SuccessFULL With ADHD

In this episode, I had a fantastic conversation with Kate Moryoussef, a certified ADHD coach, founder of ADHD Women's Wellbeing, and host of the ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast. Together, we discussed her own journey with ADHD, her coaching practice, and how she's helping women with ADHD embrace their strengths and create fulfilling lives.

[02:45] Kate shares her ADHD diagnosis journey.
[04:42] The impact of ADHD on her family and relationships.
[06:23] Recognizing her daughter's ADHD symptoms.
[09:04] The positive aspects of ADHD: creativity, resourcefulness, and empathy.
[12:40] Kate's experiences in nursing and how they influenced her ADHD coaching.
[16:25] Supporting clients with ADHD and tackling burnout.
[19:01] How coaching can be a powerful tool for those with ADHD.
[22:39] Addressing imposter syndrome and the importance of challenging negative thoughts.
[24:03] Increase in adult ADHD diagnosis in the UK and the challenges of getting a diagnosis.
[26:07] Educating and empowering yourself while waiting for an ADHD diagnosis.

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LINKS:

ADHD Women's Wellbeing: https://adhdwomenswellbeing.co.uk  (Kate’s website)
ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast: https://www.adhdwomenswellbeing.co.uk/adhd-podcast
Instagram accounts:
@kate_moryoussef
@adhdwomenswellbeingpod

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In today's episode, I'm thrilled to have Danny O'Neill, an actor, businessperson, and father who has defied all odds, pushing through his ADHD to achieve success in various areas of his life. Danny shares his incredible journey, including being adopted, facing incarceration, and discovering his passion for acting. His story will inspire you to believe that everything will be okay and that you, too, can overcome challenges and thrive with ADHD.

[03:02] Introduction of Danny O'Neill, Actor, and Businessman living with ADHD
[04:32] The importance of identifying personal strengths
[05:24] The journey of discovering Danny's ADHD
[06:50] The challenges of ADHD in different stages of life
[08:19] Strategies for managing and overcoming ADHD
[09:55] Positive aspects of ADHD
[11:42] Importance of personal growth and learning in dealing with ADHD
[16:22] Time management tips and setting priorities
[18:15] ADHD and the role of dopamine
[19:48] Parenting and setting an example for children with ADHD
[23:16] Danny's key takeaway
[23:43] From politics to prison
[25:26] Proving doubters wrong and rebuilding his life
[27:49] Embracing authenticity
[30:00] Danny's journey to self-discovery and happiness

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In this episode, I sit down with J Mack Slaughter, former boy band member, actor and now, ER doctor.  J Mack shares his personal and professional experiences with ADHD, offering valuable advice for others living with ADHD. Join us as we discuss the importance of having a supportive team, finding the right systems that work for you, and collaborating with others who can balance out ADHD-related challenges.

(00:00) Introduction
(03:25) J Mack's ADHD diagnosis journey
(04:40) Coping with ADHD and medication
(06:17) J Mack's experience in medical school
(08:14) ADHD hyperfocus and how it helped in his medical career
(10:08) Finding a supportive team at work
(13:52) The significance of having a supportive team in different aspects of life
(14:34) Figuring out what systems and strategies work for you
(16:13) The importance of being honest and vulnerable about ADHD struggles
(16:23) Maintaining a healthy marriage and being a good parent with ADHD
(19:30) J Mack’s Top Tool to Success with ADHD
(22:09) Using tools that cater to your learning style
(22:57) Embracing different learning styles

If you would like to learn more about Dr. J Mack Slaugher, go to linktr.ee/drjmackslaughter

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In this episode, I speak with Dr. Gabor Maté, a renowned author and speaker about ADHD and its impact on people's lives.

Trigger warning: Because I'm dedicated to helping as many individuals with ADHD as I can, I push myself to the limit and brought someone to this space who has been a contrarian in the ADHD world specifically, in the origins of ADHD. I'll leave it up to you to decide which viewpoint you agree with. But what is noteworthy is that we can all learn from different viewpoints as we continue to explore our experiences with ADHD, what is, what isn't and how it shows up for each of us.
 
You don't have to agree with my guest's viewpoints to reach the benefits of what he shares during this episode. Trauma is a very real topic for individuals and up to 70% of adults have experienced at least one traumatic event in their lifetime.

Do I agree with everything in this episode?

Does it matter what I think?

Listen to the end to hear my opinion.

