By Taylor Johnson - Sex Coach for Men
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As a man, if you want incredible sexual experiences, you MUST learn how to embody alpha consciousness - so you can sexually lead from that place. In this episode you'll learn practical ways to do that - in sex, in dating, and in solo-cultivation practices too.
🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.
❤️🔥 This episode is part 2 of the Sexual Polarity episodes with Justin Patrick Pierce. You can listen to the first interview here: https://youtu.be/aTwQST3CMc0 👉 I recommend listening to part one BEFORE you listen to this episode, because you'll learn lots of fundamental sexual polarity concepts that will help you to get the most out and apply the techniques of this second interview.
EPISODE TOPICS:
00:00 Intro & Welcome
04:08 Alpha Consciousness Fundamentals
10:40 Authentic Confidence VS "Mainstream" Confidence
19:10 Embodying Alpha & Omega Consciousness
27:23 Posture, Refinement, Service & Impact
34:40 Intro to Sexual Yoga
36:20 Alpha Practices with Your Partner
53:24 Three Practical Techniques to Create Sexual Polarity
01:03:11 Completing the Energetic Circuit in Sex
🔱 JUSTIN'S LINKS:
🔸 Website: https://www.justinpatrickpierce.com/
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinpatrickpierce/
🔱 TAYLOR'S LINKS:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLijj64iRfquV67jfmCuQoDHHA8T52Vhp5
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If you want to have amazing sex in a long-term relationship (consistently), you've got to understand HOW TO BUILD SEXUAL POLARITY. ❤️🔥 This interview is part 1 of a 2-part series to teach you a new model of sexual polarity, that you can start using today to build sexual charge in your relationship. Part 2 will come out in a couple of weeks.
🔴 🎥 You can watch the video version of this episode here on Youtube.
EPISODE CHAPTER LIST:
00:00 Intro & Welcome
02:46 Justin's Backstory (in the Pick Up Artist World)
08:26 Justin's Long-Term Relationship Success with Londin Winters
11:05 The THREE Ways of Relating with our Partners
11:41 Navigating Relationship Dynamics for Thriving Intimacy
20:21 The PROBLEM with "Masculine" and "Feminine" Terminology
34:27 Exploring Consciousness and Self-Integration
46:31 Developing Emotional Resilience in Relationships
53:01 What IS Sexual Practice?
56:55 How to Build Sexual Polarity in Relationship
01:04:58 PRACTICE: How to Build Sexual Energy With Your Partner
🔱 JUSTIN'S LINKS:
🔸 Website: https://www.justinpatrickpierce.com/
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinpatrickpierce/
🔸 Couples Retreat (Aug 22-25): https://kripalu.org/presenters-programs/yoga-intimacy-spiritual-path-intimate-relationship
🔱 TAYLOR'S LINKS:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLijj64iRfquV67jfmCuQoDHHA8T52Vhp5
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Have you ever felt a primal stirring within - a draw to the wild that seems at odds with our digital, modern world? If so, this episode is for you. The wild man archetype is important, and together we'll explore HOW TO INTEGRATE THE WILD MAN into our every day life. Including sex, business, relationship, community, etc...
🔴 🎥 You can watch the youtube version here.
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS**
**(Add 2 minutes to each of these times because of the added intro clip describing my upcoming workshop).
0:00 Intro
2:32 The Wild Man Archetype Defined
9:20 What is an Archetype?
13:17 Wild Man & Work: Practical Example
15:53 Wild Man & Sex: Personal Story from Taylor
21:36 There's a Rising Anxiety in Society...
25:58 Healthy VS Unhealthy Wild Man
34:27 Integrating the Wild Man into Sex & Relationship
38:35 Integrating the Wild Man into Work
39:53 Embodying the Wild Man AND King Archetype
41:07 Importance of Council in Personal Growth
48:38 The Importance of IN-PERSON Men's Work
51:59 The Importance of FUN in Men's Work
53:15 European Shamanic Traditions (Jeremy's New Book)
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This episode is a deep journey into the PRACTICE of sexual integrity. It's one of the most important episodes on this podcast so far, so please take your time with it - and note the chapters below too. Also, please read the important note below before you finish the episode.
