In this episode of The Modern Hairstylist Podcast, host Hunter Donia sits down with a panel of real independent stylists to talk about how they are actually navigating the holidays this year. From schedule choices to client gifts to family expectations, this roundtable gives you a behind the scenes look at what other beauty pros are doing in their businesses right now, without pretending there is one perfect way to do it.

Whether your books feel lighter than usual, you are completely slammed, or you are somewhere in between, you will hear honest perspectives on setting boundaries, keeping things special for clients, and staying sane through the rush. This episode is here to help you feel less alone and more grounded in the choices you make for your own holiday season.

Key Takeaways

🎁 Client gifts that do not drain you
How stylists are using simple ideas like scratch off cards, low lift gifts, and service based surprises so clients feel appreciated without wrecking profit or energy.

⏰ Extra hours or not
Why some stylists add a single high value day, some stretch a bit for regulars, and others keep their schedule exactly the same, and how each option can work depending on your life season.

🎄 Holiday vibes in the studio
Ways to create a cozy experience with decor, photo shoots, and music, plus how some stylists use intake forms so clients can choose whether they want holiday playlists or not.

👨‍👩‍👧 Family and free hair
Real stories about family members who expect free services, what changed when stylists started saying no, and clear language you can use the next time someone asks you to “just do it quick” at a gathering.

🧠 Permission to do what works for you
Why your demand, your personal life, and your nervous system matter more than what “everyone else” is doing, and how to release guilt around not doing gifts, extended hours, or big promos if they are not aligned.

Why You Should Listen

If you have ever wondered how other stylists are handling the holidays or felt pressure to do more than you realistically can, this episode will feel like sitting in on a supportive group chat. You will walk away with practical ideas, stronger language for your boundaries, and the reminder that you are allowed to build a holiday season that works for your clients and for you.

Connect with these stylists on Instagram:

Jess Ortiz: @FlairedBeauty

 Kristen Code: @kristencode

Brandy Chavez: @brandythehairstylist

May Luu: @mayidoyourhair

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