You have to be super mindful about not just the things that make you happy, but even more mindful about the things that don’t. Protecting your peace, gives you a peace of mind sis. What good is achieving your goals and dreams if you don’t have the peace to enjoy them? What good is getting a bag, if you don’t have the peace to enjoy it? Some of us are working hard and finally starting to make moves in our lives – but constantly giving people, family, friends, coworkers the rights to take our peace away. But after today…we’re making some changes.

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You can’t control what happens next, but you can do your best to be prepared for it. Planning for your life, your business, and even your family is just preparation. Preparing for the things you want to happen, and sometimes preparing for the things that you don’t. Anything can happen, and there is always a chance that it will…but your plans, keep you prepared, in the event that they do. What plans are you making right now sis, and in the event that those plans fall through – what’s next? Because it’s better to have a plan and not need it, than to need it….and not have it. 

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It’s a lot going on in the world right now, or maybe it’s a lot going on in your life and it’s easy to feel hopeless. But no matter what’s happening to and around you, make a decision to get up, and get yours anyway sis. You make the decision for what comes next in your life. You make the decision for how you want to move forward. Do not let people, family, friends, society, or whoever dictate the very gift, and the very essence of who you are. You make the decision….not them.

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The more you work, the more progress you make. But also, the closer you get to burning out. You can’t always be “on” sis. You are not a machine. Sometimes being unproductive is just as important as being productive, and this week we’re showing you how. No matter what’s on your plate, no matter how many responsibilities you have or the number of your to do lists – you deserve to rest. You can’t keep achieving more, without taking a step back, and doing less. If you needed a sign (or permission) to take a step back, and take a break – here it is.

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Remember 12 year old you? What you looked like? What you struggled with? Before you start beating yourself up today about how you’re not getting anywhere in life, or mad at yourself because you don’t feel like you’re making progress and your life is going nowhere – remember your 12 year old self. Believe it or not, you’re doing much better than you think you are sis. If you take a minute and remind yourself of your past – you might end up making yourself proud of all that you’ve become today.

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No friction, no growth sis. No challenges, means no wins. Maybe the current challenge you are facing, is preparing you for a blessing that you’ve been waiting for. God will literally change your life, to accommodate the blessings that He has for you. But in order to accommodate for the things that you want, He has to move some things around in your life, make changes, remove some things, stretch some things, and put you through a process….to make room for them. Sometimes, in your toughest moments – you are being molded, shaped, and prepped into who you need to be to fully embrace, accept, and appreciate all the things that you are meant to have. You don’t deserve the hard challenges you face boo. But you do deserve to live the life you dream of. 

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The reality is, bad things happen sis. Sometimes they happen to us, and sometimes they happen around us. But it’s our job to not let it get the best of us. Do not let bad situations, bad people, bad experiences, ruin the very good that is you. If you are still here, there is still time to love the people who love you, create the things you want to create, dream what you want to dream, and go to the places you want to go. That deserves the very best of you sis…and nothing else.

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Sometimes the situations you find yourself in, and the outcomes you’re waiting for will happen the way that they are supposed to happen, and when they are supposed to happen. That means that there will be moments of your life where you can only do what you can do – and the rest is no longer up to you boo. A lot of us are trying to control things that we have no power in controlling. But instead of running yourself ragged, freaking out, and stressing – stop worrying about the “when” and shift your focus to the “how”…and then…just keep riding that wave until you get there.

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The friends that you have today, may not be the friends that you have tomorrow. As you evolve and change, the people around you evolve and change too – and sometimes they don’t grow in the same directions that you’re growing. It can be tough making new friends as an adult, but you set the standards for your life…even within your friendships. We all have experienced jealousy, competition, and “weird energy” within our friend groups, that show us maybe the friends we have aren’t so great. But while you’re out looking for those great friends, that support you, add value to your life, and genuinely love you – remember great friendships…start with you.

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Some of you are sitting on some really dope ideas. Some of you have been wanting to step it up, and take your business to the next level. Take your projects and creativity to the next level. Take your life, to the next level. But you have not moved, because you are concerned with whether or not the world, your peers, your family, or your audience….will be pleased with what you do. But the reality is, you can’t please everybody sis. If who you are, and what you do is your best? Then who you are, and what you do…is enough.

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