If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still not getting the sex, connection, or fulfillment you want ⚠️ - this conversation might blow something wide open for you.

🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this interview on Youtube.

In today’s episode, I interview Traver Boehm about the Nice Guy archetype — where it comes from, how it messes with your sex life, and what it really takes to reclaim your confidence, power, and desire as a man (and why WOMEN WANT THIS).

Traver doesn’t hold back. You'll hear raw personal stories, practical mindset shifts, and deep truths about what makes a man truly attractive — to women, to the world, and most importantly, to himself.

This is one of those episodes that might sting a little, especially if you see yourself in the patterns we’re talking about. But it’s also packed with insight, clarity, and actionable guidance that can help you start showing up with more honesty, sexual confidence, and grounded presence — starting now.

CONNECT WITH TRAVER:
🔸 Instagram
🔸 Kill the Nice Guy Course
🔸 Uncivilized Podcast

WORK WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025)
🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025)

EPISODE TOPICS:
0:00 Intro
01:28 What the “Nice Guy” Archetype Actually Means  
04:00 Why Being ‘Nice’ Doesn’t Get Your Needs Met  
06:04 Traver’s Origin Story: Where Nice Guys Come From  
11:59 Attachment VS Authenticity: The Conflict
16:14 Covert Contracts: The Hidden Deals That Sabotage Sex & Connection  
20:26 The “No Women in the World” Thought Experiment  
24:58 Story: Not Needing Anything Makes You Magnetic  
32:50 Real vs. Fake Intimacy: What Happens When You Self-Source First  
35:45 ACTION STEP: How to Make Your Life Amazing
40:54 Wants vs. Needs vs. Longings – A Reframe for Men  
51:20 The Role of Brotherhood and Men’s Groups in Healing  
01:06:57 Why Porn Hooks Nice Guys – And What It’s Really Doing to You

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So many men get it wrong in the bedroom... Trying to be nice... Unsure of how to take the lead... And even ashamed of their own desire... If you've ever felt these ways, you’re not alone (and I have to regularly work on this too). In this episode, Layla Martin and I dive deep into how you can sexually unleash your primal masculine energy - in a way that’s bold, conscious, attuned, and deeply sexy.

🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

In this episode you'll discover why women crave a man’s powerful presence - one that combines focus, strength, desire, the ability to ravish with care... And you'll discover how to embody it in a way that transforms your sexual relationships and ignites desire.

You'll also learn a transformative practice Layla calls “fuck and kill to consciousness,” which will probably be really confronting for you - in a good way... It's an exercise to help you integrate your raw, primal instincts and channel them into connection, confidence, sexual pleasure and leadership in the bedroom.

This episode is your invitation to stop holding back, to own your power unapologetically, and show up as the man you’re truly capable of being — magnetic, present, powerful and unforgettable. Join us!

❤️‍🔥 CONNECT WITH LAYLA:
🔸 The Tantric Mastermind for Couples (Upcoming in 2025)
🔸 Layla’s Youtube Channel
🔸 Layla’s Podcast "This Tantric Life"
🔸 Layla’s Instagram

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 The Orgasmic Mastery Course (February 2025)
🔸 Taylor’s Youtube Channel
🔸 Taylor’s Podcast "Sex Upgraded"
🔸 Taylor’s Website

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Ever felt stuck in your sexual self-mastery journey? Have you tried all kinds of techniques but feel like you’re still missing something? If so, this episode is for you. You'll learn the #1 reason most men struggle to see real progress in their sexual growth - and how you can overcome it.

HINT: techniques alone won’t get you there. You've got to dive into the deeper emotional and psychological layers under the techniques - to create a strong foundation for the techniques to rest on top of - and by doing so, you’ll unlock the true sexual growth, confidence, pleasure, and connection you desire.

🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

❤️‍🔥 CONNECT WITH LAYLA:
🔸 The Tantric Mastermind for Couples (Upcoming in 2025)
🔸 Layla’s Youtube Channel
🔸 Layla’s Podcast "This Tantric Life"
🔸 Layla’s Instagram

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 The Orgasmic Mastery Course (February 2025)
🔸 Taylor’s Youtube Channel
🔸 Taylor’s Podcast "Sex Upgraded"
🔸 Taylor’s Website

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As a man, if you want incredible sexual experiences, you MUST learn how to embody alpha consciousness - so you can sexually lead from that place. In this episode you'll learn practical ways to do that - in sex, in dating, and in solo-cultivation practices too.

🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

❤️‍🔥 This episode is part 2 of the Sexual Polarity episodes with Justin Patrick Pierce. You can listen to the first interview here: https://youtu.be/aTwQST3CMc0 👉 I recommend listening to part one BEFORE you listen to this episode, because you'll learn lots of fundamental sexual polarity concepts that will help you to get the most out and apply the techniques of this second interview.

EPISODE TOPICS:
00:00 Intro & Welcome
04:08 Alpha Consciousness Fundamentals
10:40 Authentic Confidence VS "Mainstream" Confidence
19:10 Embodying Alpha & Omega Consciousness
27:23 Posture, Refinement, Service & Impact
34:40 Intro to Sexual Yoga
36:20 Alpha Practices with Your Partner
53:24 Three Practical Techniques to Create Sexual Polarity
01:03:11 Completing the Energetic Circuit in Sex


🔱 JUSTIN'S LINKS:
🔸 Website: https://www.justinpatrickpierce.com/
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinpatrickpierce/

🔱 TAYLOR'S LINKS:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLijj64iRfquV67jfmCuQoDHHA8T52Vhp5


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If you want to have amazing sex in a long-term relationship (consistently), you've got to understand HOW TO BUILD SEXUAL POLARITY. ❤️‍🔥 This interview is part 1 of a 2-part series to teach you a new model of sexual polarity, that you can start using today to build sexual charge in your relationship. Part 2 will come out in a couple of weeks.

🔴 🎥 You can watch the video version of this episode here on Youtube.

EPISODE CHAPTER LIST:
00:00 Intro & Welcome
02:46 Justin's Backstory (in the Pick Up Artist World)
08:26 Justin's Long-Term Relationship Success with Londin Winters
11:05 The THREE Ways of Relating with our Partners
11:41 Navigating Relationship Dynamics for Thriving Intimacy
20:21 The PROBLEM with "Masculine" and "Feminine" Terminology
34:27 Exploring Consciousness and Self-Integration
46:31 Developing Emotional Resilience in Relationships
53:01 What IS Sexual Practice?
56:55 How to Build Sexual Polarity in Relationship
01:04:58 PRACTICE: How to Build Sexual Energy With Your Partner

🔱 JUSTIN'S LINKS:
🔸 Website: https://www.justinpatrickpierce.com/
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinpatrickpierce/
🔸 Couples Retreat (Aug 22-25): https://kripalu.org/presenters-programs/yoga-intimacy-spiritual-path-intimate-relationship

🔱 TAYLOR'S LINKS:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLijj64iRfquV67jfmCuQoDHHA8T52Vhp5


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Have you ever felt a primal stirring within - a draw to the wild that seems at odds with our digital, modern world? If so, this episode is for you. The wild man archetype is important, and together we'll explore HOW TO INTEGRATE THE WILD MAN into our every day life. Including sex, business, relationship, community, etc...

