Welcome to episode 314 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Jason Julius to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss oral sex, the common mistakes men make when giving oral sex, analyzing tongue movements, and the best positions to take for oral sex. 

 

Jason Julius is a sex coach with over 15 years of experience teaching couples all over the world how to have incredible experiences in the bedroom. Surprised with how little information there is in the mainstream world around sex, female orgasms, and sexual performance Jason sought out uncommon techniques and practices that would help the average man or woman elevate their intimate experiences. 

 

Jason is known for creating a clean, respectful, mature, intelligent conversation around having great sex. Jason wanted to create a place for people to discover a deeper level of understanding, especially when it comes to the mental aspects of female orgasms. 

 

Jason began posting intimate details of his experiences and has since amassed a loyal following on YouTube of others seeking a deeper understanding of what it takes to be an amazing lover. Frustrated by the negative beliefs that are perpetuated by the adult film industry, Jason separates what he teaches by creating content without nudity, done in a tasteful way that reaches people who are genuinely looking to please their partner and have more confidence in themselves when it comes to sex. 

     

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• How Jason became involved in this line of work 
• The importance of being present with your partner during oral sex 
• Should you use breath as teasing? 
• The common mistakes men make when giving oral sex 
• What gets in the way of men experiencing enthusiasm  
• Understanding the more you give the more you get back 
• Analyzing tongue movements  
• How sexy language can amplify the experience further  
• Do men care about the shape of vulvas?  
• Looking at squirting  
• The best positions to take for oral sex 
• What’s a reasonable amount of time for a man to give oral sex? 
• Is face sitting enjoyable? 

 

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Welcome to episode 313 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Kathryn LaRoche to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the misconceptions around contraception, taking care of yourself if you think you’re pregnant and ways in which men can support their partners. 

 

Dr. Kathryn J. LaRoche, PhD, MSc is an Assistant Professor of Public Health at Purdue University. She is a public health social scientist and applied anthropologist who carries out community-engaged, action- and intervention-oriented research about sexual and reproductive health with a focus on abortion and pregnancy.  

 

She has published her work extensively in journals like Contraception and Women’s Health Issues, and she has led and contributed to projects in Canada, Australia, and the United States.  

 

In 2022, she received the Carole Joffe and Stanley Henshaw Early Achievement in Social Science Research Award from the National Abortion Federation for her contribution to generating abortion-related knowledge. 

     

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• Looking at the misconceptions around contraception  
• How there isn’t a one size fits all solution  
• The educational issues around contraception 
• Ways you can take care of yourself if you think you’re pregnant  
• Navigating abortion in areas of the world where it’s not legal  
• Understanding there are professional organizations who can help you 
• How to properly deal with an unplanned pregnancy  
• Making sure you communicate effectively with your partner 
• Ways in which young men can support their partners 

 

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Welcome to episode 312 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Ashley Townes to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss virginity, the social construct and values around virginity, the importance of safety and prevention, and how you can create a better construct and narrative around virginity. 

 

Dr. Ashley Townes (she/her/hers) is a sexuality educator and researcher. As a native of Cincinnati, Ohio, she attended the University of Cincinnati, where she earned both her Bachelor of Science and Master of Public Health degrees. She later earned a PhD in Health Behavior and Epidemiology from Indiana University-Bloomington. 

  

Dr. Townes has over 15 years of experience providing sexuality education across a variety of academic and public health entities. Dr. Townes currently works in a postdoctoral research role in Atlanta, GA. Ashley’s research focuses on the sexual experiences of Black women, including partnered experiences, accessing health information, and utilizing sexual health services. 

  

As a young investigator, she has been a part of at least 15 peer-reviewed publications, serves on the Editorial Board for the American Journal of Sexuality Education, contributes to the Live Alive Wellness Blog created by Pure Romance, and has been featured in a variety of media, including Mind Body Green, Woman’s Day, Cosmopolitan, and MTV News). Her career interests are aimed at providing quality sexuality information and working towards health equity. 

     

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• How is virginity defined? 
• Looking at the issue of “repairing virginity”  
• Understanding the social construct and values around virginity  
• Analyzing the female hymen  
• Creating a better construct and narrative around virginity  
• Improving your sexual experiences as you encounter them for the first time 
• How communication is key to unlocking better sexual experiences 
• Safety first! Make sure your fully up to speed with condoms and prevention  

 

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Welcome to episode 311 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons to the podcast. In this episode, we look at racial trauma, how it impacts men and women differently, and how our cultural scripts can affect our sexual pleasure. 