⚠️ IMPORTANT NOTE: While this conversation is in-depth and provides great options for moving forward in healthy ways, it does not cover all the nuances of sexual harm, integrity and accountability. There will always be scenarios that do not fit into what has been discussed here (for example, we did not talk about when people weaponize the idea/accusation that someone has caused harm to them when they haven't. Those instances are rare, but they're very real when they do happen).
🔴 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.
✅ IMPORTANT TOPICS:
0:00 Intro/Welcome
2:17 Introducing Mischa (Work & Harm)
10:22 We Can ALL Cause Harm...
15:31 What is Power? (How to Lead More Effectively)
25:41 Reevaluating Consent Violations and Sexual Harm
32:34 Harm Reduction in Sex-Positive Communities
36:23 Ecstatic Dance, Consent & Community Impact
41:34 How to Dance Wild & Crazy with Positive Impact
43:08 How Our "Energy" Impacts Others (In Ecstatic Dance and Life)
45:55 The Art of Attunement
48:13 Sexual Integrity VS Subjective Harm
55:04 Sexual Liberation REQUIRES a Deeper Look at Justice & Accountability
1:03:52 Navigating Feedback, Cancel Culture & Public Call Outs
1:13:55 The TEST of Men's Sexual Integrity & Accountability
1:17:59 Men's Responsibility in Leadership Roles
1:24:21 The Power of DIGNITY vs Shame & Self-Victimization
1:33:48 The Art of Apologizing
1:45:52 Men are Good
If you have any questions or feedback about this episode, please feel free to get in touch with Mischa and I. You can find our contact info below.
Thank you for being part of this conversation!
-Taylor
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Most of us (as men) aren't living at our full potential. And breaking free of this - of being shut down - takes work... So most men stay stuck... In this episode you'll learn tools to work through your blocks, and you'll hear personal stories (from Thomas and I (Taylor) about how we both worked through MAJOR blockages in our lives.
🔴🎥 You can watch the Youtube version here.
And if you resonate with this episode...
Check out our upcoming hybrid online & in-person training & retreat in Asheville, NC - specifically designed to help men overcome the most common blocks we face, so you can thrive in life, sex, relationships AND your WHY for being alive. The program is called Liberate Your Life(Force), and you'll find all the info below. 👇
🔱 RETREAT INFO & APPLICATION 🔱
https://heartofmen.community/liberate-your-lifeforce
🔸 Enrollment is by application only
🔸 Space is limited to 18 men
🔸 Enrollment is open, on a first come first serve basis
COURSE & RETREAT DATES:
🔸 In-Person Retreat: July 11th-14th
🔸 9-Week Training: Starts June 17th, with weekly exercises for you to complete on your own time, AND live group calls every Monday evening from 6-8pm EST.
More info here: https://heartofmen.community/liberate-your-lifeforce
QUESTIONS?
If you have any questions, feel free to shoot me a voice message on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
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EPISODE CHAPTERS:
00:00 Intro
02:58 Thomas's Background in Men's Work
04:06 How We Met & What We're Doing Together
10:36 Our Personal Blocks...
18:18 We Need the Right Conditions to Heal & Grow
22:12 Life Wants us to Heal and Feel Pleasure
25:12 From Hyper-Mentality to Feeling Alive
33:16 From Numbness to Consciously Choosing Feeling
42:32 Integration of the Heart and Vitality
48:31 Integration of Sex and Heart
57:45 True Power Goes to Men on a Mission
1:03:52 What Makes a Powerful Man?
