Parenting can involve big ideas, public debates and the odd festive guilt trip - and this week, we’re tackling all three.

The man who created Adolescence has a new idea for how dads can connect with their sons - it’s beautiful, but one of us hates it.

Plus, Amelia dives into the kids party photo that’s divided Australia: can you really “bags” a park table?

And finally, it’s Elf O’Clock. Monz realises she’s the last mum on earth without a tiny spy living in her house, and wonders aloud if there are some traditions that should just be left alone.

Our recommendations: 

💄Stacey recommends you treat yourself to a $150 Mecca makeup lesson (redeemable on product) where you learn game-changing tips.

❤️‍🩹 Monz wants you to check out A Year of Healing by Lucy Ormonde on Substack, a brilliant guide to showing up for a friend going through cancer.

⏰ Amelia is recommending Dr Dan Shapiro’s idea of time-ins: five minutes of phone-free, one-on-one time fully led by your child.

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WHAT TO LISTEN TO:

• Don't miss an episode of Parenting Out Loud
• The Scariest Truth about Halloween & A Nepo Baby Debate
• The Royal Who Flipped The Script On Dads & The Unholy Truth About 'The Squeeze'
• So That's Why Magicians Are Back & The Eldest Daughter Theory
• Rihanna and A$AP Rocky's 'Love Junk' Rebrand & The TikTok Training Camp
• Stealth Mums, The Roblox Controversy & A Tiny Internet Feud
• Unpacking The KPop Demon Hunters Obsession & A Tracking Tool Controversy
• Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts 

WHAT TO READ: 

• So your friend's been diagnosed with breast cancer. Here's how you can help.
• No Elf on the Shelf or Santa photos: The 6 Christmas traditions I'm cancelling this year.
• 'My daughter found out the Elf on the Shelf isn't real because of an article I wrote.'
• There's one question we're all asking since watching Adolescence. An expert just answered it.
• 'As a mum of teen boys, Adolescence was a sobering watch.'
• 'I had breast cancer and I'd love for my story to scare the s**t out of you.'

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CREDITS:

Hosts: Monique Bowley, Stacey Hicks & Amelia Lester

Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine

Executive Producer: Sasha Tannock

Senior/Audio Producer: Leah Porges

Junior Content Producer: Tessa Kotowicz

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