Podcast Notes Key Takeaways
- We have to be open and willing to allow others to point out errors in our thinking
- Why? – We want our beliefs to be as close to true as possible, so we have to be open to new evidence and better arguments
- In addition - We have to be continually open to the possibility that we might be wrong about something
- Society needs to adopt a scientific attitude in pursuit of the truth in ALL domains
- We can’t search rigorously for the truth in the realm of science/tech but refuse to do so in the realm of religion
- The half-life of negative emotions is incredibly short
- If you’re not continually thinking about all the reasons you should be anxious (or angry, etc.), the emotion dissipates very quickly
- There’re an infinite amount of reading material out there – there’s no reason to suffer through a book you’re not enjoying
- A few quotes to ponder:
- “When we’re really just connecting with life in a joyful, creative, and beautiful way… when you look out the window and it’s the most beautiful sunset ever and you are just looking at the sunset and you’re fully connected with its beauty, those are the kinds of moments where you lose this sense of self.”
- “To a greater or lesser degree, we’re always at war. We’re always fighting something. We’re either noticing something that’s wrong, feeling uncomfortable in our body, reacting to something that somebody did, navigating a social encounter that seems awkward, or trying to figure out what to say… We’re just constantly being blown around. The moments where you really feel good…. entail the dropping of this sense of self.”
- A simple happiness hack:
- Just think of all the bad things that could have happened to you (that haven’t)
- If any one of them did happen to you, you would consider your prayers answered if you could just return to the current moment
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Sam Harris, 5-time NYT best-selling author, believes the limits to human well-being have not yet been reached. By being open to being wrong, improving our conversations with others and with our own selves, we can learn to control our emotions and our destiny. On this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu, Sam Harris talks about what to do if you suffer from anxiety, feel lost or hopeless, or just want to connect more effectively with real life.
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SHOW NOTES:
Sam defines what a good life is, and why we have to get our act together [3:05]
Sam describes the relationship between philanthropy and psychological good [5:12]
Sam challenges dogma and advocates open conversation and scientific investigation [8:39]
Sam and Tom discuss skill acquisition, and how even well-being is a skill [16:03]
Sam and Tom discuss emotional control [22:34]
Sam explains that he has no life hacks to optimize learning [26:46]
Sam describes meditation as jiu-jitsu for the mind [29:56]
Sam explains why ego and never-ending thoughts cause suffering [33:49]
Sam describes what a flourishing life would be [40:11]
Sam talks about what to do if you are just completely lost [45:27]
Sam shares the impact he would like to have on the world [50:24]
QUOTES:
We have to be continually open to the possibility that we might be wrong, and in fact we are very likely to be wrong, a lot of the time. [11:59]
The half-life of negative emotions is incredibly short. [22:30]
I know there’s an infinite amount of stuff I want to read. I don’t go into the table of contents and look at the structure of the book, and go to the index and look at the topics. I just start on page one and start reading. When I get bored I stop. Do with that life-hack what you will. [28:41]
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BOOKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
The End of Faith https://amzn.to/2x1iE1A [1:34]