Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Starting Out Strong: First Steps to ENM, Ep. 21


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This week I am speaking with Dr. Joli Hamilton.  This is one of my favorite episodes that I've recorded yet. Meeting someone whose journey feels so similar to my own is so validating and is really what I hope to provide for so many of you the listeners. 

Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, and AASECT (pronounced ay-sect) certified sex educator. Joli’s also the author of the best-selling book Project Relationship: The Entrepreneur's Action Plan for Passionate, Sustainable Love and host of the Project Relationship podcast. She has spent the past two decades studying and reimagining what love can be if we open our imaginations to possibility. Joli helps people create partnerships that are custom-built for their authentic selves, no more shrinking, pretending, or hiding required.

💨 TLDR;

  • 2:14- The Journey to Non-Monogamy
  • 16:29- Coming Out
  • 23:10- Kids and Non-Monogamy
  • 32:34- Jealousy
  • 40:24- Self-Awareness
  • 50:17- Finding Community in Non-Monogamy

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📚 Books mentioned: 

  • Ethical Slut, Janet Hardy
  • Project Relationship by Dr. Joli Hamilton

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