Sex Upgraded

Words are powerful, and the right words during SEX can massively improve the experience. In this episode you'll hear how YOU can use the power of words during sex to exponentially increase pleasure and connection for all.

We also talk about porn, and whether or not friends should watch each other have sex (instead of watching porn). IF YOU HAVE EVER WATCHED PORN, you should listen to this episode!

*The youtube version of this episode will be released this week.

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🔱 CONNECT WITH RAMBO:
🔸 Rambo's Instagram

🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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After 3.5 years of NoFap, without porn, masturbation, sex or ejaculation, a man reached out to me last week after he realized NoFap was hurting him. He had been experiencing what is called the NoFap Flatline for years...

🔶 You can also watch this episode on Youtube here.

Nofap flatline is a term used to describe when a man is feeling low, dull, lackluster, lethargic, bored and unmotivated - INSTEAD of experiencing all of the benefits that are supposed to happen while practicing NoFap.

In this episode you'll hear a couple of my theories about what causes NoFap flatline, and what I suggest instead of NoFap. 


🔱 RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔸 The Complete Semen Retention Guide (How to have a restorative ejaculatory orgasm).
🔸 My First Tantric Orgasm (Podcast Episode)

 🔱  SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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Most men limit their sex lives without knowing it... I've done this too... But the good news is that it IS possible to change, and if you change the 5 things mentioned in today's episode, your sex life will improve in massive ways.

 🔱  SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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Andre recently taught a BDSM 101 class in Asheville (where I live), and I wanted to attend but couldn't because I was out of town. Some of my friends went though, and their feedback was great, so bringing Andre on the podcast seemed like the next best thing.

🔸 You can watch this episode on Youtube too.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• An introduction to BDSM (Bondage, Dominance & Discipline, Submission & Sadism, and Masochism) 
• How to practice BDSM in a safe and highly pleasurable way
• How to create a BDSM scene 
• The importance of safe words 
• How to communicate effectively
• Personal stories of exploring BDSM from both Andre and I (Taylor)

To read more about the different aspects of BDSM, check out the more in-depth BDSM intro page.

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🔱 CONNECT WITH ANDRE:
🔸 Andre's Website
🔸 Andre's Instagram

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🔱 GET TAYLOR'S FREE SEXUAL MASTERY GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 WORK WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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In this episode you'll hear Juno's personal story of going from monogamy into polyamory.  We talk about the very real struggles of doing this (jealousy and lack of societal support), AND the benefits of this kind of relationship structure too.

This episode is unique because Juno isn't a sex or relationship coach. She's not trying to "sell" you a concept or lifestyle. She just wants to share her authentic experience so others can benefit. THANK YOU Juno! You'll even hear some personal stories from my own life in this episode too.

🔸 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
1:15 - Episode Begins
3:21 - Juno's Polyamorous Lifestyle
7:38 - Why Polyamory?
11:55 - Research on Marriage Statistics
22:27 - "Polyfuckery" PROBLEMS
30:38 - Does Juno Get Jealous? (And how she deals with this)
35:08 - The Impact of Having Sex with Other People
41:12 - Expect Challenge When Opening Your Relationship
44:03 - TIP: Be Careful How You Talk About This
54:26 - Boundaries in Polyamorous Relationships

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RESOURCES:
🔸 The Better Sex Conversation (Guide on how to talk about sex & relationships - including your desires, fears, needs and boundaries).

🔱 GET MY FREE SEXUAL MASTERY GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 WORK WITH ME:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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Sexual trauma happens to men too, and it's important to talk about it. In this episode we're joined by licensed therapist Papillon DeBoer, who specializes in helping men work with and heal sexual trauma.

You'll learn how trauma affects men, how women are a common cause of trauma in men, what trauma actually is, how generational trauma works, plus techniques and resources to help heal trauma too. We even talk about circumcision trauma. You can find the topics & times below:

🔸 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
04:25 - Trauma Defined
06:53 - Trauma happens on a spectrum.
09:10 - My Personal Trauma Stories
16:56 - Does Trauma Ever Go Away?
23:58 - How Trauma Affects Men...
30:29 - Healing Trauma While in Relationship
35:01 - Working With Trauma in Sexual Contexts
41:25 - Healing Trauma By Ourselves
47:04 - Why Trauma Exists...
48:44 - Suffering is Inevitable
51:07 - What is Generational Trauma?
52:53 - Circumcision Trauma
57:52 - Resources for Healing Sexual trauma

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CONNECT WITH PAPILLON:
🔸 Papillon's Website
🔸 Papillon's Survivor Stories Podcast


🔱 GET MY FREE SEXUAL MASTERY GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 WORK WITH ME:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

Support the show

This episode is about the SECOND time I went to a sex party. I actually participated here, and it changed my life in a big way. We all took a micro dose of MDMA, and what happened might surprise you...

