In today's episode of the PerformHappy podcast, we delve into the world of youth sports, a realm rife with pressure, competition, and the looming specter of disappointment. As parents, we're acutely aware of the unique challenges our young athletes, particularly gymnasts, face during this demanding season. Drawing inspiration from the pioneering work of child psychologist Dr. Becky Kennedy, we explore innovative parenting strategies that offer a fresh perspective on supporting our young athletes as they navigate the tumultuous waters of their sport.

The competition season can be a harrowing time for young gymnasts, where the weight of their goals, skill progression, and possible injuries can feel overwhelming. Many of these athletes invest so much of their identity in their sport, making their struggles all the more daunting. In this episode, we unravel Dr. Becky's solution, emphasizing the cultivation of awareness, resilience, and self-reliance in our children. We'll uncover how these tools can empower them to tackle the highs and lows of their athletic journey, equipping them not only for success in sports but also for a well-rounded, successful life.

In this episode, Coach Rebecca talks about:

Effective parenting strategies and imperfections.

Helping kids navigate pressure and disappointment in sports. 

Coping with setbacks in life. 

Building resilience in children. 

Growth mindset.

Emotional abuse in youth sports.

If your coach doesn't listen to you get a better coach.

Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be by Becky Kenddy:

https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/59627738

USA GYMNASTICS SAFE SPORT POLICY:

https://maapp.uscenterforsafesport.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/Gymnastics_-Policy-Final_Approved-12.15.21.pdf

I'm teaming up with @nike and @ussportscamps to bring you TWO life-changing Confident Gymnast Camps this summer—and your gymnast is invited! Pittsboro, NC — Unify Athletics | July 19th & 20th. Petaluma, CA — Redwood Empire Gymnastics | August 2nd & 3rd. Spots will go FAST!
https://www.ussportscamps.com/welcome/nike-gymnastics-camps-complete-performance-coaching

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In this captivating podcast episode, I sit down with Megan Ray, a remarkable third-year Division One gymnast at UC Davis. Megan's story offers a refreshing perspective on the lives of elite athletes. She candidly shares her experiences with insecurity, reminding us that even the best athletes face moments of self-doubt. Megan's journey is a testament to the power of perseverance and self-belief, as she reflects on her path to learning to trust herself.

One of the key takeaways from our conversation is the transformative role of finding the right coach. Mehan's transition from hating to loving the balance beam highlights the crucial importance of mentorship in any journey toward greatness. Her story is a source of hope and inspiration, reminding us that dreams, no matter how colossal, can be achieved by embracing vulnerability and seeking the right support system. Megan Ray's inspiring journey serves as a reminder that even champions face their inner battles and that it's through these struggles that they emerge stronger and shine brighter.

In this episode, Coach Rebecca and Megan talk about:

00:00 Megan’s Journey to College Gymnastics and Overcoming Confidence Struggles.

06:59 Perfectionism in gymnastics.

11:09 Mental Hurdles and Finding Self-Worth Amidst the Pressure.

15:37 Navigating Burnout.

20:01 Tailoring Success: How Megan Modified her Gymnastics Routines for Confidence.

24:48 Confidence-Building Strategies.

30:15 Building Mental Toughness and Trust for Gymnasts 

I'm teaming up with @nike and @ussportscamps to bring you TWO life-changing Confident Gymnast Camps this summer—and your gymnast is invited! Pittsboro, NC — Unify Athletics | July 19th & 20th. Petaluma, CA — Redwood Empire Gymnastics | August 2nd & 3rd. Spots will go FAST!
https://www.ussportscamps.com/welcome/nike-gymnastics-camps-complete-performance-coaching

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On today's PerformHappy Podcast, we've got a truly special interview that you won't want to miss. We're diving into the world of mental blocks with one of my past clients and her mom, as they share their inspirational journey of overcoming the struggles that many athletes face. If you're currently battling fear, hesitancy, or any mental roadblocks in your athletic pursuits, this episode is an absolute must-listen. Join us as we explore Kinley and Allyson’s story, from hitting rock bottom to finding their way back to success.

Kinley a 10-year-old level 8 gymnast and her mom, Allyson, were on the brink of giving up. They were stressed out, overwhelmed, and plagued by a nagging sense of self-doubt. It's that feeling of being trapped in a mental maze that's all too familiar for many athletes, especially gymnasts. But they didn't throw in the towel. Instead, they found the strength to push through and, in the process, learned valuable lessons that transformed their lives.

