Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel

Season 6 Episode 4: The Paradox of Proximity: Understanding Domestic Abuse in Rural and Remote Communities


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In this episode, David and Ruth speak with Dr. Annie Donaldson about her groundbreaking research examining domestic abuse in Scotland's rural, remote and island communities. Dr. Donaldson, an honorary research fellow at the University of Strathclyde and longtime expert in gender-based violence, shares insights from interviews with survivors and professionals about the unique dynamics of domestic abuse in small, interconnected communities.

Key topics include:

  • The "paradox of proximity" - how physical isolation combines with close social connections to create unique challenges for survivors in rural areas
  • How community connections can be both supportive and entrapping for survivors experiencing domestic abuse
  • How perpetrators exploit small community dynamics and relationships to maintain control
  • The incredible protective efforts of survivors, including maintaining children's routines and wellbeing despite multiple forced moves
  • The impact of the Safe & Together Model in helping professionals challenge victim-blaming attitudes and better support survivors

Dr. Donaldson discusses how traditional social work approaches focused solely on "problem-solving" often miss the emotional realities and strengths of survivors including: 

  • Validating and building on survivors' existing protective efforts
  • Recognizing how historical distrust of authorities impacts help-seeking
  • Using technology and remote options to increase accessibility

This episode provides vital insights for any professional working with survivors in rural, remote or close-knit communities while highlighting the universal dynamics of entrapment that transcend geography.

Resources:

  • Safe & Together Family & Friends Ally Guide
  • Dr. Annie Donaldson's research blog on rural domestic abuse
  • The story of Glasgow’s Magdalene Institution by Dr. Anni Donaldson

Now available! Mapping the Perpetrator’s Pattern: A Practitioner’s Tool for Improving Assessment, Intervention, and Outcomes The web-based Perpetrator Pattern Mapping Tool is a virtual practice tool for improving assessment, intervention, and outcomes through a perpetrator pattern-based approach. The tool allows practitioners to apply the Model’s critical concepts and principles to their current case load in real

Check out David Mandel's new book Stop Blaming Mothers and Ignoring Fathers: How to Transform the Way We Keep Children Safe from Domestic Violence.

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