Outsmart Overeating

It's 9pm. You told yourself today would be different. And here you are, standing in the kitchen, eating something you swore off, already planning how you'll "start over" tomorrow. Again.

This doesn't happen because you lack willpower. It's what happens when your diet is so extreme your brain eventually rebels. Feeling deprived from your dieting rules is what's driving the binge, not the other way around.

Coach Steph Miramontes and I break down Outsmart Overeating, our six-week program that helps women stop binge and emotional eating for good, plus exactly what's inside it.

In this episode:

• The 3 types of women who struggle most with food (you'll probably clock yourself in one)
• Why restriction, not lack of discipline, is what's actually driving the bingeing
• A week-by-week look at the program: from the MindShift Method in week one, to breaking the binge/emotional eating cycle in week three, to tackling self-sabotage in week five
• What you get each week: live group coaching, 1:1 attention, and a 100% money-back guarantee
• The fear hiding underneath "what if I gain weight if I stop dieting"

Plus, the doors open for our next Outsmart Overeating group August 31 - September 3rd. Click here to join the Interest List. No obligation to join, just first access to the program details and exclusive fast action bonuses.

You can also connect with Leslie & Steph on Instagram.

If you want to learn how to not-only lose weight, but also lose the struggle along side it, you can get started by taking the Weight Loss Psychology Quiz: Discover Your Diet Personality Type

Why does discipline seem to work everywhere else in your life except with dieting? Why do you white-knuckle a diet for months, then binge on the one thing you "weren't allowed" to have? Why does getting "back on track" never actually stick?

Agne asked herself those exact questions for 20 years. Cabbage soup diets, keto, six-day CrossFit weeks, a coach who told her maybe her body was just built to stay stuck.

She joined Outsmart Overeating in 2023 and shared her story on the podcast in fall 2024. Listen to that episode here.

Now she's back, two years later, with the real answer: the food rules were never the problem. Her thinking was.

This episode breaks down exactly what changed and how, so you can start applying it today:

• Why you can't diet your way out of a mindset problem
• How rigid, perfectionistic rules create the exact bingeing they're meant to prevent
• What it actually looks like to loosen your grip on control without your life falling apart
• Why needing support again after progress isn't failure (and what to do when it happens)

If you're tired of "getting back on track," start here.

Doors open for our next Outsmart Overeating group August 31 - September 3rd. Click here to join the Interest List. No obligation to join, just first access to the program details and exclusive fast action bonuses.

You can also connect with Leslie & Steph on Instagram.

If you want to learn how to not-only lose weight, but also lose the struggle along side it, you can get started by taking the Weight Loss Psychology Quiz: Discover Your Diet Personality Type

Ever notice how right before you're about to make a change in your life, your brain immediately comes up with a thousand reasons why you shouldn't?

That's fear. Your brain's only job is to keep you safe and familiar, not happy or fulfilled. That's why you keep going back to the same diets and rules that have already failed you, over and over.

Same fear that keeps people stuck in jobs or relationships they've outgrown. It shows up at your dinner table too.

Coach Steph and I get into why your brain hands you a pile of excuses the second you try something different, even after what you're doing now hasn't worked.

I also share the scariest thing I've ever done (quit my career, sold everything, moved to NYC with two suitcases) and what it taught me about acting scared instead of waiting for the fear to pass.

What you'll get:

• Why your brain fights change, even good change
• How to tell real intuition from fear in disguise
• Why more of what hasn't worked won't get you anywhere new
• What it feels like when food stops taking up so much space in your head

Nothing changes if nothing changes. Pick one thing and use it tonight.

Doors open for our next Outsmart Overeating group August 31 - September 3rd. Click here to join the Interest List. No obligation to join, just first access to the program details and exclusive fast action bonuses.

You can also connect with Leslie & Steph on Instagram.

If you want to learn how to not-only lose weight, but also lose the struggle along side it, you can get started by taking the Weight Loss Psychology Quiz: Discover Your Diet Personality Type

Client, Beth, spent 33 years on the diet hamster wheel. Six feet tall since high school, she never fit the mold, so she spent decades running the numbers: calories counted, macros tracked, every bite calculated before it hit her plate.