What We Discuss:

• How Dr. Maté believes that ADHD is not a disorder, but a result of the environment in which an individual lives.
• The impact of childhood trauma on the development of ADHD.
• The role of parents in the development of ADHD.
• The need for connection and relationships in managing ADHD.
• The impact of stress on attention and the development of autoimmune diseases.
• The importance of taking care of oneself and managing stress in managing ADHD.
• The role of medication in managing ADHD symptoms.
• The importance of understanding oneself and seeking help in managing ADHD.

If you would like to learn more about Dr. Gabor Maté, visit his website, drgabormate.com

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Timeline:

0:38 A special message from Brooke
2:27 Dr. Gabor Mate’s background in ADHD.
7:14 ADHD doesn’t have to define you.
12:24 The architecture of the brain
18:28 The risk of addiction in ADHD.
23:49 If you want to get a two year old to behave, don’t get triggered…
26:31 How much do you have to motivate your kids?
30:45 What’s the difference between compounded trauma and trauma?
35:51 The importance of the attachment relationship in parenting.
42:14 If someone has a troubled childhood and their implicit memory is encoded in their brain, can we remove that memory over time?
47:49 Your body and your mind react when you put pressure on yourself.
52:28 Gabor’s book recommendations for parents.

Resources:
Dr. Gabor Maté's website - drgabormate.com

-When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress by Dr. Gabor Maté
-Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté

Are you a professional with ADHD looking for ways to control the chaos of your ADHD brain, find consistency in your positive habits and routines, and gain the tools and accountability to be confident and empowered? Check out our upcoming signature 3C Activation © hybrid 1:1 and adult ADHD Group Coaching program starting in May!

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💥Earn 38 ICF Credits

💥Learn the latest neuroscience to boost your practice

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In this episode, I spoke with Michelle Price, who shares her journey through childhood and adulthood with ADHD. Michelle discusses how her high intelligence compensated for her lack of executive functioning skills until she reached high school and floundered. She also shares her experience of being diagnosed with ADHD and how she used the Clifton Strengths Finder to leverage her strengths and get the focus she needed to thrive in her personal and professional life.

What You'll Learn:
•   High intelligence can compensate for a lack of executive functioning skills, but it catches up eventually.
•   Social anxiety can be a common experience for individuals with ADHD.
•   ADHD can manifest in multiple ways, including impulsiveness and inconsistency.
•   Being diagnosed with ADHD can provide valuable insight and understanding.
•   Leveraging strengths and finding focus with tools like the Clifton Strengths Finder can be game-changing.
•   Asking for help and having a support network is important in managing ADHD.
•   Understanding the brain's functioning with regards to ADHD, such as Daniel Amon's work and brain scans, can help in managing ADHD.
•   Knowing oneself and accepting one's quirks and strengths is essential in thriving with ADHD.

If you want to learn more about Michelle and her work, you can find sign up for updates on her website, https://sheadhd.org/

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Timestamps:
•   00:00 - Introduction
•   01:33 - Michelle discusses her difficult childhood and struggles with social anxiety and oppositional defiance.
•   05:09 - Michelle's executive functions were weak and how she floundered in math during high school.
•   07:14 - Discovering ADHD in adulthood and how it explained her struggles in school and career
•   09:23 - How Michelle learned to manage her ADHD symptoms 
•   12:47 - Michelle shares her decision to start her own business
•   18:20 - Michelle's experience with the Clifton Strengths Finder and how it helped her understand her natural talents and abilities
•   24:25 - The importance of self-care in managing ADHD symptoms
•   28:10 - Michelle shares her advice for people with ADHD
•   32:00 - Conclusion and resource links

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Wondering how a 19 year old with ADHD can be confident, an ADHD Advocate, and a future ADHD Coach?  In this episode, I interview Zoe Stanley, a young ADHD advocate who shares her journey with ADHD and how she embraced it. Zoe talks about her experiences with ADHD coaching, advocating for herself in school, and the importance of educating others about the condition.

In this episode, you will learn:
✔️Zoe’s ADHD journey
✔️Her secrets to embracing and elevating her ADHD struggles and creating success
✔️What life looks like for her now
✔️Her # 1 pro tip for individuals with ADHD

TIMELINE:

• [1:55] Zoe's early ADHD diagnosis and the role her mother played in it
• [6:28] Zoe's openness about her ADHD in school
• [7:43] Dealing with a professor who questioned Zoe's ADHD
• [9:56] Advice for students with ADHD
• [11:00] The importance of positive self-talk for students with ADHD
• [14:34] Zoe's number one ADHD tip

Check out Zoe at @zoefreedom.adhd 

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In this episode, Missy Modell shares her journey with ADHD and how it has impacted her life and business. She discusses the importance of self-compassion, setting boundaries, and finding balance between creativity and admin tasks.

