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Since 2010, Nikki Kinzer and Pete Wright have been the co-hosts of the award-winning podcast, Taking Control: The ADHD Podcast, speaking to adults with ADHD all over the globe. Over 29 seasons—and more than 600 episodes—Nikki and Pete continue to offer support and strategies for adults living with ADHD. And now they decided to write their first book, Unapologetically ADHD.

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Links Mentioned:

Unapologetically ADHD by Nikki Kinzer and Pete Wright:  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1394265425/?tag=im0ea3-20

Taking Control:  The ADHD Podcast:  https://takecontroladhd.com/the-adhd-podcast

Shame Resilience: A Key Component in ADHD Wellness:  https://youtu.be/ZvV3GdXiE8s

Success! A Mother’s Journey From Shame to Acceptance:  https://youtu.be/nXuBh5n8DEg?si=V9xAbko0eE8G-UTE

Medical Bias vs. ADHD: The History of a Smear Campaign:  https://youtu.be/0Cdcg5nwV2Y

CBT for ADHD: Thoughts Don't Cause ADHD, But They Can Help Manage It:  https://youtu.be/S-pgDRjS7zQ?feature=shared

Magic 3 Questions: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/learn-from-mistakes/

3 Step Method to ACE Communication with Complex Kids & Teens:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/3-steps-to-ace-communication-with-complex-kids-teens/

3 Steps to Respond Without Reacting:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/3-steps-to-respond-without-reacting/

Failing Forward: Make Every Mistake a New One:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/failing-forward/

What Does it Mean to “Treat” ADHD?:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/what-does-it-mean-to-treat-adhd-2/

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Website: takecontroladhd.com

Unapologetically ADHD by Nikki Kinzer and Pete Wright: takecontroladhd.com/adhdbook

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What does it mean to break down information in order to build up social competencies? And how does that relate to people with compelling social anxiety? In this discussion with the founder of Social Thinking, Michelle Garcia Winner, we explore the relationship between "being social" and social cognition (ie. social thinking). We touch on four areas of executive function that can foster our ability to learn how to take action on social dynamics that we want to do and are important to us. Get a better understanding of social dynamics and how to help your kids navigate them.

Michelle Garcia Winner, MA, CCC-SLP, is the founder and CEO of Think Social Publishing, Inc, (a.k.a. Social Thinking). She is a globally recognized thought leader, author, speaker, and social-cognitive therapist who is dedicated to fostering awareness and development of our social-emotional and organizational selves, both neurodivergent and neurotypical. Across her 30+ year career she has created numerous evidence-based strategies, treatment frameworks, and curricula to help family members as well the professionals who support them foster the development of social and organizational competencies and problem solving. Her methodology is most effective with children and adults who have a solid command of expressive and receptive language. Michelle and her team continually update the Social Thinking® Methodology based on the latest research and clinical insights.

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Michelle stresses the importance of understanding the individual you are trying to help. Tailoring social strategies based on the person's specific challenges and strengths can significantly enhance their social learning experience.

Michelle explains managing social anxiety requires self-regulation, flexibility, and self-compassion. Encouraging individuals to be kind to themselves and allowing them to progress at their own pace can foster a more comfortable social interaction environment.

Michelle highlights the significance of working through the social learning process slowly and deliberately.

Links Mentioned:

Website:  socialthinking.com 

Addressing Social Competencies and Social Anxiety:  https://www.socialthinking.com/Articles?name=anxiety-and-social-competencies

Is Anxiety Making it More Difficult to Diagnose ADHD?:  https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/is-anxiety-making-it-more-difficult-to-diagnose-adhd/

Did Social Anxiety Make Me a Leader?:  https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/did-social-anxiety-make-me-a-leader/

Treating Depression & Anxiety Disorder in People with ADHD:  https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/recognize-treat-depression-anxiety-disorder-adhd/

12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind, Survive Everyday Parenting Struggles, and Help Your Family Thrive: https://drdansiegel.com/whole-brain-child-handouts/

Executive Function Skills - What Every Parent Needs to Know:  https://youtu.be/_s1Kj0lEzkA

Helping Complex Kids Process: A Student Coach's SUCCESS STORY:  https://youtu.be/XtH5vBXtJ7E

Helping Kids Become Better Problem-Solvers:  https://youtu.be/RHMxf7tMlJU

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Website:  www.socialthinking.com

LinkedIn:  linkedin.com/company/socialthinking

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Parenting With ImpListen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss Emotional Intelligence.

