In this first part of her story, Carya offers a window into her childhood— the one outsiders saw, and the one they didn’t. Her narrative reveals how abuse and trafficking can be carefully concealed behind the mask of normalcy, community, and even “Christian” culture. As you hear her story, we urge you to listen slowly and carefully, not just with your ears, but with your heart.

We begin here to challenge the illusions, to equip the church to respond to real evil, and to stand with survivors like Carya who risk everything to speak the truth.

Warning: This episode contains detailed descriptions of childhood sexual abuse and trafficking. Please use discretion and prioritize your emotional safety as you listen.

SHOW NOTES:
Bearing Witness Episode 1 Introduction
Bearing Witness Episode 3 Julia, Ann Maree and Carya
Bearing Witness Episode 4 Self-Care

Informational Resources:

• Lalich Center on Cults and Coercion
• RAINN.org - Informational Support for sexual abuse survivors 
• Kay Tolman's Revelation Gateway Ministries
• On the Threshold of Hope: by Diane Langberg
• Escaping High-Control Religious Groups

Self-Care Resources:

• Christian Trauma Healing Network, Tools & Handouts 
• Self-Regulation for Daily Triggers
• Therapy in a Nutshell 
• Justice From the Victim’s Perspective by Judith Herman
• Honoring the Truth: A Response to the Backlash by Ellen Bass & Laura Davis

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