Sex Upgraded

This is a serious and sensitive episode... for any man who has ever hurt a woman - accidentally or otherwise. Specifically, for any man who has caused harm (myself included), and who wants to do better... Who wants to heal, offer repair, get humble, grow and become a better version of themselves.

There's no shaming in this episode... Papillon and I wanted to create this for all of the men who want to improve themselves, but don't know where to go or what resources to turn to.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 Intro
01:28 Opening
03:02 Papillon's Professional Background
03:58 Sexual Assault & Crossing Boundaries
09:35 Self-Reflection on Causing Sexual Harm
14:47 Finding a Therapist to Talk with
17:40 Other Options to Help with Self-Reflection
21:28 Healing Without Contacting the Person You've Sexually Assaulted
29:21 Recognizing When We Have Harmed Another Person
35:56 Finding Space to Share And Reflect
38:25 What to Do If You Realize You Have Assaulted Someone
47:40 Centering The Survivor's Needs
52:56 Facing the Pain of the Realization
54:55 Can a Changed Person Be Seen in a New Light
57:02 Restorative Justice
58:54 Accountability and Developing Self-Awareness
1:05:33 Resources and Materials to Look Up


GENERATED EPISODE DESCRIPTION:
In this episode, Taylor explores how we can prioritize survivors' needs in sexual assault cases, with insights from returning guest, Papillon, a licensed clinical mental health counselor specializing in sexual trauma.

Discover scenarios where boundaries are crossed, emphasizing humility, growth, and understanding survivors' needs before personal desires. Delve into the challenges survivors face, the impact of public disclosure, and the potential for restorative justice processes.

Listen now, as Taylor and Papillon reflect on their past actions, and discuss learning from mistakes with empathy and accountability. The conversation touches on sociopathic tendencies, self-reflection, and finding support in affinity groups, offering condensed insights into the complexities of addressing sexual harm and promoting healing.


🔱  PAPILLON’S WEBSITE & RECOMMENDATIONS
🔸 Papillon's Website
🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon
🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon for Kids
🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon (Clean Version)
🔸 Feel free to send us more resources on this that you recommend.

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast
🔸 Instagram
🔸 Website

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What is the difference between Neo Tantra and Classical Tantra? What do they have in common, and what can we learn from them both, to implement into our own lives?
 
 In this episode, Taylor explores tantric wisdom and history with Hema; a gifted mentor and teacher offering unique perspective from her upbringing and life full of experience with tantric traditions. 

Press play to learn about the historical complexities of Tantra, its cultural branches, the way it challenges societal norms, and can guide you beyond better sexual experiences and into deeper spiritual growth.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:

00:00 Intro & Welcome

02:36 Hema’s Story

05:03 Neo Tantra & Classical Tantra Explained

10:21 What is the history of Tantra?

19:10 Why Tantra is considered the “left hand path” in India

21:46 Tantra as a practice of deconstructing the ego

28:47 Sexuality as the primordial force where we get our power

33:53 Tantra for Common Householders

37:13 How we can be overly attached to sex

39:14 Meditation practices for deep states of bliss

43:00 How Taylor first found deep presence & bliss

45:25 Enlightenment through Tantra

50:11 “Spiritual Psychopaths” in Tantra

57:48 Practices Hema Recommends

1:01:42 Closing

🔱  CONNECT WITH HEMA:

🔸 Work with Hema: https://talk2hema.youcanbook.me/ 

🔸 Hema’s Website: https://hemaholisticmystic.com/ 

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:

🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/

🔸 Semen Retention Mastery: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/semen-retention-mastery/

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:

🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/free-7-day-semen-retention-challenge

🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/Free-Ejaculation-Control-Training

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:

🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast

🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson

🔸 Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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Tantra is a spiritual system that invites you to experience sex and life in a more powerful way. Your sexual energy can be rocket fuel for your entire life, but most men waste it - and waste their lives away in the process. In this episode you'll learn how to harness it so you can truly thrive in sex AND life.

Shawn Roop is an expert on both classical and modern Tantra (Neo Tantra), and he focuses on helping men thrive in both sex and life. In this episode you'll learn about Tantric sex, ejaculation mastery and semen retention from the Tantric perspective, non-ejaculatory orgasms (Kria Vati), how to increase your capacity to hold more sexual pleasure and much more...

🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 Intro & Welcome
02:13 Why Tantra is Important for Men
08:37 Common Questions (What is a Tantra Chair? Is Tantra Dangerous?)
10:22 Tantric Sex Positions & Kamasutra
13:56 Ejaculation Mastery
16:09 Alternatives to Ejaculatory Orgasm
19:16 Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms (Kriya Vati - Multiple Orgasms for Men)
30:35 Shawn's Experiences with Ejaculation Growing Up
33:05 Taylor's Most Amazing Sexual Experiences
36:15 Want to Last Longer in Bed? (Most Women Won't Like It)
41:50 Is Tantra Dangerous?
44:00 Redefining the Concept of Sex
53:37 Emotional Intelligence is KEY to Sexual Mastery
1:00:15 Build Your Capacity for Sexual Energy

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🔱  CONNECT WITH SHAWN:
🔸 Shawn's Upcoming Workshop (Discount Code: "Taylor"):
🔸 Shawn's Website "Tantra Quest"

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins February 8th, 2024)
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery (Self-Study Enrollment is Open Now)

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson
🔸 Taylor's Website

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Have you ever watched porn on psychedelics? Tyson has, and he has some VERY interesting things to say about it. This is one of my favorite episodes so far, and I think you'll get a lot out of it IF you've ever watched porn or if you're in relationship with someone who has watched porn.

Check out the episode topics below, and please share this episode with a friend if you get something useful from it!

🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 Intro
03:31 Working With Porn Addiction
06:57 The Formation of Addictive Pattern with Porn
08:43 The Reality of the Porn Industry
12:57 Porn Stays in Our Energetic Field Some Time After Watching
15:35 Psychedelics & Porn, and Porn in Virtual Reality
21:27 Alternatives to Watching Porn
23:46 Is There Healthy Masturbation While Watching Porn?
26:52 The 11 Porn Users Archetypes
44:47 How You Masturbate is Important
55:16 How to Treat Your Penis
1:00:54 Circumcision


🔱  CONNECT WITH TYSON:
🔸 Tyson's Facebook
🔸 Tyson's Website

🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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If you're a man who likes women, the online dating world NOT easy. The odds are heavily stacked against you. You have to stand out. You have to market yourself. And this episode will show you how.

⚠️ The GOOD NEWS is that so few men actually put effort into their dating profiles, that IF you do, you will almost certainly stand out. Join Koen Goren and I as we dive into how you can optimize your dating profile, AND how to excel once you've matched with someone.

🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS
00:00 Welcome
03:01 Why Would Someone Hire a Dating Coach
09:57 The Difficulties in Online Dating
12:53 How to Optimize Your Dating Profile
19:32 Authenticity vs Marketing Yourself
24:01 Profile Photo Optimization
29:20 Improve Your Life BEFORE Online Dating 
34:29 Profile Description Optimization
43:26 Clarify Your Desires
51:24 Online Dating vs Real Life Meeting People
54:19 Thoughts on Pick-up Artistry
1:02:59 How to Start Conversations After Matching

🔱  CONNECT WITH KOEN:
🔸 Koen's Website

🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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Is sexual polarity bullshit? Masculine VS Feminine conversations are huge these days, but in the context of sexual polarity, is it actually helpful to use these terms? Is there a better option? That's what we'll talk about today

🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

IN THIS EPISODE
00:00 Welcome
02:07 Yuval Introduced
04:04 Traditional Sexual Polarity Questioned
07:46 Embracing Authenticity
09:11 Living a Life of Authenticity
11:30 Societal Myths & Masculinity / Femininity
19:53 The Human Experience is Complex
23:38 Sexual Polarity, Fluidity and Tension in Sexual Dynamics
37:35 Sexual Polarity IS Valuable
44:59 How to Create Sexual Polarity
51:41 Embrace Newness and Mystery


⚠️ IF YOU'RE LACKING SEXUAL CHARGE...
Yuval suggests looking at your own inner experience and figuring out if YOU are excited about life. There is a strong correlation between overall lust for life and sexual experiences... There's also a need for mystery, newness, and distance in long-term relationships to maintain erotic aliveness. Yuval encourages playfulness as a way to connect with life and explore different aspects of sexuality too

⚠️ ABOUT POLARITY...
Yuval challenges the concept of feminine and masculine energy. He believes that relying on these binary definitions limits people's potential for authentic expression. Yuval encourages people to explore their own qualities and desires rather than conforming to societal expectations. 