1:05:16 In-Person Retreat: Liberate Your Life(Force)
1:09:37 Closing Thoughts
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These could use some refinement:
00:00 - Intro
01:29 - Opening
02:08 - Ricky’s Background
02:29 - Relationship Issues Mistaken for Hormonal Issues
05:10 - The Correlation Between Long-Term Healthy Relationships and Happiness
09:58 - Prioritising Sex As A Parent & The Importance of Intimacy
17:10 - Biggest Struggles in Raising Children Today
22:19 - Comparing Today’s Parenting to Previous Generations
27:00 - Social Media and It’s Negative Effect on Relationships
31:12 - The Illusion of Social Media and How It Divides Us As A Society
35:45 - The Importance of Resolving Relationship Issues as A Team
38:08 - Shifting The Focus From The Individual to The Partnership’s Needs
41:44 - Identifying What You Need & Deciding If You Should Stay in A Relationship
48:10 - What Makes Us Happy
54:58 - The Consequences of Being Too Comfortable
57:59 - Final Words
01:00:34 - How to Find and Connect With Dr Ricky Arenson
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My partner Naema and I recorded this episode to teach you how to SKILLFULLY penetrate a woman in a truly pleasure-filled & connective way - informed by Naema's profession as a pelvic bodyworker & sex coach for Women, and from our own personal sexual practices too.
In this episode you'll learn juicy & HIGHLY pleasurable sexual penetration techniques, you'll learn important female sexual anatomy (with visual diagrams in the video episode on Youtube), AND you'll learn how to avoid common penetration mistakes men make that can ruin sex for everyone involved.
*NOTE: I've made these sex mistakes too. Please remember that I'm human just like you, and I've come a loooong way on my journey to get to where I am now. Ideally you can learn from my mistakes so you can have better sex today - without having to stumble as much as I did when I was younger.
ABOUT NAEMA
Naema is a pelvic specialist for women, who combines powerful hands-on work with transformational ritual & coaching experiences too - proving a truly full-body, mind & spirit approach to healing sexual blocks and unlocking orgasmic, pain-free & fully confident sexual aliveness in the women she works with.
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 - Intro
01:45 - Opening
06:15 - Theme’s Naema has learned about penetration working with women
08:15 - How rushing sex hurts women (and you too)
15:45 - What makes a bad penetrative sex experience
19:20 - What to do before sex
23:15 - Technique to help her open
24:30 - At what point should her pussy be touched?
26:25 - How to warm up a vulva/should you touch her clit?
32:05 - Diagram of Clitoris
34:00 - Waiting for the ask
36:40 - How to help your partner not feel rushed in penetration
40:20 - *IMPORTANT* Technique for helping women to move through pain
45:00 - How to help your woman heal her sexual trauma
47:00 - 2 things that guys should do differently during sex
50:00 - Playing with different types of pleasure with your partner
54:35 - Cervical orgasms and what the cervix likes
56:30 - How to stop penetration in a good way
1:01:30 - Outro
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🔱 CONNECT WITH NAEMA
🔸 Naema’s YouTube
🔸Naema’s Links & Pussy Workshop
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🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/semen-retention-mastery/
🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/free-7-day-semen-retention-challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/Free-Ejaculation-Control-Training
🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
🔸 Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/
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Discover the unexpected ways pleasure and kink intertwine with human psychology as we navigate the often-misunderstood waters of BDSM, consent, and sexual liberation. Joined by the insightful Ashley and the experienced Kyle, we tackle the fallacy that kink is strictly a trauma response and instead reveal its potential for healing and empowerment. Through candid conversations, we explore the fluid dynamics of dominance and submission, the role of 'brat energy' in BDSM, and how these practices can lead to personal growth and deeper self-understanding.
As we peel away societal taboos, our guests share their transformative journeys from mere participants to passionate educators within the kink community. They illuminate the joys of helping others safely unearth their desires, pushing past conventional boundaries to a place of profound erotic expression. We also dissect the critical role of consent and the Wheel of Consent, emphasizing how these frameworks can foster a safe and fulfilling exploration of one's sexual landscape.
Join us for this thought-provoking session where we embrace our primal instincts and redefine what it means to engage in role-playing, objectification, and the pursuit of pleasure. With practical advice and shared vulnerabilities, this episode promises a welcoming space for the curious, the seasoned, and everyone in between who seeks to understand the profound impact of kink on personal transformation and sexual empowerment. Ashley and Kyle guide us through this rich tapestry, leaving us with a deeper appreciation for the nuanced world of kink and the liberation that comes with embracing our true desires.