 

Dr. Candice Hargons (she/her) is an award-winning associate professor in the counseling psychology program at the University of Kentucky, where she studies sexual wellness and healing racial trauma – all with a love ethic. She is the PI of the SAMHSA funded Neighborhood Healers Project, which seeks to advance mental health literacy and utilization among Black Lexingtonians. 

 

She is also a co-I on projects funded by NIDA, HRSA, and NIMHD examining substance use outcomes, treatment, and sexual health disparities. Additionally, she leads the Big Sex Study, a mixed methods, community-based participatory action research project investigating Black sexual wellness. 

 

She is the founding director of the Center for Healing Racial Trauma, and the host of the How to Love a Human Podcast. Her new sexual liberation podcast, F*ck the System, launches January 2023.   

     

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• Looking at racial trauma  
• The different impacts of racial trauma between men and women 
• Understanding sexual liberation  
• How our cultural scripts can affect our sexual pleasure  
• Analyzing the orgasm gap  
• How is pleasure defined? 
• Practice makes perfect! How you can continue to improve your sex life over time 
• Discovering your sexual identity  
• Looking at sex in deep and intimate relationships  
• Exploring and cultivating fantasies  
• Recommendations for parents improving their sex lives 

 

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Welcome to episode 310 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Ali Mushtaq to the podcast. In this episode, look at the underlying reasons why Americans are having less sex, analyse the differences between genders on this issue and differentiating sexuality v eroticism. 

 

Ali Mushtaq has his PhD from University of California: San Francisco in Sociology. Ali has over 10-years' experience in both qualitative and quantitative research methods and taught numerous college-level courses to hundreds of students.  

  

As a former leather title holder, Ali has used his platform to speak on multiple social issues and address social inequality.  Through his written work, press engagements, modeling, and his courses, he continues to address diversity, inclusion, and equity in hopes of creating a better world.  

  

Through his teachings, his main goal is to help professionals in media, market research, business, and others learn techniques to be inclusive as well as help others empower themselves. 

     

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• Are Americans having less sex? 
• Is celibacy on the rise? 
• Looking at the underlying reasons why Americans are having less sex 
• How issues such as depression can affect sexual activity  
• Is this a global trend or just an American issue? 
• Analyzing the differences between genders on this issue  
• Understanding the pros and cons of having less sex 
• Differentiating sexuality v eroticism 
• Looking at issues such as consent and the Me-Too movement  
• How we have more people identifying as non-binary than in previous years   

 

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Welcome to episode 309 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Yana Tallon-Hicks to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can bring back passion in a relationship, overcoming low desire and recommendations for ways to explore new sexual interests.

 

Yana Tallon-Hicks, MA is a couples & relationships therapist and a consent, sex & sexuality writer and educator living in Western Massachusetts. Her work centers around the belief that pleasure-positive & consent-based sex education can positively impact our lives and the world. 

  

Yana’s workshops for youth & workshops for adults work to create a welcoming & comfortable space to explore crucial aspects of our holistic, sexual selves such as pleasure, communication, consent & the body. Her workshops such as Consent & Cookies, Polyamory & Open Relationships, Hitting the Spot: Pleasure-Based Sex Education, and Pleasure-Based Consent have taken place at Duke University, Marlboro College, Oh My Sensuality Shop, Hampshire College, Smith College, Bennington College, Brandeis University, and Simmons University, along with a growing list of other colleges & universities across New England and the U.S. 

  

Her popular workshop Consent Cookies: A confidence-building workshop for teens has been taught at various high schools & teen youth groups. Though much of her published sex advice is written for an adult audience, Yana also has years of experience working with teens. Her workshops for youth are tailored to be approachable & age-appropriate and focus on essential components of healthy sexuality and relationships for young people including consent, communication, safer sex & body-ownership. 

     

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• How Yana became interested in writing her book: Hot and Unbothered: How to think about, talk about, and have the sex you really want.  
• Recommendations for people wanting to explore their sexual interests  
• Looking at kink and the safest way to explore it  
• The importance of community when exploring kink  
• Ways you can overcome low desire 
• Maintaining excitement in a long-term relationship 
• Understanding how you and your partners needs will change over time  
• Overcoming sexual dissatisfaction in a relationship  
• How you can re-energize yourself to become interested in sex again  
• Having a great sex life if you’re both parents  

 

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Welcome to episode 308 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Amir Marashi to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the best sexual positions for orgasms, how can we intensify orgasms, and how sex toys can improve orgasms. 