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Elaine and Diane explain children learn by example, so showing them how to express emotions in a healthy and constructive way can have a lasting impact.

Elaine and Diane suggest helping your children develop healthy coping mechanisms for dealing with difficult emotions, such as deep breathing exercises.

Elaine highlights that children on the spectrum may encounter challenges in interpreting social cues; stressing the need for custom strategies to help developing these skills.

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Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s

The 3A's: A Framework for Parenting Complex Kids:  https://youtu.be/URLEsgftZ5o

Deal Them In: Using Playing Cards for Social Skills:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/deal-them-in-using-playing-cards-for-social-skills/

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Dr. Andreas Krafft holds a doctorate in Management Sciences from the University of St. Gallen, specializing in Organizational Psychology, Culture, and Development. With academic expertise in Social, Work, and Health Psychology, as well as Positive Psychology from the University of Zürich, he serves as an associate researcher and lecturer at St. Gallen and teaches at universities in Zürich, Lisbon, and Berlin. He is co-president of swissfuture, a board member of SWIPPA and DACH-PP, and leads the International Research Network of the Hope-Barometer, with multiple publications on hope.

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Andreas stresses that our perceptions of the future play a significant role in shaping our present behaviors and quality of life.

In his book "Our Hopes, Our Future," Andreas argues that maintaining hope is a responsibility we owe to ourselves and future generations.

Andreas highlights the importance of viewing the future as something to be actively constructed and shaped.

Related Links: https://link.springer.com/book/10.1007/978-3-662-66205-2

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Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the three A’s: Awareness, Acknowledgment, and Action.

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Elaine and Diane emphasize the importance of approaching challenges with an open mind and a willingness to experiment.

"Commit to calm before you take action;" By cultivating a sense of calm and mindfulness, parents can make more deliberate and effective decisions in response to their children's behaviors.

Elaine and Diane highlight the value of involving children in the decision-making process and seeking their feedback.

Related Links:

Welcome to Parenting With Impact:  https://youtu.be/FykSBnaWXhk

How Do I Get My Kids to Talk to Me? 4 Communication Tools:  https://youtu.be/z_sfOuGaEC0

Motivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.:  https://youtu.be/2TkKOif9LrU?si=gJEd8lpgqd7KUd_P

Accommodations vs. Remediation - What's the Parent's Role?:  https://youtu.be/2tfQ4nZDs2E?si=Ysl6UyqmxyZyIIUd

Self-Awareness, Self-Regulation & Self Management:  https://youtu.be/V49MEzft064?si=jSOOO4ZmjvEiaVu6

The Independence Pyramid: Big Picture and Daily Tasks:  https://youtu.be/Z6AiUIxhWnE?si=cXo9oxKWOX1YE-PA

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In the world of childhood ADHD, you may have heard of Oppositional Defiance Disorder (ODD), and you might even have some opinions about it, too. It often travels with untreated ADHD. But as the medical community begins to understand the overlap between ADHD and Autism, we want to invite you to learn more about a presentation of Autism called PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance). To be honest, there’s some controversy about this diagnosis, because it exists in the UK and Australia, but not officially in the US. So, let’s focus instead on the reality of what’s going on when a child resists and avoids the demands of life! In our community, we’ve learned that if you can understand what’s underlying troublesome behaviors, you can support them better. And this conversation with Nicola is guaranteed to help you do just that! 

