Softly Unfiltered

By Ashlyn & BlakeSociety & Culture

Softly Unfiltered episodes

April 14, 2025 Colorism In the Black Community : The Unspoken Divide
This week on The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we’re diving into a powerful and necessary conversation: Colorism in the Black Community :The Unspoken Divide.
In this episode, we open up about our personal experiences with colorism—both within and outside of the Black community. From the classroom to the workplace to the dating scene, we unpack how colorism shows up in everyday life and the emotional toll it can take. We also explore the lack of diverse representation of Black women in media, and most importantly, how we can begin to heal, grow, and challenge these deeply rooted biases.
45 min
April 08, 2025 The Strong Black Woman Label
This week on The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we’re diving into the stereotypes that Black women often face—like the "Strong Black Woman" and the "Angry Black Woman." We’ll unpack where these labels come from, how they impact us, and, most importantly, how we navigate and rise above them. Tune in for an honest, thought-provoking conversation on breaking free from these limiting narratives.
48 min
April 07, 2025 Nails Done, Hair Done, Everything Did
This week on The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we're diving into all things beauty—from hair and nails to the essential routines and habits that help us feel our best. Join us as we share our favorite hairstyles, reveal how much we budget for maintenance, and discuss the beauty rituals that keep us glowing inside and out.
57 min
April 07, 2025 Getting To Know Us
This week on The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we’re letting you in on a more personal side of us! We’re sharing what inspired us to start this podcast, how we’ve grown and evolved over the years, and our best advice for navigating life’s ups and downs. Plus, we’re diving into our favorite movies, TV shows, and songs, as well as the little things that help us unwind after a long day— and so much more. Tune in for a fun, candid, and insightful conversation!
53 min
April 07, 2025 Getting To Know Us
This week on The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we’re letting you in on a more personal side of us! We’re sharing what inspired us to start this podcast, how we’ve grown and evolved over the years, and our best advice for navigating life’s ups and downs. Plus, we’re diving into our favorite movies, TV shows, and songs, as well as the little things that help us unwind after a long day— and so much more. Tune in for a fun, candid, and insightful conversation!
53 min
March 18, 2025 Black & Suburban
On this week's episode of The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we're revisiting the topic that started it all. We’re diving into our experiences growing up in suburbia—the highs, the lows, and everything in between. From the unique challenges to the unexpected perks, we reflect on how our upbringing shaped us into the adults we are today. Tune in for an honest, heartfelt conversation!
50 min
March 11, 2025 The Reality of Soft Life
Soft life sounds good, but is it a privilege or a choice? Can you really embrace it while balancing work and responsibilities? And let’s be real does social media make it seem easier than it really is? We’re breaking down the truth behind soft life, the role of boundaries & self-respect, and how to create a life that feels good without going broke or burned out.
46 min
March 04, 2025 Being Raised on Love vs. Survival
In this week’s episode of the Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we dive into the profound differences between being raised with love versus being raised with survival, and how these early influences shape our lives as adults. We explore the impact of these mindsets on our romantic relationships, friendships, and overall outlook on life—both positively and negatively. Plus, we share our best advice on how to break free from a survival mindset and cultivate a more positive, empowered perspective moving forward.
55 min
February 25, 2025 Dating Etiquette : The Unspoken Rules of Modern Dating
This week on The Suburban Black Girl Podcast, we're diving deep into the unspoken rules of modern dating. From first-date etiquette to the age-old debate of who should pay, we’re breaking down the dos and don’ts of dating today. We’ll explore who should take the lead in planning, how far in advance dates should be scheduled, and what types of outings are appropriate in the early stages. Plus, we’re tackling the importance of establishing exclusivity and whether closure is necessary—or if ghosting is ever justified. Tune in for a fun and thought-provoking conversation on all things dating!
58 min
February 18, 2025 Balancing Motherhood, Marriage, and Content Creation with @searchinghighwithlo
We’re sitting down with @searchinghighwithlo to talk about Balancing Motherhood, Marriage, and Content Creation, etc. From chasing dreams to managing it all, Lauren keeps it real on what it takes to balance it all while staying true to yourself!
1 hr 5 min

About Softly Unfiltered

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Hosted by Ashlyn and Blake, two multifaceted Black women based in Houston, Softly Unfiltered is where soft meets honest. Each week, we get real about personal growth, healing, navigating corporate America, and the messy, funny, and complex realities of modern dating. From breaking generational cycles to finding our voice in spaces that weren't built for us, our conversations blend honesty, humor, and hard truths—all rooted in our lived experiences.