🔴 🎥 You can watch the youtube version here.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS**
**(Add 2 minutes to each of these times because of the added intro clip describing my upcoming workshop).
0:00 Intro
2:32 The Wild Man Archetype Defined
9:20 What is an Archetype?
13:17 Wild Man & Work: Practical Example 
15:53 Wild Man & Sex: Personal Story from Taylor
21:36 There's a Rising Anxiety in Society...
25:58 Healthy VS Unhealthy Wild Man
34:27 Integrating the Wild Man into Sex & Relationship
38:35 Integrating the Wild Man into Work
39:53 Embodying the Wild Man AND King Archetype
41:07 Importance of Council in Personal Growth
48:38 The Importance of IN-PERSON Men's Work
51:59 The Importance of FUN in Men's Work
53:15 European Shamanic Traditions (Jeremy's New Book) 

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🔶 CONNECT WITH JEREMY:

• 2024 Wild Man Retreat
• Jeremy's Website
• Jeremy's New Book

🔶 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:

• Taylor's Upcoming Retreat (July 2024)
• Taylor's Website
• Taylor's Instagram

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This episode is a deep journey into the PRACTICE of sexual integrity. It's one of the most important episodes on this podcast so far, so please take your time with it - and note the chapters below too. Also, please read the important note below before you finish the episode.

⚠️ IMPORTANT NOTE: While this conversation is in-depth and provides great options for moving forward in healthy ways, it does not cover all the nuances of sexual harm, integrity and accountability. There will always be scenarios that do not fit into what has been discussed here (for example, we did not talk about when people weaponize the idea/accusation that someone has caused harm to them when they haven't. Those instances are rare, but they're very real when they do happen).

🔴 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

✅ IMPORTANT TOPICS:
0:00 Intro/Welcome
2:17 Introducing Mischa (Work & Harm)
10:22 We Can ALL Cause Harm...
15:31 What is Power? (How to Lead More Effectively)
25:41 Reevaluating Consent Violations and Sexual Harm
32:34 Harm Reduction in Sex-Positive Communities
36:23 Ecstatic Dance, Consent & Community Impact
41:34 How to Dance Wild & Crazy with Positive Impact
43:08 How Our "Energy" Impacts Others (In Ecstatic Dance and Life)
45:55 The Art of Attunement
48:13 Sexual Integrity VS Subjective Harm
55:04 Sexual Liberation REQUIRES a Deeper Look at Justice & Accountability
1:03:52 Navigating Feedback, Cancel Culture & Public Call Outs
1:13:55 The TEST of Men's Sexual Integrity & Accountability
1:17:59 Men's Responsibility in Leadership Roles
1:24:21 The Power of DIGNITY vs Shame & Self-Victimization
1:33:48 The Art of Apologizing
1:45:52 Men are Good

If you have any questions or feedback about this episode, please feel free to get in touch with Mischa and I. You can find our contact info below.

Thank you for being part of this conversation!

-Taylor

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🔶 CONNECT WITH MISCHA:

• Mischa's Website: www.evolve.men
• Mischa's Instagram: @mischabyruck

🔶  CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:

• Taylor's Website: www.taylorjohnson.life
• Taylor's Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson

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Most of us (as men) aren't living at our full potential. And breaking free of this - of being shut down - takes work... So most men stay stuck... In this episode you'll learn tools to work through your blocks, and you'll hear personal stories (from Thomas and I (Taylor) about how we both worked through MAJOR blockages in our lives.

🔴🎥  You can watch the Youtube version here.

And if you resonate with this episode...

Check out our upcoming hybrid online & in-person training & retreat in Asheville, NC - specifically designed to help men overcome the most common blocks we face, so you can thrive in life, sex, relationships AND your WHY for being alive. The program is called Liberate Your Life(Force), and you'll find all the info below. 👇

🔱 RETREAT INFO & APPLICATION 🔱
 https://heartofmen.community/liberate-your-lifeforce
🔸 Enrollment is by application only
🔸 Space is limited to 18 men
🔸 Enrollment is open, on a first come first serve basis

COURSE & RETREAT DATES:
🔸 In-Person Retreat: July 11th-14th
🔸 9-Week Training: Starts June 17th, with weekly exercises for you to complete on your own time, AND live group calls every Monday evening from 6-8pm EST.