Nicola Reekie is a parent to a young, autistic person who has a PDA profile. PDA is an abbreviation for Pathological Demand Avoidance or, as some prefer, Pervasive Drive for Autonomy. Her mission is to support families and professionals in understanding PDA, and she founded The PDA Space to provide resources that will deepen their understanding to create a safer environment for young people. A solution-focused therapist, Nicola collaborates with many amazing families, education and healthcare professionals to information and an excellent support network that supports their emotional well-being and helps to create calm in often challenging situations.

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The episode highlights the significance of approaching individuals with PDA with compassion and understanding, focusing on their unique needs rather than demanding conformity.

Nicola emphasizes the importance of establishing connections and collaborating with individuals with PDA.

Nicola explains framing behaviors as neurologically driven rather than defiant can shift the perspective and reduce stigma.

Links Mentioned:

Bloody Awesome Parents Awards:  https://www.myfamilyourneeds.co.uk/baps/

Website:  https://www.thepdaspace.com

Autism, PDA & Combative Behaviors:  https://youtu.be/fmFRyyelMsQ

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Dr. Robert Melillo is a leading expert in developmental neurological conditions such as ADHD, autism, OCD, tics, dyslexia, anxiety, and depression in both children and adults. With extensive knowledge of brain function, he has perfected a noninvasive, multi-modal method

to significantly improve and correct many neurological disorders.

His expertise in functional neuroanatomy and neurophysiology is unparalleled, backed by 30 years as a clinician, professor, brain researcher, and bestselling author. His book Disconnected Kids, soon

to release its 3rd edition, is a cornerstone in its genre, translated into

16 languages. Co-founder of Brain Balance Achievement Centers and developer of the Melillo Method®, he also runs the Melillo Center for Developing Minds in NY. Dr. Melillo directs the National Institute for Brain and Rehabilitation Sciences and co-hosts the web series Disconnected Kids Reconnected Families with his wife Carolyn, boasting over 3 million views. He also hosts The Melillo Method Podcast, Everything Brain.

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Robert explains disruptions in brain connectivity between hemispheres are linked to neurobehavioral and mental health issues, indicating the importance of targeted interventions, especially within the first six years of life.

Robert stresses the importance of paying attention to developmental milestones, as they are crucial in shaping brain development.

Robert emphasizes that all adult mental health issues stem from childhood, particularly from imbalances in the right and left brain development.

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Books:

Disconnected Kids:  https://www.amazon.com/dp/0399172440?ref=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_GXXDS5SW689NTSK4JWH1&ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_GXXDS5SW689NTSK4JWH1&social_share=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_GXXDS5SW689NTSK4JWH1

Autism: The Scientific Truth About Preventing, Diagnosing, and Treating Autism Spectrum Disorders--and What Parents Can Do:  https://www.amazon.com/Autism-Scientific-Preventing-Diagnosing-Disorders/dp/0399159541/ref=sr_1_5?crid=28322IR43ZVSL&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.lFnY7GWjvemw1XXB6ee5pIh_Szg7dz8jQB2geNhTOZx9OVMT9TmfuH_44ThEsYpQiT-YqypYifYAPnXy9YQP7Wymi_Q5iyuljW_zpSF9ysCzVaZ__1MO33ffI8KR3Oh4GBzLmzKy6xYoUrnbUf33fo7x5zSEQzifQRw4Cjh1GwkhqcW_HbPBIXkfDLb9n4VbT3kkUvlhy-_OerkwvD3qzsHXll_KhzsNTLDzd-QcWa0.qjfOWKBKA9ArOlyjgcvi5stog6IpSg-v1uwaQXBkOqc&dib_tag=se&keywords=dr+robert+melillo&qid=1727101629&s=books&sprefix=dr+robert+melill%2Cstripbooks%2C162&sr=1-5

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Whether you’re talking about ADHD, Autism, or 2e, developing neurodivergent brains in kids require adults to understand what it takes to get activated. The ADHD brain, for example, is understimulated. It doesn’t respond to rewards the same way as neurotypical brains. And it has a complicated relationship with motivation. So how can you help kids with ADHD (and other kinds of neurodiversity) to get essential stuff done? One key motivational tool is novelty. Join us to understand better why ADHD brains thrive on novelty, how novelty and motivation are tied together, and how you as a parent or a professional can integrate novelty when supporting your kids (of any age!). And remember: this fundamental hack can serve you well with all members of your family and community.