Key Takeaways:

• Many women with ADHD are underdiagnosed due to not fitting typical criteria.
• Self-compassion is crucial for those with ADHD
• Designating specific days for creative tasks and admin tasks 
• Setting boundaries and protecting your energy
• Trusting your gut and paying attention to red flags 

Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction

01:14 - Missy's journey with suspected ADHD

04:17 - The importance of understanding core values and balance

06:12 - Missy's digital marketing business and facing ADHD challenges daily

07:44 - Managing creative and admin tasks

08:11 - Empowerment through setting boundaries

10:27 - The connection between ADHD and lack of boundaries

11:38 - Missy's number one pro tip: Show yourself compassion

Check out my follow-up interview with Missy that we did on IG live, immediately following the recording of this interview: CLICK HERE or https://www.instagram.com/tv/Co7xDV6rVHO/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=


Follow Missy on IG: @missymodell
Visit her website: missymodell.com

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Together we will visualize our goals, share support, kick negative thoughts, reframe our mindsets, heal the past, and learn how Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria affects ADHDers and what to do about it.

Healing ADHD Emotions Program Consists of:

• Access to Coach and Group Daily through WhatsApp
• 8, 60 minute weekly live private Zoom group sessions with a maximum of 10 members
• Access to group recordings
• Printable Course Manual & Worksheets
• Opportunities for accountability partners and body doubling
• LIFETIME access to our Private Facebook Community 3C Activation© with peer-to-peer support.
• LIFETIME access to our Private Coaching With Brooke Discord Body Doubling Group
• BONUS: 2, 3C Membership Group Coaching Calls

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Starting THIS Thursday, March 23rd @ 12pm ET

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In this episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Donatella Arpaia, a successful restaurateur, attorney, and mother of three, who shared her journey with ADHD and the strategies that have helped her achieve success.

During our conversation, Donatella discussed the challenges she faced with ADHD and how she learned to cope and manage her symptoms. She shared several insights and tips that can help anyone with ADHD navigate their personal and professional lives with greater ease and success.

Here is a breakdown of the key takeaways from our conversation:

•   Coping with ADHD can be challenging, but there are ways to manage the symptoms and achieve success.

•   Building routines and habits can help individuals with ADHD stay organized and focused. 

•   Find what works best for you when it comes to managing ADHD symptoms. 

•   It's okay to take breaks and give yourself permission to rest when needed.

•   Accountability is key.

•   Be aware of your strengths and weaknesses and delegate.

•   The importance of self-awareness and being forgiving of oneself.


If you are struggling with defensiveness and want strategies to help support you to STOP feeling stressed and criticized, join me and Coach Kelly tomorrow, Thursday, March 16th at 12pm ET. You must register using the link HERE .

If you want to learn more about Donatella and her work, you can find her on social media at @donatellaarpaia or visit her website, donatella.com.

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Timestamps:

•   Introduction

•   0:52 - Donatella's background and journey with ADHD

•   3:44 - Coping with ADHD symptoms

•   5:36 - Building routines and habits

•   7:36 - Using a digital and paper-based system

•   10:09 - Giving yourself permission to take breaks

•   13:02 - The importance of accountability

•   16:20 - Being forgiving of oneself and finding what works best for you

•   19:34 - Establishing a workout routine and other healthy habits

•   21:02 - Delegating tasks and simplifying life

•   23:05 - Conclusion and resource link

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Elliot Zimet is a successful illusionist (you may remember him from America's Got Talent), but learning to cope with his ADHD is his biggest trick. He'll join me to discuss his journey of discovering his passion and dealing with ADHD in his own way.

While the baby steps he's taken have gotten him far in his career, he'll tell us why he's excited about working with me as his coach as he continues to learn as much as he can about the world and himself.

For more information on Elliot and his business: ezmagic.net

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Being that I'm a coach myself, I'm all about hiring an expert to get you where you want to go and so I hired podcast coach/producer, Marc Ronick, to help me with this podcast.

His diagnosis happened later in life, but he'll explain why he was always suspicious that there was something neuro-divergent going on with him. He'll share why he's not blaming or judging himself about ADHD anymore and how he plans to get through this next phase of his life now that he learned to accept and embrace his ADHD.

If you enjoyed this episode, check out a recent Instagram Live we did together after we recorded this episode: CLICK HERE

For more information on Marc and his podcast production and consulting business, iRonick Media:
https://linktr.ee/ironickmedia

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💥Learn the latest neuroscience to boost your practice

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