🔸 Watch this episode on Youtube here.
🔸 Watch the FIRST Sex Party episode here.
🎙️ View All Podcast Episodes Here

👇 (Free guides & resources below)

THOUGHTS ON MDMA:
Just to be clear - I'm not saying that everyone should go out and take MDMA to have a therapeutic experience. There are lots of risks to consider. One of the biggest dangers of MDMA is the fact that the vast majority of "MDMA" being sold is cut or laced with another substance. This can be dangerous, and in many cases deadly when laced with fentanyl.

IF you are going to try MDMA in a recreational way, please please please at least get a fentanyl test kit and test whatever you get before you take it. Also remember that I'm not a doctor or health care provider of any kind. This episode is just about me sharing my own personal experience.

Also, MDMA is being used in therapeutic contexts around the country, and there is lots of academic research happening around it right now too. The potential of this substance - when used with intention - is massive.

Personally, I don't like to take any substance to the point where I feel unable to function. I am open to OCCASIONALLY exploring micro amounts of substances in very specific experiences, but drugs & alcohol taken in the stereotypical party context are not interesting to me.


🔱 GET MY FREE SEXUAL MASTERY GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 WORK WITH ME:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

Support the show

This episode is about the first time I went to a sex party. It happened over 10 years ago in Asheville, NC, USA, and it blew my mind - in ways I wasn't prepared for.

• 🔺 Watch the episode on Youtube here.

People often ask me to share personal stories from the past, and this is one I've thought about sharing for a while. It's more of an edutainment episode, because there's not a big lesson or takeaway from this episode other than pure fascination and entertainment... which is definitely a worthy reason to listen to a podcast. And... I was actually paid to go! And that makes for a good story. :) 

🎙️ VIEW ALL PODCAST EPISODES:
https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast/

📝 GET MY FREE GUIDES 📝

• 🔺 FREE Ejaculation Control Guide 
• 🔺 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
  
  

🔱 SEXUAL MASTERY TRAININGS & COURSES 🔱

• 🔺 Orgasmic Mastery Course
• 🔺 Semen Retention Mastery Course
• 🔺 New Anal Course
  
  

CONNECT WITH ME:

• Instagram 
• My Website

Support the show

This episode is a MUST LISTEN for anyone who wants to have a thriving long-term relationship. Why? Because creating this kind of relationship takes a certain set of skills that 99.7% of people didn't learn growing up. I certainly didn't...

I've studied with Steve Torma for years, and practicing what I've learned from him has fundamentally changed EVERYTHING about my romantic and sexual relationships  (and even my business, friendship and family relationships too).

Almost all of my close friends have studied with him, and some of my family has too. These tools are invaluable, and I'm excited for you to learn them.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• The 3 important levels of intimacy
• How to translate judgements into empathy
• How to overcome the negativity bias
• How to understand you and your partners needs on a deeper level
• How to compassionately create boundaries
• Practical tools to create deeper relationships
• An intro to Nonviolent Communication (NVC)
• Critiques of Nonviolent Communication
• And some of the most valuable communication advice out there

🔱 LEARN WITH STEVE:

• REALationship 101 (Steve's Intro Class)
• Steve's Full Schedule of Classes (Online & In-Person)

*Steve has an older website, but the practices are up to date and invaluable. 

🔱 LEARN WITH TAYLOR:

• Orgasmic Mastery Course
• FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
• FREE Ejaculation Control Guide
• Taylor’s Instagram
• Taylor’s Youtube Channel
• Taylor’s Website

Support the show

I didn't expect this episode to go the direction it did, but it ended up being perfect. Thank you Jeddy for getting real with me, and for having the awareness and intuition to pivot the conversation when something juicy came up.

Jeddy is the host of the Rising Man Podcast, and he regularly leads in-person workshops for men too around rights of passage and vision quests in the desert. You can find links to his work below.

And on the note of pivoting the conversation, if you're part of the organization I named in this episode, please know that I chose not to edit your name out because part of what your organization talks about is bringing light to shadow... and owning the more challenging aspects that require growth. I see you doing the work, and I'm happy about it.

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🔱 CONNECT WITH JEDDY:

• The Rising Man Podcast
• In-Person Self Mastery Program (Sept. 7th-10th, 2023)
• In-Person Vision Quest Program
• Jeddy's Instagram

🔱  CONNECT WITH TAYLOR

• Orgasmic Mastery Course
• Taylor’s Instagram
• Taylor’s Youtube Channel
• Taylor’s Website
• FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
• FREE Ejaculation Control Guide

Support the show