She swore she wasn't an emotional eater. Turns out, wanting to eat something just because it tastes good IS emotional eating. Nobody told her that.

Today, on her 53rd birthday, she's eating cake without the guilt spiral. No calorie math. No "I'll start over Monday." Just food, freedom, and sleep that isn't wrecked by shame.

Here's what you'll walk away with:

• Why "emotional eating" doesn't look like sad-girl ice cream binges, and what it actually looks like for high-achievers
• The real reason trigger foods lose their power (hint: it's not willpower)
• How to tell the difference between over-desire and actual hunger
• Why going "overboard" with a forbidden food can be part of healing, not a relapse
• The exact self-talk that replaces number-crunching at every meal

If you've built a successful career and a solid life but can't crack this one thing, Beth's story will hit different. This isn't about another diet. It's about learning to trust yourself again.

Doors open for our next Outsmart Overeating group August 31 - September 3rd. Click here to join the Interest List. No obligation to join, just first access to the program details and exclusive fast action bonuses.

You can also connect with Leslie & Steph on Instagram.

If you want to learn how to not-only lose weight, but also lose the struggle along side it, you can get started by taking the Weight Loss Psychology Quiz: Discover Your Diet Personality Type

Goals feel amazing to set. They just don't work.

"Once the kids are back in school, I'm starting fresh." You've said some version of that sentence more times than you can count. You set the goal, you get the rush, you white-knuckle it for three weeks, then you fall off. Then comes the guilt. The shame. The "why can't I just stick to anything" spiral.

Here's the truth: goals aren't the problem. They're the easy part. It's the boring, unsexy habits underneath them that create real, lasting change. Nobody wants to talk about that, because habits don't come with a before-and-after photo.

In this episode, Coach Steph Miramontes and I break down why even well-intentioned goals collapse under real life, and what to build instead.

You'll learn:

• Why goals have a finish line and habits don't
• The mindset shift that changes how you approach food for good
• The exact keystone habits creating outsized results for our clients
• Why waiting for the "right time" sets you up to fail
• How to stop negotiating with yourself over every bite

You don't need an overhaul. You need one small, repeatable habit. Pick one. Start today.

You can also connect with Leslie & Steph on Instagram.

Be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the Interest List. If you want to learn how to not-only lose weight, but also lose the struggle along side it, you can get started by taking the Weight Loss Psychology Quiz: Discover Your Diet Personality Type

You've counted the calories. Weighed the food. Followed the plan to the letter. So why are you still standing in the pantry at 9pm, promising yourself Monday will be different?

Here's the uncomfortable truth: this isn't a food problem. It's a thought problem.

Every diet has you managing the action: track this, skip that, get back on track. But if the thought underneath stays broken, "I already blew it, might as well keep going," you'll keep landing in the same place no matter how well you follow the plan.

Wrong address, perfect directions. Still lost.

Steph and I break down the real mechanism behind change this week:

• Why changing what you eat has to start with changing how you think, not the reverse
• The thought → feeling → action chain running every single bite
• The exact reframe for the second you think "screw it, I'll start over tomorrow"
• Why identity, not discipline, decides what you do next
• Where this overlaps with therapy, and where it doesn't

You'll leave with a shift you can use tonight, standing in front of that same pantry.

You can also connect with Leslie & Steph on Instagram.

Be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the Interest List. If you want to learn how to not-only lose weight, but also lose the struggle along side it, you can get started by taking the Weight Loss Psychology Quiz: Discover Your Diet Personality Type

Your brain takes 20 minutes to register fullness. By then, you've usually finished eating 15 minutes ago.

That's the physical piece. But if you've spent years dieting, stopping when you're full isn't just about timing. It's about scarcity, habit, and emotional attachment to food that no amount of willpower can override.

In this episode, Steph and I break down exactly why fullness feels impossible to read and what to actually do about it.

