PerformHappy with Rebecca Smith

In this week’s PerformHappy Podcast, I’m joined by sport parent and PerformHappy alum, Susan Bardack, for a real, honest conversation about the rollercoaster of raising an athlete.

Susan shares her daughter Ashland’s journey from gymnastics to D1 college diving, including how they navigated tough mental blocks and the moment everything shifted—when Susan stopped pushing and started trusting.

We talk about the lessons parents often learn the hard way, the impact of pressure (even when it's well-meaning), and how letting go actually helped Ashland find her confidence, joy, and success in sport.

If you're a parent trying to support your athlete without adding stress, this episode is for you.

In this episode, Coach Rebecca and Susan Bardack talk about:

Transition from Gymnastics to Diving.

Navigating Mental Blocks in Sports.

Finding the Right Coaching Fit.

Embracing Patience in Sports.

Choosing the Right College Program.

The Balance of Support and Independence with an Athlete. 

Listening to Fears: Acknowledging Emotions in Sports.

Finding the Right Sport

“It's okay to switch sports.” – Susan Bardack

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There’s a specific kind of heartbreak that hits when your child doesn’t get moved up to the next level, especially when all their friends do. You see it in their face. You feel it in the silence on the car ride home. And as a parent, you just want to fix it. You want to make it better; give them hope and tell them to keep pushing. But deep down, you might already know… this just isn’t going to go the way they hoped.

In this week’s episode of the PerformHappy Podcast, I’m diving into this all-too-familiar scenario. Whether it’s not moving up, not making the team, or falling short of a goal they’ve worked so hard for, disappointment is part of the journey—and it’s one of the hardest parts to navigate.

I’ll share actionable tips to help you show up for your athlete in those tough moments—not with empty encouragement or forced positivity, but with presence, perspective, and support that actually helps them process what they’re going through. Because these are the moments that build mental toughness. Not just for your athlete, but for you, too.

If you’ve ever found yourself sitting beside a teary-eyed kid, unsure of what to say or do, this episode is for you. Let’s walk through it together. Listen in now, wherever you get your podcasts.

In this episode, Coach Rebecca talks about:

Understanding the Athlete's Journey.

Navigating Parental Support.

Building Resilience Through Experience.

The Importance of Emotional Neutrality.

Preparing for Life's Challenges.

“When a gymnast feels a parent's love is tied to their performance, they start believing mistakes make them less lovable—and that pressure leads to mental blocks.” - Rebecca Smith

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If your athlete is stuck in a mental block, you’re not alone. That’s exactly what I’m diving into on this week’s PerformHappy Podcast — because fear is something so many athletes struggle with, and honestly, it was my biggest struggle too.

You know the feeling — your athlete says they’re not scared, but they just can’t go. Or maybe they are scared and don’t know how to stop feeling that way. Either way, it can be incredibly frustrating for everyone involved.

In this episode, I’m breaking down why fear shows up (even when it doesn’t always make sense), and I’m walking you through the exact 3-step method we use inside the PerformHappy Community to help athletes move through fear and come out stronger on the other side.

Here’s the good news:
 If you apply these steps for just 10 minutes a day this summer, your athlete can start making real progress — and even have a breakthrough.

Ready to help your athlete move past fear for good? Listen to the full episode now, and let's get to work.

In this episode, Coach Rebecca talks about:

Overcoming Mental Blocks in Sports.

Understanding Mental Blocks and Their Impact.

The Perform Happy Method Explained.

Building Trust and Confidence in Athletes.

Introducing the Peak Performance Phase.

“A mental block isn’t a problem — it’s an opportunity.” - Rebecca Smith

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It’s frustrating. You’re doing everything “right.” You’ve got the mindset tools, the journaling prompts, the visualizations… but it’s still not clicking. In this week’s PerformHappy Podcast, I’m diving into a truth most people don’t talk about: sometimes mental training doesn’t work.

Yep, I said it. There are athletes who put in the effort and still feel stuck.

In this episode, I unpack the common reasons why—even with all the best tools—some kids don’t see results. And (spoiler alert), it’s not because they’re broken or lazy. A lot of the time, it has to do with what the adults in their life are doing (or not doing).

If you’re a parent or coach who’s wondering why the mental training isn’t translating into progress, I’ll give you a quick overview of what might be getting in the way—and what to do about it.

Listen in if you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and finally help your athlete get unstuck.

