Working through recovery as a sex or porn addict can feel overwhelming, especially at first. You might wonder, can I DO this? Can I ever be truly free?

Today, Patrick shares 5 healthy mindsets to help you succeed through recovery!

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

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1) Find a CSAT in your local area https://iitap.com/search/custom.asp?id=5357

2) If that's not possible, find a CSAT or sex addiction therapist or coach that works virtually (here are some starting places)

www.puredesire.org

Additional resources: https://www.drpatrickcarnes.com/getting-help

3) Connect to a local recovery group (we like the conquer group that you can find locally or online both at puredesire.org and soulrefiner.com

For the betrayed spouse:

1) Connect with a trauma therapist or coach who is familiar with sex addiction and works with betrayal trauma recovery  - look for someone who also has trauma processing modalities outside of talk therapy

If you are interested in working with Kylene please click this link and book a free connection call to see if it’s a good fit:

https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

2) Connect with local, or online groups:

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

On IG: @KyleneTerhune 

Are you a betrayed partner interested in working 1:1 with Kylene? Book your free discovery call here:https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Are you a betrayed partner interested in working 1:1 with Kylene? Book your free discovery call here:https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Are you a betrayed partner interested in working 1:1 with Kylene? Book your free discovery call here:https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

On IG: @KyleneTerhune 

Are you a betrayed partner interested in working 1:1 with Kylene? Book your free discovery call here:https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

On IG: @KyleneTerhune 

What is the step by step process to recovery?

What if my husband isn't an addict but there has been some type of infidelity or porn use?

How do we recover our relationship after betrayal?

Today, Kylene and Patrick walk you through the exact steps they recommend couples and individuals take to begin the healing process whether or not it's an addiction.

watch Patrick’s testimony starting at 38:21 https://www.youtube.com/live/rirnsSLaYcw?si=I7aPoJ34MBsL42nD

For betrayor:

1) Find a CSAT in your local area https://iitap.com/search/custom.asp?id=5357

2) If that's not possible, find a CSAT or sex addiction therapist or coach that works virtually (here are some starting places)

www.puredesire.org

Additional resources: https://www.drpatrickcarnes.com/getting-help

3) Connect to a local recovery group (we like the conquer group that you can find locally or online both at puredesire.org and soulrefiner.com

4) Read books and listen to recovery podcasts:

For the betrayed spouse:

1) Connect with a trauma therapist or coach who is familiar with sex addiction and works with betrayal trauma recovery  - look for someone who also has trauma processing modalities outside of talk therapy

If you are interested in working with Kylene please click this link and book a free connection call to see if it’s a good fit:

https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

2) Connect with local, or online groups:

3) Ready books and listen to recovery podcasts:

Saying the words "I am a sex addict", or, "my husband is a sex addict" can feel like some of the scariest, most daunting words you will ever utter. Individuals and couples navigating this landscape carry a lot of shame and part of recovery is processing and working through that shame so that it's no longer something you have to carry with you.

In today's episode, Kylene and Patrick share why they believe that telling your story in safe places and with safe people is important and beneficial to your healing.

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

On IG: @KyleneTerhune

How do I know I I should stay in my relationship after discovering my husband is a sex or porn addict? Is it worth the effort? 

Deciding if you want to reconcile a relationship after betrayal takes time. In today's episode Kylene and Patrick share their thoughts on how to pursue a healthy life and things to think through when determining if a relationship is, or can be, healthy.

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

On IG: @KyleneTerhune

Today Kylene and Patrick share how certain coaching techniques and exercises have helped them in their own healing journey.

Patrick also answers questions from betrayed partners from his perspective as a sex/porn addict in recovery including:

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Follow Kylene:

On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune 

On IG: @KyleneTerhune