You'll learn:

• The 4 physical signs your body gives you when it's done eating (most people miss all of them)
• Why "just eat slower" isn't the fix, and what actually rewires this
• The permission reframe that kills the "last chance" panic around food
• Better questions to ask mid-meal instead of "do I want more?" (spoiler: you always want more)
• Why tracking your fullness on a 1-10 scale actually works

These aren't abstract concepts. You can try the mid-meal pause at your very next meal today.

If you've ever looked down at an empty plate and thought "where did my food go?", this one's for you.

Want more support? We're building our interest list for the next round of Outsmart Overeating.

You can also connect with Leslie & Steph on Instagram.

Be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the Interest List. If you want to learn how to not-only lose weight, but also lose the struggle along side it, you can get started by taking the Weight Loss Psychology Quiz: Discover Your Diet Personality Type

Here's why you keep "falling off" your diet by Thursday, even though Monday-you had the best intentions.

Dieters often want to blame their lack of willpower, discipline or for being weak, but it has nothing to do with that. It's a psychological problem.

In this episode, Coach Steph and I break down the four ways your brain rebels against restriction, and why the stricter your rules, the harder you crash. If you've ever cleared out the pantry after a "bad" weekend, you need to hear this.

We're covering:

• The Monday-Thursday split: why the version of you who made the rules isn't the version who has to follow them
• The pink elephant problem: why banning a food guarantees you'll obsess over it
• The rebellious teenager response: why your brain fights back the second something feels off-limits
• The exhale effect: why "blowing it" isn't a lack of control, it's relief from mental exhaustion

And we don't just leave you with the why. You'll walk away with two shifts you can start using today: how to trade rigid rules for real reasons, and how to give yourself permission without becoming permissive.

If you're smart, disciplined, and still can't crack this one thing, this episode is for you.

You can also connect with Leslie & Steph on Instagram.

Be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the Interest List. If you want to learn how to not-only lose weight, but also lose the struggle along side it, you can get started by taking the Weight Loss Psychology Quiz: Discover Your Diet Personality Type

A woman on Reddit is down 50 pounds, going through a brutal breakup, and spiraling into emotional binge eating. She wants to know if GLP-1s will fix it.

Coach Steph and I give her an honest, judgment-free answer and it's probably not what she's expecting.

Here's what we get into:

• Why emotional eating and binge eating aren't two separate problems (and what's actually driving the behavior)
• What GLP-1s actually do and why they're the wrong tool for this specific situation
• Why "time heals all wounds" is a lie your nervous system doesn't believe
• The real reason food becomes your go-to during heartbreak, grief, and life upheaval
• What emotional regulation actually looks like and the skill set that changes everything

This episode isn't about shaming anyone for reaching for a quick fix. It's about understanding why the quick fix won't work and what will.

If you've ever found yourself eating when you're not even hungry, this one's for you.

You can also connect with Leslie & Steph on Instagram.

Be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the Interest List. If you want to learn how to not-only lose weight, but also lose the struggle along side it, you can get started by taking the Weight Loss Psychology Quiz: Discover Your Diet Personality Type

You can't solve a problem you haven't correctly identified.

That's exactly why so many smart, successful women stay stuck in the cycle of overeating, guilt, and starting over on Monday. They're trying to fix the behavior without understanding what's actually driving it.

In this episode, Coach Steph and I break down the three most common overeating patterns we see in women: emotional eating, binge eating, and habitual overeating. Because while they can look similar on the surface, they're very different problems—and each requires a different solution.

We'll help you identify what's really happening when you overeat so you can stop blaming your willpower and start making changes that actually last.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• The key differences between emotional eating, binge eating, and habitual overeating

• Why so many women mistakenly label every overeat as a binge

• The hidden role dieting and restriction play in binge eating

• How everyday habits can lead to weight gain without you realizing it

• Questions to ask yourself when you're eating outside of hunger

• Practical first steps you can start using today to interrupt overeating patterns

If you've spent years calorie counting, starting over on Monday, and wondering why food feels harder for you than everyone else, this episode will help you understand what's actually happening and what to do about it.

You can also connect with Leslie & Steph on Instagram.

Be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the Interest List. If you want to learn how to not-only lose weight, but also lose the struggle along side it, you can get started by taking the Weight Loss Psychology Quiz: Discover Your Diet Personality Type