So Shameless

Welcome Back to Part Two! We continue the convo about social media being a dating app, men being able to communicate to their lady that they are uncomfortable with something without being judged for having feelings, being a stay at home mom not being the hardest job in the world, the way communicagtion can change the dynamics of coparenting...ENJOY!

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Welcome Back to So Shameless! This week Daj returns as we talk Tahoe and Rell doing Ramadan, the passing of friends and the health concerns of the black community, Tahoes diet not being appropriate for his age, a message Eric Dane left for his daughters upon his passing, Jesse Jackson passing and Justin Laboy and CoiLeray having a discussion about how liking womens pictures on social media is in fact..cheating...ENJOY! 

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Welcome back to Part Two! The guys get back into it as they talk the problems with Black Mans relationship with Black Woman. do black men need to be more emotionally available, things we believe men need to do to call themselves a man, the difference between black people sht and nigga sht, men having platonic relationships with women, and More! ENJOY!

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Welcome Back to So Shameless!! This week the guys sit with Rell Easy of the Conversations With Rell Easy show as Tahoe revisits the 1 million for me or 10 million for you conversation, Rell convincing Tahoe to do Ramadan with him and the discipline that will be expected, Tahoe asks the guys what their Valentines Day was like this year, at what age they knew they were mature, and what they think a man is. 

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Welcome Back!

This week Tahoe opens up about his frustrations he has with the complaints NY has gotten about the snow cleanup, should black people feel more sadness about the passing of Alex Pretti, the division between black people when it comes to the "fight", FBA's vs the "other" blacks, Don Lemon gets arrested, recent accusations against Jay-Z, Nicki Minaj goes on another coke binge, and Kanye West issues an apology. ENJOY!!!

Welcome back to So Shameless!

Lola, Daj, Yesssterday and Tahoe talk the state of the country right now, a guy who was disappointed because his daughters friends werent allowed to sleep over his house because he was there, trump is a rac..an R word, the best way to support a revolution, and more! ENJOY!

Back from the holiday break..the whole gangs here as Tahoe has an issue with wearing outside clothes in the bedroom, a dad says youre out the will if you marry without a prenuptial agreement,
speaking to your friend about their cheating habits vs speaking to your parents about their parenting skills, does your relationship with the coparent alter how involved you are in your childs life, and how long should your spouse grieve before having relations. ENJOY!

Welcome to the true birth of Unconsciously Competent Podcast!

In this pilot episode, Kash and Tahoe unpack accountability, dating transitions, vulnerability in men, discernment in relationships, and the patience required to grow something real, whether that’s love, self-mastery, or a goal you refuse to quit on. The topics may feel familiar at times but the perspectives we share will shift you! 

Our pilot births our signature segment “Pick We”. One topic, two opposing arguments, and one rule that matters most… you can’t argue your own position. It’s about learning how the other side thinks, not proving you’re right.

When we sat down you wouldn’t believe it but we didn’t even have a name. After being held back long enough, we did the only thing that mattered. We sat down and talked. And began shaping the vision. 
You will get to hear the exact moment the name Unconsciously Competent was born, mid-conversation, proving that sometimes clarity comes after you start.

This episode was recorded in July 2023. Yes 2023! It’s January 2026 now… and somehow, it still arrived right on time. Along the road…Life lifed. Hard. Between parenting special-needs kids, running multiple platforms, navigating ADHD, grief, growth, and responsibility, consistency wasn’t always possible, but commitment never left the room. However Competence Collective, Unconsciously Competent didn’t launch late, it launched when we were ready. So while some references reflect the time it was recorded know that the true wisdom is timeless.

Ready to let your ignorance meet its match? Stay and grow with us! 

Head over to "Unconsciously Competent" on all streaming platforms and Subscribe or listen to our first episode here with No ADS!

Its the last episode of the year and JD and Lola join us to end the year right! Happy New Year everybody! See you in 2026!

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Chaos.. Part Two.

The Views expressed on this episode are not those of our hosts ...besides the ones they actually said but those probably werent either. ENJOY!

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