In this episode, Coach Rebecca talks about:

The Limitations of Mental Training.

The Role of Parents and Coaches in Mental Training.

The Impact of External Pressures on Mental Training.

The Importance of Trust and Growth Mindset 

“Kids who stay stuck in fear long-term usually have a parent or coach issue behind it." - Rebecca Smith

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This week on the PerformHappy Podcast, I got to switch things up—I was the one answering the questions!

I had the pleasure of sitting down with Lacey Rochelle from Shine Health Coaching to dive deep into the science behind fear and how it shows up in performance. We unpacked quick, practical tips for staying present when the pressure’s on, and talked about what it really takes to move from stuck to confident.

Whether you're an athlete, a parent, or a coach, you’ll hear how the right kind of support—from coaches, parents, and teammates—can make all the difference in building trust and resilience.

If you’re looking for a mindset shift to finally kick those mental blocks and get into flow, this episode is for you.

In this episode, Coach Rebecca and Lacey Rochelle talk about:

Performance Anxiety in Sports.

The Role of Exposure in Overcoming Fear.

Navigating Public Pressure and Performance.

Experiencing Flow in Sports.

The Importance of Being Present.

Understanding the Human Brain's Response to Threat.

Building Stress Tolerance and Resilience.

The Importance of Support Networks.

Key Tips for Optimal Mental Performance.

“If you don't think you're good enough, you perform like that." - Rebecca Smith

Lacey Rochelle's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laceyrochelle_/

Lacey Rochelle’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LaceyRochelle

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Do you know an athlete who’s super bendy, always impressing with their flexibility, but constantly dealing with little injuries or pain that won’t go away? In this week’s PerformHappy Podcast, I sat down with chiropractor and hypermobility expert Dr. Taylor Goldberg to unpack exactly what’s going on behind the scenes for these “Gumby-like” athletes.

Dr. Goldberg shares her own journey as a high-level cheerleader—how being extra flexible wasn’t always the gift it seemed—and what she wishes she had known back then. We talk about the real risks of pushing flexibility too far (yep, we’re talking about over splits), and how strength is the missing link that could help save ultra-flexible athletes from years of chronic pain.

If you’re a parent or coach of a super bendy kid, this episode is a must. You’ll learn how to spot hypermobility, why traditional stretching might be making things worse, and what you can do instead to build strength, prevent injuries, and support long-term health.

In this episode, Coach Rebecca and  Dr. Taylor Goldberg talk about:

Understanding Hypermobility: Definitions and Types.

The Key Indicators of Hypermobility.

Injury Prevention for Hypermobile Athletes.

Screening and Diagnosis of Hypermobility.

Coaching Strategies for Hypermobile Athletes.

Mindfulness and Mental Health for Hypermobility.

“Overstretching is extremely dangerous and unnecessary." - Dr. Taylor Goldberg

Dr. Taylor Goldberg's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehypermobilechiro/

Dr. Taylor Goldberg’s Website: https://thehypermobilechiro.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAafMoYX_8IbeV8g-Zbyq0Gw5eQAo7Hif0G7d8nQbStTQ6hnbniXJRLZSWyobmw_aem_H_S9KSg-q4GKfdxx_Ci1yQ

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Today on the PerformHappy Podcast, I’m thrilled to introduce you to one of our own – Coach Sam, also known around here as Samantha Buxbaum. Sam is a fearless athlete who has competed in gymnastics, diving, and now rock climbing, and she brings so much wisdom from her journey through high-risk sports.

In this episode, Sam shares her experience with fear, mental training, and how critical self-advocacy is for athletes in what we call “scary sports.” She also dives into the ABC Framework — a simple, effective way to help athletes manage fear and build resilience.

Whether you're an athlete, a parent, or a coach, this conversation is packed with practical advice on how to support kids through the mental challenges that come with pushing physical limits. Plus, you’ll get to know Coach Sam a little better and hear why we’re so lucky to have her on the Complete Performance Coaching team.

In this episode, Coach Rebecca and  Samantha Buxbaum talk about:

Introduction to Coach Sam Buxbaum.

Sam's Journey in Sports and Gymnastics.

The Importance of Self-Love and Body Image.

Navigating Family Dynamics and Body Image.

Supporting Kids in Scary Sports.

Understanding Risk and Comfort Zones.

The ABC Framework for Athletes.

Finding Your True Self in Sports.