If you're in need of a dose of hope, look no further. This is a real-life story of a young athlete who faced fear head-on, put in the effort, and emerged stronger on the other side. Kinley is living proof that with determination and the right mindset, you can conquer your mental blocks and achieve your goals. She's an amazing, resilient young girl, and her story is sure to inspire you.

In this episode, Coach Rebecca, Kinley and Allyson talk about:

Kinley's Journey Through a Mental Block. 

Scaling Confidence with the Confidence Ladder.

Fear and Perseverance: Conquering Gymnastics Challenges.

Self-Love Wisdom from a 10-Year-Old Gymnast.

How to Build Gymnast's Confidence and Communication with Coaches.

Empowering Kids to Overcome Fears and Building Confidence.

Bouncing Back Kinley's Remarkable Transformation.

I'm teaming up with @nike and @ussportscamps to bring you TWO life-changing Confident Gymnast Camps this summer—and your gymnast is invited! Pittsboro, NC — Unify Athletics | July 19th & 20th. Petaluma, CA — Redwood Empire Gymnastics | August 2nd & 3rd. Spots will go FAST!
https://www.ussportscamps.com/welcome/nike-gymnastics-camps-complete-performance-coaching

Learn exactly what to say and do to guide your athlete through a mental block with my new book "Parenting Through Mental Blocks" Order your copy today: https://a.co/d/g990Bur

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Today on the PerformHappy podcast, I want to delve into the most significant obstacle that keeps mental blocks persistently resurfacing. This is the very reason that led me to quit gymnastics at the tender age of 14. I hope that by discussing it today, we can shed light on what's truly keeping your young athlete stuck, and more importantly, how to break free from this relentless cycle.

So, what is the #1 reason that mental blocks keep coming back?

For me, this reason manifested as a mental block so debilitating that it felt insurmountable. It's a feeling that many athletes can relate to, where the sport you once loved starts to feel like a burden. You may even consider quitting, just as I did.

But there's hope. You don't have to surrender to the fear of failure. You can overcome mental blocks and reignite your passion for your sport.

Mental blocks can be conquered, and your athlete's love for their sport can be rekindled. The journey may not be easy, but it's entirely worth it. Together, we can empower our young athletes to rise above their fears and rediscover the joy in their chosen sports.

In this episode, Coach Rebecca talks about:

00:00 Overcoming perfectionism.

04:52 How limiting beliefs in sport can hinder performance and potential.

08:22 The negative impact of pressure on young athletes.

12:54 Switching into a growth mindset.

17:38 The key to mastering mental blocks in gymnastics.

If you want to learn the step-by-step mental block breakthrough method, you can also check out my free training for sports parents. It's called How to Help Your Athlete Overcome Mental Blocks Without Being Too Controlling or Too Involved.

You can register for that anytime at:

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I'm teaming up with @nike and @ussportscamps to bring you TWO life-changing Confident Gymnast Camps this summer—and your gymnast is invited! Pittsboro, NC — Unify Athletics | July 19th & 20th. Petaluma, CA — Redwood Empire Gymnastics | August 2nd & 3rd. Spots will go FAST!
https://www.ussportscamps.com/welcome/nike-gymnastics-camps-complete-performance-coaching

Learn exactly what to say and do to guide your athlete through a mental block with my new book "Parenting Through Mental Blocks" Order your copy today: https://a.co/d/g990Bur

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Warning: Today's episode discusses sensitive topics, including trauma and abuse in gymnastics. Listener discretion is advised.

Today on the PerformHappy Podcast we have an incredible interview with Braie (Speed) Swann. Swann is not only a former elite gymnast but also a former D1 collegiate gymnast at the University of Arkansas, who has embarked on a transformative journey to become a head coach.

Her refreshing directness and willingness to address sensitive issues, such as abuse in gymnastics, underscore her dedication to transforming the culture of the sport for the better. Swan's story serves as an inspiration to all, reminding us of the positive impact that determined individuals can have on their chosen fields.

In this episode, Coach Rebecca and Braie talk about: 

Braie's gymnastics career, trauma, and advocacy.

Coaching techniques and prioritizing athlete well-being. 

Creating a supportive gymnastics environment for children. 

Protecting children in sports from abuse and neglect.

You can find more Braie (Speed) Swann on Instagram: ayybraiebraie

I'm teaming up with @nike and @ussportscamps to bring you TWO life-changing Confident Gymnast Camps this summer—and your gymnast is invited! Pittsboro, NC — Unify Athletics | July 19th & 20th. Petaluma, CA — Redwood Empire Gymnastics | August 2nd & 3rd. Spots will go FAST!
https://www.ussportscamps.com/welcome/nike-gymnastics-camps-complete-performance-coaching

Learn exactly what to say and do to guide your athlete through a mental block with my new book "Parenting Through Mental Blocks" Order your copy today: https://a.co/d/g990Bur

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In the third part of Parenting Through Mental Blocks, Coach Rebecca provides parents with necessary insights into the beliefs and mindsets surrounding mental blocks. 

