It's a raspy start to the pod with Pockets losing his voice over the weekend at a queer party - but wait til you hear about the despicable behaviour by new podcast villain "Shitty Little Twink".

We had a Gaytor slide into our DMs with an update for Chris on the Shawn Mendes/Robert Irwin rumours and it is JUICY.

Budapest Pride was cancelled, but you try telling the hungry gays of Hungary that they can't party, and you'd best believe they're putting up a fight.

Our Brad continues on from last week's Brad Pitt chat with a discussion about whether A Lister Brad would ever give men a go.

Plus this week's Hottie of the Week is a hurdler who showed us a lot more than he bargained for at a recent event.

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We've got a full house this week with the boys back together and the internal flirting is at an all-time high.

Chris has been duped by AI and the deception really stings - why did he think Robert Irwin had fallen in love with a male pop star?!

Not usually one for decisiveness, Pockets took control of the group ordering at a restaurant, but a rogue dish tipped him over the edge.

Matariki has us all reflecting on our highs and lows of the year so far, and it's given Brad a push to be really open and honest about what's been going on in his life lately - we're so proud of him for opening up.

Plus there's a simple question about dinosaurs that could make or break your relationship!

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Brad's back! And the boys are begging him to show off his Speedo tan line.

There was a mid-winter Christmas gathering at Pockets' house this weekend, and his story swings wildly from wholesome slow cooker chat to debaucherous gay clubbing in a matter of minutes!

Chris was so overwhelmed by all your beautiful feedback about his journey to fatherhood, and there's an update this week - he has been *ahem* delivering samples to the clinic.

The real world MAFS experiment across the ditch has officially come to an end - so are Josh and Stefano still together?

Plus Matty and Brad Pitt shared a bed?! We're not even kidding - you won't want to miss this.

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Brad's back on Naked Attraction: All Stars but Chris and Matty have SO much to discuss.

First up, Pockets roped in his husband to reluctantly take part in a running race - so did their marriage survive? 

There is HUGE news in Chris' household involving the potential pitter-patter of little feet - you're not going to want to miss this.

We're still obsessed with the real-world MAFS experiment, but we're nervous about where it's heading.

We discuss the idea that you're either a girl's gay or a guy's gay and where we fall on the spectrum.
Plus, it wouldn't be Out The Gayte without butt chat - so bare with us as we count down the list of the hottest asses on TV.

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The boys are pumped to welcome a special guest to the pod this week - and it's someone they've been talking about for the past few weeks!

Josh Fox is a gay British man living in Australia who has been deeply invested in Married at First Sight - even hosting his own podcast on the topic, slagging off the so-called "experts" and questioning whether the experiment actually works.

So Josh decided to put his money where his mouth is, and recently married a stranger himself, documenting the process in real time on social media.

So what would happen if you stripped away all the wild reality tv dinner parties and crazy challenges, and just worked at a relationship with a stranger?

Matty and Chris have been following the journey keenly, and this week are joined by Josh to find out how the experiment is going - and it is FASCINATING.

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The boys are back, but this time they've added a fourth - and my god does it feel good.
Sexologist Morgan Penn, the host of the hit iHeart Radio podcast Sex.Life joins the boys to answer their - and your - questions about sex and relationships.

Like how often should long term couples be having sex? Or what happens if your libido is shot to pieces because of medication? Is it normal to feel shame after sex? And how do we grow our confidence in the bedroom?

This episode, more than any other, is testament to the Out The Gayte mantra that we never yuck someone's yum.

Sex.Life season 3 is out May 28th.

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The boys are all back together with the return of prodigal son Brad, and you will not BELIEVE what treats he has brought in for the team.

Chris has been getting into a TV recommendation given on the pod recently, but he really has a bone to pick with Pockets.

We do  a whip around of interesting news from the internet - including an update on the gay version of MAFS, a selection of Broadway-related thirst traps, and a coming out story that may or may not be four years old (we're talking to our research department about it.

Matty had a very interesting interaction with a well-known New Zealand celebrity involving a locked toilet cubicle - you won't want to miss this story.

Plus a selection of suggestions from our Gaytors about what should be included on a 40 before 40 list.

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It’s been a big week as Chris hit the big 4-0. So what’s he learnt, and why has he all of a sudden started crying?!

It’s got Matty thinking about his own 40th next year, and he’s wondering whether he should be putting together a to-do list of things to tick off before the milestone.

We’ve found our Hottie of the Week in the form of a Spanish football star (si Papi) who accidentally revealed more than he meant to in a recent game.

There’s a gay version of Married at First Sight that the boys are hooked on at the moment, and we cannot wait to see how it ends.

Plus what on earth is Matty’s husband Ryan hiding from him?!

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It is all go on the podcast this week, with a heartfelt and long overdue apology straight out the GAYTE from one of the boys.

We thought we knew what the gays were into until Chris turned up somewhere unexpected and found our community en masse!

Why was Pockets crying in a show about zombies, and more importantly why is he insisting we all put ourselves through it?!

One of us is having a significant birthday this week, and it got us thinking about our old man habits.

Plus all the goss from the stag do Matty threw at his house - with a surprise guest appearance from an old friend of the podcast, who had an awkward question at the end of the night.

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The boys are back after an Easter Break, although they're still blissfully unaware of what happened to Jesus after he came out of the cave.

We whip through a quick fire round of updates on previous podcast mentions, including Tiger King Joe Exotic, our favourite Australian photographer Mitchell Burns, and that Senate Twink.

Brad's been sassed over a recent home appliance purchase - but a debate ensued between the fellas.

We discussed the art of complaining after Matty wasn't happy with his hotel room.

Plus is this our new favourite sport?! Chris plays us the very dramatic trailer for - wait for it - sperm racing.

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