Most conversations about relationships focus on how to fix things,

how to communicate better, repair conflict, or understand each other more deeply.

All of that is important…

but if we stay only in the past

or only in the problems of the present,

we miss one of the most beautiful parts of being in relationship:

Dreaming together.

This applies to every relationship — not just romantic ones.

Your spouse, your parent, your best friend, your sibling, even a colleague you feel close to.

Relationships aren’t just about surviving or managing life together anymore.

In our modern world, we don’t relate because we need someone.

We relate because we want to build something meaningful together.

And when we never dream together, we slowly lose sight of the future we’re trying to create.

In this week’s episode of Heal Your Relationships, I introduce a new monthly segment I’m calling a RelationTIP, a small but powerful practice you can bring into your relationships right away.

This month’s RelationTIP is simple, heart-opening, and surprisingly connecting:

Dream together -> through vision boarding.

Not as a rigid “goal-setting exercise,”

but as a playful, intuitive way to discover what your heart is craving

and what your loved one’s heart is craving too.

Sometimes, your dreams will surprise you.

Sometimes, the act of dreaming together is the deeper gift —

because it shifts your focus from “fixing the past”

to “building something meaningful for the future.”

And your relationship grows simply from that process.

In this episode:

• 01:14 — Why recording this podcast is the highlight of my week
• 01:47 — What I mean by a “RelationTIP”
• 02:38 — Today’s RelationTIP: Dream together
• 03:14 — Why we have relationships in the modern world
• 05:00 — Vision boarding as a tool for connection
• 08:39 — My recent experience with vision boarding (and what surprised me)
• 12:37 — Allowing yourself to dream in all your relationships

Try one change this week:

Choose someone you love — your partner, your mom, your best friend — and spend 15 minutes vision boarding together.

No overthinking.

No analyzing.

Just clip whatever speaks to you.

Then look at what you each created.

You might discover something new about each other…

and about yourself.

Your relationship will deepen simply because you dreamed together.

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