Emily Kircher-Morris, M.A., M.Ed., LPC, is a former educator, author, and speaker. Inspired by her own experiences as a neurodivergent person, she is dedicated to destigmatizing neurodiversity and supporting neurodivergent people of all ages. She hosts The Neurodiversity Podcast, which explores the psychological, educational, and social needs of neurodivergent people, and is the author of several books, including "Teaching Twice-Exceptional Learners in Today's Classroom"(Free Spirit Publishing, 2021), "Raising Twice-Exceptional Children" (Taylor & Francis, 2022), "A Parent's Guide to Gifted Children" (Gifted Unlimited, LLC, 2023), and "Neurodiversity-Affirming Schools" (Free Spirit Publishing, in press). She speaks at statewide, national, and international conferences and is in private practice in Missouri.

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Emily highlights the importance of incorporating novelty in educational settings to engage neurodivergent individuals effectively.

Tailored strategies and support, like universal design for learning, are crucial in catering to the specific needs of neurodivergent students and those facing situational neurodiversity challenges.

Emily stresses the importance of validating parents' efforts in supporting their neurodivergent kids, acknowledging the learning journey both for the child and the parent in understanding themselves and their unique needs.

Links Mentioned:

Podcast:  https://neurodiversitypodcast.com

2E Kids & Adults: When Easy is Hard and Hard is Easy:  https://youtu.be/jP756LLv3XU

What's Different About a 2E Kid?:  https://youtu.be/B2-vJYDv8KU

Motivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.:  https://youtu.be/2TkKOif9LrU?si=gJEd8lpgqd7KUd_P

Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s

High-Tech Solutions for Those with ADHD:  https://www.blogtalkradio.com/attentiontalkradio/2020/11/04/high-tech-solutions-for-those-with-adhd

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Parent focus in parenting is an increasingly important topic in today's complex, globalized society. Elaine and Diane bring unique perspectives to this discussion, rooted in their experiences and beliefs. Elaine emphasizes the crucial role of self-care for parents, likening it to the necessity of putting on one’s oxygen mask first. She believes that addressing parents' own emotional struggles and needs is essential for them to effectively support their children, arguing that traditional methods often overlook this aspect. Diane, on the other hand, focuses on empowering parents to take control of their thoughts and actions without self-blame. She highlights the significant influence parents have on their children's development, stressing that understanding and addressing their own issues can help them better meet their children's unique needs. Both women agree that by managing their stress and emotions, parents can create a supportive and healthy environment conducive to child development.

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Elaine and Diane explain parents should seek training that includes shifting mindsets, acquiring new skills, seeking community support, and receiving feedback from professionals

Elaine and Diane stress that prioritizing self-care is crucial for effective parenting, as parents need to take care of themselves to provide the best support for their children.

Parents should work on their inner emotional struggles to be a calm and guiding presence for their children, ultimately fostering a supportive environment for their development.

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Recommended Treatment:  https://impactparents.com/help-for-parents/recommended-treatment/

The Coach-Approach to Parenting: https://impactparents.com/help-for-parents/the-coach-approach-to-parenting/

Become A Dive Bomber Parent: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/become-a-dive-bomber-parent/

How Do I Check-In On my Kids Without Nagging?:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/how-to-check-in-on-kids-without-nagging/

Tip for Handling it When Kids Don’t Do What You Ask:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/when-kids-dont-do-what-you-ask/

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Lynne Hughes lost both her parents by the age of 12. She recognized the lack of resources available to her as a grieving child, and into adult life realized child bereavement resources were still nonexistent. So, she took her love for summer camp and founded Comfort Zone Camp, the first-ever national 501(c)3 bereavement camp for grieving children and families. Since its inception in 1998, CZC has helped over 24,000 grieving children.

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Website - https://comfortzonecamp.org/

Camp Calendar - https://comfortzonecamp.org/calendar/

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