The boys had to start this week's episode with a gentle ribbing of Pockets who found himself the lead story on two major news publications after his disastrous weekend!

One of us is about to go to Disneyland for the first time, one of us has been EIGHT times, and one swears he’ll never ever go - can you guess who’s who?!

We discuss the news of Charlie Kirk's death, and the complicated feelings surrounding the whole event.

There was a deep dive into the gay and inclusive rugby tournament - the Purchas Cup - and just how beautiful and successful it was.

Plus why is there a straight man on TikTok rating famous men's "members"?! We're not mad, just curious.

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There's a lot in the doc this week for the boys to get through - and first thing's first, did Chris follow through with the challenge set for him to talk to his gym crush?

You know we can't resist talking about The White Lotus - and with the news that the next season will be filmed in France, we start building our dream cast.

We also have a few TV recommendations for you this week, including something for both the lesbians and the gays.

Matty has a big dilemma involving an invite to a 30th birthday dinner, and we need your help!

Plus former Deputy Prime Minister Grant Robertson has written a new book, and has posed a very interesting question: are we ready for a gay Prime Minsiter?

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Move over Sticky Bishops - there's a new fast food item taking the boys by the horns, so to speak.

None of us are immune to a cheeky perv from time to time, but it turns Chris has been checking out someone he actually knows! So the boys have set him a challenge.

There's not one, not two, but THREE hotties of the week - including the son of a very famous couple.

Brad's been investigating elephants in Sri Lanka, and it turns out they're not opposed to a bit of man on man action in the animal kingdom.

Plus was this Australian pop star flirting with Pockets?! We'll provide the evidence and let you be the judge.

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You know it’s a good week on Out The Gayte when there’s not one, but two, Hotties of the Week, and we likey.

We run through a list of things that just feel gay - like lying on your stomach on the phone.

We toss around a few ideas for the title of ep, and of course one of them is Jonathan Bailey related.

We’ve got two new words to add to your vocabulary - get ready to use dwerking and jelging in everyday conversations.

Plus we reminisce about the early days of our relationships after one of Matty's colleagues went on their first ever date, and wondered if you need to immediately feel a spark.

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There is a LOT to catch up on this week - our Papi Chris is back from Mexico with everything that went down with his surrogacy journey.

Firstly, how was the clinic's cuck chair, and what visual aids were available? But secondly, why a sea turtle felt like a message from on high.

Brad, the master of words, teaches the boys about the phrase "crutch cruise", after he swung past the local skate park for a perv.

There might be Swandris and Red Bands in Matty's future, but he needs advice from our rural Gaytors.

We've got a fresh Hottie of the Week and let's just say thick thighs get the guys.

Plus is an Out The Gayte on the cards for us?! Wait, no, we can't go making promises we can't keep...or can we?!

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A very proud moment this week, as the pairing most likely to pull pin on a podcast record manage to get together!

Chris is away in Mexico kickstarting his journey to daddyhood, and we were excited to get a voice message from him!

It was a stressful morning for Pockets, with his dog Otis going missing - find out where he ended up!

Plus is Brad a lifesaver?! He was a first responder to an incident over the weekend, and it’s a pretty crazy story.

We're obsessed with the very clever way a drag queen has called out JK Rowling.

Plus, a new hottie of the week has us obsessed with luscious locks! 

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There is big news on the pod this week - Chris has his bags packed ready to jet off to Mexico for the start of his journey to fatherhood! We get the full low down on what's involved, and the part that's already making him emotional.

Matty had a big mix-up with his Uber Eats delivery while hungover on the couch - but if there's a silver lining, at least it didn't involve a Sticky Bishop.

There's a new Hottie of the Week courtesy of Brad - all thanks to the new Happy Gilmore movie. Please welcome our favourite new crush Bad Bunny!

One of our regular Gaytors is engaged, and it's got us all in the feels about this wee community.
Plus you won't believe which celeb has released a new sex toy - and it's DOUBLE SIDED!

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The boys are strapped in, but it turns out Brad and Matty have been seeing a lot of each other recently.

First there was the birthday dinner where Brad learnt something about Pockets that he's been hiding, and it got him very hot and bothered.

Then the two of them had a date night Saturday night at Brad's house - and yes, it did involve a Sticky Bishop - but Matty needs to confess something.

Chris brings a brand-new term to the table - soft swapping - but we think it might be more intimate than straight sex.

Plus, apparently there's a hot new city for the gays, and it's right here in Aotearoa - but you'll never guess where!

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The boys, perhaps for the first time in Out The Gayte history, have followed through with something! The plans made it out of the group chat and the fellas headed along to the Falcons strip show fundraiser.

But before that, there were pre-drinks at Brad's, and Chris found something in his bathroom that he's never mentioned to us before now.

Speaking of bathrooms, you will not believe what was found in the locker rooms after swim club last week - it is shocking, and Brad SWEARS it's not his.

Plus Matty's become an accidental auctioneer, but maybe he should've had a couple less beers before he picked up the gavel. 

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Never heard the phrase “sticky bishop” before?! Don't stress - by the end of this episode, you'll have heard it 100 times.

Matty watched the rugby on the weekend as was suddenly very interested in the commentary after some wildly sexual innuendo.

Speaking of rugby, we were very invested in Brad's story about the straight team mates who got a little...umm...gay in the locker rooms.

The baby journey is continuing at light speed for Chris - so much so that he's off to Mexico in a matter of weeks to get up close and personal with a cup.

Plus you won't believe who knocked on Pockets' door the other morning while he *ahem* enjoyed his own company.

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