More info here:  https://heartofmen.community/liberate-your-lifeforce

QUESTIONS?
If you have any questions, feel free to shoot me a voice message on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson

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EPISODE CHAPTERS:
00:00 Intro 
02:58 Thomas's Background in Men's Work
04:06 How We Met & What We're Doing Together
10:36 Our Personal Blocks...
18:18 We Need the Right Conditions to Heal & Grow
22:12 Life Wants us to Heal and Feel Pleasure
25:12 From Hyper-Mentality to Feeling Alive
33:16 From Numbness to Consciously Choosing Feeling
42:32 Integration of the Heart and Vitality
48:31 Integration of Sex and Heart
57:45 True Power Goes to Men on a Mission
1:03:52 What Makes a Powerful Man?
1:05:16 In-Person Retreat: Liberate Your Life(Force)
1:09:37 Closing Thoughts

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These could use some refinement:
00:00 - Intro
01:29 - Opening
02:08 - Ricky’s Background
02:29 - Relationship Issues Mistaken for Hormonal Issues
05:10 - The Correlation Between Long-Term Healthy Relationships and Happiness 
09:58 - Prioritising Sex As A Parent & The Importance of Intimacy
17:10 - Biggest Struggles in Raising Children Today
22:19 - Comparing Today’s Parenting to Previous Generations
27:00 - Social Media and It’s Negative Effect on Relationships
31:12 - The Illusion of Social Media and How It Divides Us As A Society
35:45 - The Importance of Resolving Relationship Issues as A Team
38:08 - Shifting The Focus From The Individual to The Partnership’s Needs 
41:44 - Identifying What You Need & Deciding If You Should Stay in A Relationship
48:10 - What Makes Us Happy
54:58 - The Consequences of Being Too Comfortable
57:59 - Final Words
01:00:34 - How to Find and Connect With Dr Ricky Arenson

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My partner Naema and I recorded this episode to teach you how to SKILLFULLY penetrate a woman in a truly pleasure-filled & connective way - informed by Naema's profession as a pelvic bodyworker & sex coach for Women, and from our own personal sexual practices too.

In this episode you'll learn juicy & HIGHLY pleasurable sexual penetration techniques, you'll learn important female sexual anatomy (with visual diagrams in the video episode on Youtube), AND you'll learn how to avoid common penetration mistakes men make that can ruin sex for everyone involved.

*NOTE: I've made these sex mistakes too. Please remember that I'm human just like you, and I've come a loooong way on my journey to get to where I am now. Ideally you can learn from my mistakes so you can have better sex today - without having to stumble as much as I did when I was younger.

ABOUT NAEMA
Naema is a pelvic specialist for women, who combines powerful hands-on work with transformational ritual & coaching experiences too - proving a truly full-body, mind & spirit approach to healing sexual blocks and unlocking orgasmic, pain-free & fully confident sexual aliveness in the women she works with.

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 - Intro
01:45 - Opening
06:15 - Theme’s Naema has learned about penetration working with women
08:15 - How rushing sex hurts women (and you too)
15:45 - What makes a bad penetrative sex experience
19:20 - What to do before sex
23:15 - Technique to help her open
24:30 - At what point should her pussy be touched?
26:25 - How to warm up a vulva/should you touch her clit?
32:05 - Diagram of Clitoris
34:00 - Waiting for the ask
36:40 - How to help your partner not feel rushed in penetration
40:20 - *IMPORTANT* Technique for helping women to move through pain
45:00 - How to help your woman heal her sexual trauma
47:00 - 2 things that guys should do differently during sex
50:00 - Playing with different types of pleasure with your partner
54:35 - Cervical orgasms and what the cervix likes
56:30 - How to stop penetration in a good way
1:01:30 - Outro

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🔱  CONNECT WITH NAEMA

🔸 Instagram

🔸 Naema’s YouTube

🔸Naema’s Links & Pussy Workshop 

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🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:

🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/ 

🔸 Semen Retention Mastery: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/semen-retention-mastery/ 

🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:

🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/free-7-day-semen-retention-challenge 

🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/Free-Ejaculation-Control-Training 

🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:

🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast 

🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson 

🔸 Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/ 

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