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🔱  CONNECT WITH YUVAL:
🔸 Yuval's TikTok
🔸 Yuval's Instagram
🔸 Yuval's Website

🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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"There aren't enough good men!" said the woman after ecstatic dance... She couldn't find any at the cacao ceremony or didgeridoo sound healing either... why?

What makes a man actually DESIRABLE? That's  the real question here... And in this episode you'll hear some of the steps both Jasper and I took to change our lives from being sensitive, and ultimately undesirable new age guys, to being men who have happy and thriving lives and relationships.

🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

 EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
0:00 Intro
2:25 "Conscious Men" as F*ckboys
6:29 Do Women Like New Age Guys?
14:10 Balancing Spirituality with Practical Living
23:10 Developing the Inner Feminine as a Man
27:40 The Inner Masculine & Feminine...
33:12 We Need to Talk About Healthy Masculinity
38:48 Victim Mindset Problems...
42:28 Restoring Trust & Safety with Women
48:41 Understanding Conflict & Communication
56:30 Learn How to Deal with our Urges/Addictions

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🔱  CONNECT WITH JASPER:
🔸 Jasper's Instagram
🔸 Jasper's Youtube
🔸 Jasper's Legendary Lover Program

🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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What is the healthy masculine? What is a healthy sexual man? How can men thrive sexually in a way that improves the lives of ALL people?

These are the kinds of questions we'll dive into in season 3 of this podcast. Why? Because it's both important AND it will help you become a better lover, partner, friend and overall human.

We can't become our best selves just by learning techniques... we also have to look at the systems and contexts we're part of, and how we relate to and interact with those systems. It's rich content, and it can be confronting... but it's work we need to do, and I'm excited to do this work WITH you.

In addition to the episodes in season 3, I also recommend checking out the podcast and article below, because they dive into this topic beautifully. You may not agree with everything, but it will certainly inspire some deep & critical thinking, which I believe is necessary for where we are today.

• "Understanding Men & Their Trauma"- with Gabor Mate on the Man Enough Podcast
• "Men are lost. Here's a map out of the wilderness." - article by Christine Emba

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course 
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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Is Semen Retention legit or fake? In this episode you'll hear Dr. Jonathan Brajtbord's perspectives on the crossover of western medicine and esoteric wisdom (semen retention from a western medical perspective).

In the second half of this interview (around the 30-minute mark), we get into an really inspiring conversation about conscious monogamy too. It's definitely worth your time if you ever want to have a monogamous relationship.

🔸 You can also watch this episode on youtube.

One of my favorite parts of this episode is hearing Jonathan talk about the difference between what he learned in medical school and what is actually useful for helping patients live healthy thriving lives. It's thought-provoking to say the least.

Hope you enjoy!

And if you have any requests for future episodes, please let me know!

*NOTE: In this episode we mentioned Jonathan's interview on the Sacred Sons Podcast. (Click the link in this note to listen to that episode).


🔱  CONNECT WITH JONATHAN
🔸 Dr. Brajtbord's Fortitude Retreat
🔸 Dr. Brajtbord's Instagram
🔸 Dr. Brajtbord's Website

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 27th, 2023)
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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Few men have realized the true power of masturbation, and this episode will help you become one of those men. If you DO want to learn the best masturbation techniques possible, and how to masturbate in a way that will blow your mind, improve your sex life AND improve your entire life, this episode is for you.

🔸 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

When most guys masturbate, they just sit still, without breathing deeply, with their hand moving up and down, usually staring at porn on a screen... That's a disembodied recipe for disaster - at least in terms of how that will impact your entire sex life.

And PLEASE realize that the way you masturbate will have a massive impact on the overall quality of your sex life AND entire life.

So... if you want to avoid a mediocre sex life...

You need to first listen to this episode...

And then practice.

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🔱 CONNECT WITH SIMON:
🔸 Simon's Website
🔸 Simon's Instagram

🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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