"You can't pour from an empty cup." - Samantha Buxbaum 

Samantha Buxbaum’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samanthakbuxbaum/

Samantha Buxbaum’s Website: https://www.riseperformancellc.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAafgg6RG16dR4LFX-QIzU3ad9E5IiFpXd8Bpm3p_BBXEAycgVz_xhd0VyLnfYQ_aem_9UsUg8jPUThabGMKSEdcMw

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If you’ve ever wondered how to help your child (or yourself) face fear and rise to the occasion, this episode is for you.

This week on the PerformHappy Podcast, I had the absolute pleasure of chatting with Jill Shulman—a former U.S. Marine Corps officer, positive psychology expert, and soon-to-be author of a book on the science of bravery. Yes, science! This wasn’t just a feel-good conversation… we dove deep into the research-backed strategies that help people become braver, happier, and more capable of achieving big dreams.

I couldn’t get enough of it. We totally geeked out over the psychology of courage, the connection between bravery and happiness, and what it actually takes to empower someone who’s feeling afraid.

If you’ve got a nervous athlete in your life—or if you’re navigating fear yourself—this one’s a must-listen.

In this episode, Coach Rebecca and Jill Shulman talk about:

The Science of Bravery.

Why Bravery Isn’t Fearless.

Escaping the Comfort Trap.

How to Boost Mental Health and Resilience.

Progress Over Perfection.

Find Your Brave Tribe How Honest Feedback and Support Unlock Your Potential.

The Power of Yet.

Bravery Beyond Sports.

"Taking away obstacles to make kids happy creates comfort, but science shows that the comfort trap actually hinders their ability to face challenges, which is key to true happiness and well-being.” – Jill Shulman

Jill Shulman’s Website and free PDF on Tips to Build Your Bravery: https://www.jillschulman.com/

Jill Shulman’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jillschulman/?hl=en

Jill Shulman’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JILLSCHULMAN

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Pressure is part of the game in gymnastics, but how do the best in the world handle it? On this episode of the PerformHappy podcast, I sit down with three-time Olympian Shallon Olsen from Canada to talk about just that.

Shallon is known for her powerful vaulting, but what sets her apart is her ability to stay calm and focused—even under intense competition pressure. We dive into her mindset, how she keeps her nerves in check, and the strategies she’s developed to thrive when the stakes are high.

If you've ever struggled with performance anxiety or want to know how elite athletes manage pressure, this episode is for you!

In this episode, Coach Rebecca and Shallon Olsen talk about:

Shallon Olsen’s Top Tips on Thriving Under Pressure and Adapting to Challenges.

The Power of Supportive Coaching.

Achieving Greatness Through Teamwork, Consistency, and Mental Training.

Overcoming Injuries with Smart Training and Patience.

What It’s Like Competing Against Simone Biles and Focusing on Your Own Journey.

"Pressure is a privilege. It keeps me accountable for my goals and reminds me how lucky I am to represent Canada on the biggest stage. We don't have to do this—we get to.” – Shallon Olsen

Shallon Olsen’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shallon_olsen/

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What does it take to coach one of the greatest gymnasts of all time? On today’s PerformHappy Podcast, I sit down with Hiroaki Sato, the mastermind behind Japan’s men’s gymnastics gold medal at the 2024 Olympics and the coach of legendary gymnast Kohei Uchimura.

Sato’s coaching philosophy is all about putting people first. From working with the GOAT of men’s gymnastics to leading an entire team to victory, his approach is built on trust, joy, and teamwork. He shares game-changing insights on how to develop mental strength—not just for elite athletes, but for anyone striving for success.

If you’re looking for practical ways to build confidence and resilience, this episode is a must-listen. Sato’s wisdom is as inspiring as it is effective. 

In this episode, Coach Rebecca and Hiroaki Sato talk about:

Hiroaki Sato's Journey to Becoming Kohei Uchimura's Coach.

The Power of Gratitude and a Positive Mindset in Coaching.

How to Overcome Negativity and Cultivate Resilience in Athletes.

Balancing Team Goals with Individual Aspirations.

Developing Mental Strength Through Passion and Balance.

The Power of Support in Building Resilient Athletes.

Leaving a Legacy of Excellence and Empowering Athletes' Unique Styles.

"Love for the sport makes any hardship bearable—that’s the key to mental strength." – Hiroaki Sato

Hiroaki Sato’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hiroaki1460/

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