 

Dr. Marashi is a board-certified OB/GYN, author, and founder of Cerē. Dr. Marashi has over twenty years of experience in the medical field, and was the first doctor in the U.S. to host an official cosmetic gynecology rotation for OB/GYN residency training. 

  

In 2020, Dr. Marashi published A Woman’s Right to Pleasure, a distinctive collection of over 200 works and original texts from over 60 of the world’s most important and well-recognized female-identifying artists, writers and creative thinkers from around the globe. 

     

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• Why sex is important in a relationship  
• Do we experience orgasms differently when masturbating? 
• The common barriers that get in the way of women having great orgasms 
• Looking at the best sexual positions for orgasms  
• Why cowgirl and women on top is great for orgasms 
• How can we intensify orgasms? 
• What can you do outside the bedroom to improve your sex life 
• How sex toys can improve orgasms 
• Looking at the toys Dr. Marashi has worked on 

 

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Welcome to episode 307 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Keeley Rankin to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss what happens at sex clubs, what you can expect from the experience, setting expectations and the importance of setting boundaries. 

 

As a leading sex and relationship coach based in San Francisco, Keeley Rankin has been successful in helping men, women and couples overcome intimacy issues and enjoy the best sex of their lives since 2010. She received a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology with a focus on marriage and family therapy from John F. Kennedy University. Keeley is a co-founder of BetterSexEd.org and Co-Creator of the innovative group workshop series, Sex as Meditation, which integrates mindfulness and sex. 

  

Keeley is also a Certified Somatica Method Practitioner (a relational and experiential body-based therapy), Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Certified Queer Conscious Educator, trained in Hakomi Therapy (somatic and mindfulness-based method), and Recreation of the Self, a system for re-empowering our ability to live from an undivided state of selfhood in relationship with others.  

 

Since 2009, she has assisted world-renowned psychotherapist, John Welwood in bridging the gap between the psychological and spiritual. She lead educational workshops on male sexual difficulties for therapists and coaches and created engaging video series courses that help people overcome sexual dysfunction from the convenience of their own homes. 

  

    

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• How Keeley became interested in this line of work  
• What can you expect if you attend a sex club? 
• Looking at the differences between sex clubs and swinging 
• The importance of setting expectations when going to sex clubs 
• Making sure you set boundaries 
• How your female partner will likely get most of the attention at a sex club 
• Analyzing the risk of STI’s and how you can protect yourself 
• Why Keeley became disconnected from sex clubs  

 

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Welcome to episode 306 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Susie Gronski to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss male sexual health, the common challenges men face with penile issues, understanding erectile dysfunction and looking at the factors that cause low desire in men. 

 

Specializing in men’s pelvic and sexual health, Susie Gronski, PT, DPT is a licensed doctor of physical therapy, certified pelvic rehabilitation practitioner, international teacher, author and creator of one-to-one and self-paced health programs that help men with pelvic pain become experts in treating themselves. 

  

Her passion is making you feel comfortable about taboo subjects like sex and private parts. Social stigmas aren’t her thing and neither is medical fluff. She provides real advice, just like a friend who knows the lowdown down below. She’s determined to make sure you know you can get help for painful ejaculation, problems with the joystick, discomfort or pain during sex and controlling your pee... without being embarrassed…  

  

So, if you’re having some trouble ‘down there’, she’s the person to get to know. 

    

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• How Dr. Susie became interested in this field  
• Learning to spice things up and try different sexual experiences 
• How many women need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm  
• The common challenges men face with penile issues  
• Is it true you can break your penis? 
• Looking at the factors that cause low desire in men 
• How is erectile dysfunction defined? 
• Understanding Kegel exercises 
• Why men should become more acquainted with their soft penis  

 

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Welcome to episode 305 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Stephen Foster to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Stephen become interested in this area of research, looking at the internalized concept of masculinity and understanding honor culture among men. 

 

Dr. Stephen Foster is a social psychologist at Penn State York. His academic work is primarily centered around the intersection of culture, stigma, and health behaviors, including vaccine attendance, screening attendance, and various forms of help-seeking. 

 

Other research interests include conflict resolution in relationships, sexual function, and subjective socioeconomic status. 

    

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• How did Stephen become interested in this area of research? 
• How erectile dysfunction is defined  
• Understanding why people do things against their best interest  
• Looking at the internalized concept of masculinity  
• Ways we can motivate people to ask for help  
• Are people more comfortable asking for help from same or different gender? 
• Understanding the importance of communication to help address these issues  
• Looking at other findings in Stephen’s study  
• Is opening up to your partner about this well received?  
• Understanding honor culture among men  

 

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