Flying Free

Responding to Abusive Word Salad (the master game player strategy) [351]


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Has your inbox turned into a dumpster fire of accusatory texts from your abuser?

In this episode, I hand you a step-by-step strategy to shut down the inner emotional chaos without getting dragged into the mud pit with him. It's not just about survival. It's about winning (for YOU!)


What We Cover in This Episode: 

  • What to do when your abuser won’t stop texting lies, and the courts won’t let you block him
  • How to stop reacting and start playing offense with your own sanity-protecting strategy
  • Why your emotional reaction is his favorite snack (and how to starve that monster)
  • The magic of radical acceptance. No, he’s not going to wake up one day and be Prince Charming
  • Why sarcasm is satisfying but not strategic (sorry, my fellow sass queens)
  • A game-plan that builds a rock-solid paper trail, perfect for court receipts and your peace of mind
  • How to rewire your nervous system before you even read his garbage texts

Read the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question here

Related Resources:

  • Check out Aimee Says for help wading through the word salad your abuser is throwing at you. 
  • Listen to some other Flying Free episodes, including “Winning Child Custody & Divorce Battles” and “How to Respond to Emotional Abuse Tactics.” 


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