As parents, we have the ability to help our young athletes in their journey toward improved mental health. However, to effectively help them, we must first understand them. This episode serves as a guide to help parents navigate this critical aspect. 

In this episode, Coach Rebecca talks about: 

• Misconceptions surrounding mental blocks 

• Understanding the mental block mindset 

• Characteristics of mentally healthy athletes 

“In order for your athlete to have their breakthrough, stay confident, and change their whole life, they have to shift to the breakthrough mindset.” -Coach Rebecca 

Mindsets can make or break an athlete’s sports journey. They shape an athlete’s relationship with challenges and failures. They determine whether athletes will reach their goals and succeed. 

Join Coach Rebecca in this insightful episode as she breaks down the complexities of mental blocks and mental health in young athletes. By dispelling misconceptions, understanding the mental block mindset, and recognizing the hallmarks of mentally healthy athletes, parents can better help and guide their athletes when they’re struggling. Remember, fostering a breakthrough mindset is the key to lasting change and success for your young athlete. 

Today Coach Rebecca continues the discussion from the last episode, addressing parents who are navigating the challenges of supporting their children through mental blocks. As parents, we have tremendous influence over our kids. Everything we say and do leaves an impact. Even our well-intentioned efforts can put on more pressure and discourage them. 

“The way that you show up as a sport parent is demonstrating certain beliefs.” – Rebecca Smith 

Drawing on her experience as a former athlete and a coach who has worked with athletes for decades, Coach Rebecca provides invaluable insights into the subtle ways parents can unknowingly create pressure that affects their children's performance.  

Here are three of the points Coach Rebecca shares: 

I'm teaming up with @nike and @ussportscamps to bring you TWO life-changing Confident Gymnast Camps this summer—and your gymnast is invited! Pittsboro, NC — Unify Athletics | July 19th & 20th. Petaluma, CA — Redwood Empire Gymnastics | August 2nd & 3rd. Spots will go FAST!
https://www.ussportscamps.com/welcome/nike-gymnastics-camps-complete-performance-coaching

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In this episode, Coach Rebecca provides invaluable guidance for parents who are supporting athletes struggling with mental blocks. A mental block is a challenge where the athlete's mind and body fail to work together; the body is fully capable, but the mind stops the body.  

“Mental block isn’t rational, but it is very real and very frustrating.”-Rebecca Smith 

Using the remarkable journey and career of Olympic gymnast Simone Biles as an example, Coach Rebecca emphasizes several crucial points: 

• Mental blocks are a universal experience shared by every athlete, from beginners to Olympians. They are a part of the sports journey. 

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Today Coach Rebecca delves into a topic that every athlete and coach encounter at some point: the dreaded mental block. We’ve all witnessed it – those moments when we look at our athletes and see how tough and capable they are, and we can see from the outside that what they’re going through is a perspective issue. But helping them get through it can be frustrating. 

“You start with what you can do, and any progress forward is progress.” -Rebecca Smith 

When we look into how perspective plays in overcoming mental blocks, often these challenges are less about physical ability and more about how the athlete perceives their progress. 

I'm teaming up with @nike and @ussportscamps to bring you TWO life-changing Confident Gymnast Camps this summer—and your gymnast is invited! Pittsboro, NC — Unify Athletics | July 19th & 20th. Petaluma, CA — Redwood Empire Gymnastics | August 2nd & 3rd. Spots will go FAST!
https://www.ussportscamps.com/welcome/nike-gymnastics-camps-complete-performance-coaching

Learn exactly what to say and do to guide your athlete through a mental block with my new book "Parenting Through Mental Blocks" Order your copy today: https://a.co/d/g990Bur

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Balking, also known as a mental block or a dip in confidence, occurs when an athlete struggles with a skill they’re fully capable of performing. Today Coach Rebecca responds to a coach's question about how to handle a student grappling with balking.  

She shares her current philosophy and two-balk rule, which includes a private discussion follows the first balk, and then the athlete is done for the day after the second balk. She also discusses the reasons why athletes balk. 

When balking happens, it reveals a fixed mindset, creating a black-and-white perspective. The brain perceives risk in the situation, triggering a fight, flight, or freeze response. It shows that the brain lacks confidence in the athlete's abilities, leading to a fear-based reaction rather than a rational one. 

“When you freeze up on a skill, you hesitate.

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