Sluts and Scholars

This week, these sluts are joined by Curvy Girl Sex author, speaker, and body acceptance and pleasure advocate Elle Chase. We cover fat and curvy sexuality, pleasure, and body positivity. Have you ever wondered how to radically accept your body, even if you don't like all of it all of the time? Tune in to hear more about how you can start loving yourself and accepting what you have to work with!

Books/ resources referenced in the show:

How to find Elle:

ELLE CHASE TWITTER

https://www.amazon.com/Curvy-Girl-Sex-Body-Positive-Positions/dp/1592337406

CURVY GIRL SEX TWITTER

BUY ELLE'S BOOK: Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

Lady Cheeky:

http://www.ladycheeky.com

http://smutforsmarties.com

Orgasmic Meditation - https://onetaste.us/

https://www.amazon.com/Slow-Sex-Craft-Female-Orgasm/dp/0446567183

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Nicoletta and Simone saw a play where 5 aliens attempt to convince the audience that the clitoris can save humanity. 10 minutes in, Simone grabbed Nicoletta's hand and whispered, "we need to get her on the podcast". And here she is! Ava Bogle is the creator and performer in "The Pleasure Project" and she, Nicoletta and Simone talk about the best way to look at your genitals (hint: pocket mirror!), the first things they stuck in their vaginas and how to approach dating when you write a blog about your sexploits. Simone admits that even as a co-host on Sluts and Scholars she's still uncomfortable with the word "slut".

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• Website: DiaryofASluttyFeminist.com

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In this episode, Simone and Nicoletta go bananas with Blair Williams, Sunday school teacher turned porn star, who has newly rocked the adult entertainment industry. The ladies discuss slut shaming, stigma toward porn performers, bj tips, vulva molds and what juices are best for anal scenes.

Bonus: get a sneak peak of Blair's new documentary (spoiler: Nicoletta is in it!), Some Porn Stars Go to Heaven.

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• instagram: GodBlessBlair

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Sarah Graham (intersex activist and addiction therapist) joins Nicoletta and Simone to talk about intersex means. You might not have heard the term before, but being intersex is as common as being a redhead! Sarah discusses the problematic nature of infant gender assignment surgery, how it feels to be lied to for years by your doctors and being a part of the coolest lesbian gang in London. Note: At the time of recording, Sarah's preferred pronouns were she/her/hers. They now use they/them/theirs.

Find her on Instagram @angelsareintersex and on Twitter at @addictionexpert

Your homework assignment from Sarah:

http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/only-two-sexes-the-barefaced-lie-that-makes-intersex-people-like-me-invisible-a6698236.html

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/the-secret-of-my-sex-411032.html

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/from-groucho-club-to-rehab-one-womans-battle-to-beat-cocaine-addiction-468765.html

http://www.bbc.com/news/av/world-europe-24776168/intersex-woman-this-pink-and-blue-thing-is-nonsense

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This week, Nicoletta and Simone are joined by Kelly Shibari: award winning porn performer, plus size model, and body positive female empowerment activist who also happens to have a Mensa-level IQ. Join in for a discussion on big beautiful people, fat girls in porn, sex in Japanese culture, and paving your way through the porn industry. If you're a good student, you will also learn how to do a body confidence exercise.

Contact Kelly TWITTER INSTAGRAM

Resources: Hire a Man

Guide to Wicked Sex

Mensa

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Dirty Lola joins Nicoletta and Simone

Dirty Lola is a self-defined queer, poly, and proud slutty woman of color. She rules New York City and beyond as a sex educator, storyteller, and sex toy aficionado. She joins Nicoletta and Simone to discuss the ins and outs of polyamory and what being a slut means to her. Gloriously and simply put: being in love with your own sex life!

Dirty Lola's blog: dirtylola69.tumblr.com

Sex Ed Agogo at Otto's Shrunken Head, last Saturday every month: sexedagogo.com

Twitter: @DirtyLola

Instagram: Dirty Lola

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Hooray for boobies! This week we are joined by Dr. Heather Richardson, breast expert and the head of the Bedford Breast Center in Los Angeles. Hold onto your tits as we talk about how our boobs change over time, how and when to check your breasts, and how diverse our tatas can be ! It is guaranteed to be a titillating time.

resources : https://www.bedfordbreastcenter.com

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This week, Nicoletta and Simone are joined by Hudsy Hawn, a professional and lifestyle switch and queen of the Los Angeles BDSM community. She has been featured on a variety of media platforms from Buzzfeed to Playboy Radio and even Storage Wars! Hudsy is currently the Headmistress in charge of education with Stockroom University. Before we begin, be a good student and check out the article below, then get ready for some real life 50 Shades as we explore BDSM, kink, and how to journey from vanilla disney princess to dominatrix. From play parties to dungeons, this is a fun filled episode that will leave your brains and your bottoms rosy with delight.

How to contact Hudsy:

https://twitter.com/hudsyhawn?lang=en

http://www.fromvanillatokink.com/

Links:

The Stockroom: https://www.stockroom.com/

Bar Sinister: http://barsinister.net/

Homework article: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3382736/

Sanctuary LAX: http://www.sanctuarylax.com/home/splash

Secretary the movie: https://www.amazon.com/Secretary-James-Spader/dp/B00BW6SOIQ

Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/

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Nicoletta and Simone talk about all things queerness with their friend Ava. Included: a fisting how-to!

'I came out as bi at Thanksgiving. I screamed it out during dinner."

this has great definitions of trans*/cissexism, and a non binary - and some other stuff we spoke about on the podcast

http://queerdictionary.blogspot.fr/

For folks interested in what it means to identify as femme when in the queer community, this is an amazing article about Femme identity.

great article about fisting/international fisting day

Ava finds when providing definitions on queer/transgender/non binary identities is good to provide two or more, that way someone who is learning for the first time as two resources, and if one definition falls short another can pick back up. So enjoy!

http://www.transstudent.org/definitions

Do your homework! https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3382736/

the Genderbread Person: http://tinypic.com/r/fxurtz/9

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Nicoletta and Simone (the Sluts and Scholars hosts) welcome Windee Patterson,

who works at the city attorney’s office, is a single mother, and a self identified gay butch lesbian! Join us as Windee shares her sexual journey and insight on gender expression, identifying and exploring desires at different ages, motherhood and sexuality, and how to talk to your children about sex. Have you ever wondered what to do when your child finds your dildo? Tune in and subscribe to find out.

Books and extras mentioned

• Transparent (TV Show)
• Price of Salt (book)
• I have two daddies (book)

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