional isolation. Her insights encourage listeners to question not only their partners' behavior but also their own patterns, especially those rooted in unresolved trauma.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drdestress.co.uk/how-spot-narcissist-relationship/

Quotes to ponder:

"It is tough to break the silence. But the first step is a recognition of what is happening by acknowledging your feelings and behaviour."

"The victim of the narcissist desensitizes to the nastiness and will come up with excuses for unacceptable behaviour."

"You start to feel a bit lonely and alone and where you had strong and close connections in the past, these have all subsided."

Episode references:

Cognitive Dissonance (Verywell Mind): https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-cognitive-dissonance-2795012

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Episode 2808:

Andy Hill explores three thoughtful alternatives to fully merging finances in marriage, drawing on real-life examples from the personal finance community. Whether couples want to maintain autonomy, streamline shared expenses, or build in guilt-free spending, these options aim to reduce tension and better align financial habits with relationship values.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://marriagekidsandmoney.com/3-smart-alternatives-to-merging-money-in-marriage-2/

Quotes to ponder:

"What I'm finding more and more in marriage is that we need to choose what works best for us and not let other opinions interfere."

"Money is also a form of independence, and so having to negotiate with another person regarding money can create a power struggle that is really about so much more than money."

"Life is good."

Episode references:

43 Blue Doors: https://www.43bluedoors.com

Route to Retire: https://www.routetoretire.com

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Episode 2807:

Shana Olmstead invites us to transform unconscious judgment into mindful love by increasing awareness of our internal dialogue and shifting into compassion. Through simple yet powerful practices like breathwork, heart-centered reflection, and choosing loving thoughts, we can retrain our minds, release generational patterns of criticism, and elevate our energy to live more peacefully and authentically.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://shanaolmstead.com/2019/02/05/how-love-transforms-judgment/

Quotes to ponder:

"To be mindful means to be in the moment, observing without judgment."

"Our brains can't focus on judgment and love at the same time."

"Love is the most powerful energy there is."

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Episode 2806:

Allison Carmen invites us to consider how we shape our children's outlook on the future, not through fear, but with the powerful, calming philosophy of Maybe. By combining hope with presence, she shows how we can help our children navigate uncertainty, feel truly loved, and grow into resilient, grounded individuals.

Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.allisoncarmen.com/the-future-for-our-children/ & http://www.allisoncarmen.com/a-true-gift-for-our-children-our-presence/

Quotes to ponder:

"Maybe is a constant reminder to our children that there is hope in the unknown even if they don't know all the answers in the moment."

"Your mind will return to your body and you will really see your child in front of you and truly comprehend what they need in that moment."

"With your presence you can impart the strength needed for your children to go out into the world and pursue their dreams."

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Episode 2805:

Rose Lounsbury shows how to celebrate a joyful, meaningful holiday with kids, without drowning in excess. Through her minimalist yet thoughtful gift-giving approach, she proves that simplicity can still feel magical, especially when it includes experience-based gifts and intentional family traditions.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://roselounsbury.com/christmas/

Quotes to ponder:

"I believe it's possible to give generously to your children on Christmas without creating physical excess."

"When Christmas feels good, that's when you know it's right."

"It took me years to realize that Christmas is not a competition and nobody 'wins' by giving the best gift."

Episode references:

BeachBound: https://www.beachbound.com/

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Episode 2804:

Angel Chernoff outlines how to recognize the subtle and not-so-subtle behaviors of toxic friends who drain your energy, undermine your confidence, or manipulate your emotions. Understanding these warning signs can empower you to set boundaries and cultivate healthier, more supportive relationships.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.marcandangel.com/2013/04/16/10-signs-your-friend-is-toxic/

Quotes to ponder:

"Sometimes we expect more from others because we would be willing to do that much for them."

"A true friend will never put you down, intentionally or unintentionally."

"If someone in your life is bringing you down, they shouldn't be in your life."

Episode references:

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: https://www.franklincovey.com/the-7-habits/

The Four Agreements: https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319

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Episode 2803:

Leo Babauta explores the power of slowing down and choosing depth over breadth in relationships, offering mindful strategies to cultivate more meaningful connections in a distracted, fast-paced world. He shares how openness, curiosity, and vulnerability unlock greater joy, creativity, and opportunity in our lives by fostering real human connection.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://zenhabits.net/connect/

Quotes to ponder:

"We have a human need for this kind of connection, and there's no doubt that it makes us happier, even if it complicates our lives a bit."

"Try to notice your expectations of the other person, and let them go."

"When you become vulnerable, you risk a lot, but you also get much, much more."

Episode references:

Fizzle (Online Business Platform): https://fizzle.co/

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Episode 2802:

Colin Wright explores an unconventional but powerful way to reframe the end of a relationship, by throwing a breakup party. Rather than mourning or denying the loss, celebrating it helps shift focus to growth, closure, and the positive aspects of change, turning an emotional ending into an intentional new beginning.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://exilelifestyle.com/throw-breakup-party/

Quotes to ponder:

"Instead of wallowing or bottling things up or pretending everything is okay when it isn't, you treat the end of a relationship like a significant, emotional event."

"You don't pretend nothing's changed, you embrace the change and make something of it."

"A breakup party can be a way to reflect, to show appreciation, and to reframe what's happened as a net-positive, or at the very least, a meaningful experience."