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Sex transmutation is one of the most important skills men can learn. Napoleon Hill, author of Think and Grow Rich - dedicated a full chapter of his book to "The Mystery of Sexual Transmutation" as a step to greater riches in life - but he failed to explain the real techniques for how he and other successful men have used sexual transmutation in their lives... In this episode, I'll show you how.
🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.
MICROCOSMIC ORBIT VIDEOS:
💫 Microcosmic Orbit Diagram
💫 Microcosmic Orbit Partner Practice
*(I forgot to add these graphics in the Youtube version of this interview, so I'm adding them here).
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
0:00 Sex Transmutation Intro
2:44 What is Sex Transmutation?
3:40 Practical Examples
5:24 Transmutation of Ejaculation During Sex
7:08 Porn: Transmuting the Desire
9:15 Sex Transmutation at Work
12:13 Sexual Desire is Healthy (Don't Ignore It)
12:54 Somatics & Transmutation Example
16:52 When Someone Is NOT Attracted to You
17:45 The REACTIVE Model of Sex Transmutation
29:01 Taylor's Personal Sex Example
33:44 The PROACTIVE Model of Sex Transmutation
37:39 Intro to Sexual Energy Integration Exercise
38:36 Exercise: Sexual Energy Integration
43:41 How to End Sex Without Ejaculation
45:25 Sexual Energy Conservation VS Cultivation
49:28 The Most Important Technique of All...
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ORGASMIC MASTERY COURSE:
🔱 Master this practice in the bedroom, learn to last as long as you want, have strong erections, and experience full body orgasmic pleasure with my upcoming Orgasmic Mastery Course that begins on February 8th.
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Want to boost your testosterone naturally? This episode of the Sex Upgraded Podcast will tell you how. Join Taylor & male hormone expert Dr. Tracy Gapin for a practical & motivating conversation about how YOU can be the best version of yourself by optimizing all of your male hormone levels.
Hormone optimization is key to overall vitality, with insights into libido, peak performance, mental clarity, and conquering life's challenges. Check out my personal testosterone journey in this video.
And...
🔴 Get Your Testosterone Levels Tested Here
And use this code: TAYLORNEWYEAR for a big discount
In this episode, you'll:
• Learn about the science behind lab tests, stress's impact on hormones, and strategies to combat age-related changes.
• Gain wisdom on decoding your body's signals through advanced diagnostics and lifestyle adjustments.
• Discover tools for a revolutionized existence, including mastering metabolism with continuous glucose monitoring and employing heart rate variability in stress management.
• Better understand how you can have longevity, energy, strength, and enduring zest for life.
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 - Intro
01:27 - Opening
02:15 - Dr. Tracy Gapin's Background
05:44 - Common Underlying Causes of Hormonal Problems
07:09 - What Is Low Testosterone
11:04 - Stress and The Link Between Testosterone and Cortisol
16:13 - The Effects of Low Testosterone on the Mind & Body
18:52 - Ways to Improve Testosterone Levels
20:08 - Impact of Low Testosterone on Society
21:52 - Minimizing Exposure to the Toxins in Our Environment
25:19 - Lifestyle & Time Frame To Improve Hormonal Levels
34:22 - Living With Suboptimal Levels of Testosterone Without Realizing
35:56 - The Natural Process of Aging and Finding Balance with Performance
39:30 - The Feeling and Experience of Optimal Hormonal Levels
41:47 - Healthy, Normal Sex Drive After 40 Years
44:38 - Advances in Men's Medicine Space
51:14 - Living With Intention, Sleep & Diet
56:35 - Final Advice
58:19 - How To Find and Connect With Dr. Tracy Gapin
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🔱 CONNECT WITH DR. GAPIN:
🔸 Gapin Institute
🔸 Dr. Gapin's Website
🔸 High Performance Handbook
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🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery
🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide
🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast
🔸 Instagram
🔸 Website
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