SuccessFULL With ADHD

In this episode, I sit down with the incredible Mika Ross, therapist, relationship coach, and all-around relatable expert on navigating the messiness of relationships, especially when ADHD dynamics come into play. Mika shares her journey from aspiring child therapist to becoming a relationship expert, all while unpacking her own family experiences. We unravel the nuances of communication, understanding, and empathy, especially in relationships affected by ADHD and rejection sensitivity. Mika offers unique tools like her trusty "scales" for gauging feelings, strategies for paraphrasing to enhance active listening, and tips for avoiding the dreaded resentment that can creep into any relationship. Mika’s wisdom will inspire you to embrace those "big feelings," communicate effectively, and find those win-win solutions that make relationships thrive.

Episode Highlights:
[1:29] - Meet Mika Ross, the relatable therapist who’s real about the ups and downs of relationship dynamics.
[2:42] - Mika shares her journey from child therapy to relationship coaching, driven by personal experiences and a late-in-life ADHD connection.
[5:33] - The "ADHD detector" moments: how Mika notices the signs and patterns of ADHD within couples.
[12:08] - Unpacking non-verbal communication and why assumptions often lead to misinterpretations.
[15:44] - Mika’s go-to strategy: using "scales" to bring clarity and eliminate guesswork in emotional exchanges.
[20:21] - Tools for the highly sensitive: using scales and structured communication to reduce misunderstandings.
[25:19] - The power of paraphrasing: How Mika learned to listen actively and avoid surface-level conversations.
[34:31] - Postpone persuasion! Mika’s "five P’s" strategy for truly understanding your partner before jumping to conclusions.
[35:38] - Win-win solutions vs. compromise: finding what feels good for both sides without resentment.

Connect with Mika: 

• Connect with Mika on Instagram: @mikaross.therapist
• Visit Mika’s website for free relationship resources and trainings: mikaross.com
• Listen to Mika’s podcast: How to Talk About It

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In this episode, I chat with Christopher French, an accomplished composer, musician, and fellow ADHD warrior. Christopher opens up about his journey from a rebellious high school dropout to finding solace and purpose through music. He shares his personal experiences with ADHD, addiction, and recovery, and how these challenges have shaped his creative path.

Throughout our conversation, Christopher shares how he's managed to develop a variety of life hacks and strategies to maintain balance, especially as a husband and father. From meditation to blue-tinted sunglasses, he reveals some unique methods he's embraced to regulate his sensory experiences and stay grounded. Join us as we unpack the highs and lows of living with ADHD, the power of self-awareness, and what it takes to thrive as a neurodivergent creative.

Christopher French is a multi-talented composer, artist, and 1:1 creative wellness coach based in Los Angeles. With a rich background in alternative rock and an impressive range of scoring credits, Christopher has worked on projects for HBO, Amazon Prime, and feature films. He lives with his wife, actress and singer Ashley Tisdale, and their two children, and continues to create from his private HD recording studio, Dreamhaus.

Episode Highlights:
[00:32] - Introduction to Christopher French, his artistic journey, and living with ADHD.
[1:41] - Christopher shares his early experiences with ADHD diagnosis and medication in the '90s.
[7:28] - Discussing the link between ADHD, substance abuse, and the pursuit of dopamine.
[13:36] - How major life changes, like marriage and parenthood, re-trigger ADHD symptoms.
[21:15] - The challenges of executive dysfunction and strategies for managing chaotic situations.
[26:26] - Embracing dual diagnoses in recovery programs for ADHD and substance abuse.
[30:51] - Using sensory strategies like blue-tinted sunglasses and white noise to ease sensory overload.
[35:50] - The power of self-compassion and accepting ADHD as a part of oneself.
[43:28] - Christopher describes his hyper-focus and how he leverages it in high-pressure situations.
[47:30] - Closing thoughts on the lifelong journey of understanding and managing ADHD.

Connect with Christopher French:

• Connect with Christopher French: cmfrench.com
• Follow Christopher on Instagram: @cmfrench
• Book mentioned: Blue Mind by Wallace J. Nichols

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In this episode, I sit down with the brilliant and insightful Noelle Lynn, a therapist who specializes in using EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) to help those with ADHD. Noelle brings a unique perspective on how trauma, whether big or small, impacts neurodivergent individuals, particularly those with ADHD. We unpack the nuances of how traditional therapeutic methods can sometimes fall short when working with ADHD clients, and how EMDR can fill in those gaps.

Noelle shares her passion for working with clients to stop shaming themselves for the way their brains work. We also discuss the challenges of misdiagnosis, particularly in women, and how ADHD and autism can often be confused with borderline personality disorder. If you've ever wondered about the connection between trauma, ADHD, and therapy, or are curious about EMDR as a potential path for healing, this episode is packed with eye-opening insights and actionable takeaways.

ADHD and Trauma Therapist, Noelle Lynn is a licensed clinical social worker and EMDRIA certified EMDR therapist. Noelle is pioneering the use of EMDR with clients who have ADHD. With over 4,000 EMDR sessions completed with clients who have ADHD, Noelle is excited to expand treatment options available to those who live with ADHD and trauma.

Episode Highlights:
[1:01] – How traditional therapies sometimes fail ADHD clients and why EMDR works better for trauma.
[5:00] – Misdiagnosis in women: Why ADHD and autism are often confused with borderline personality disorder.
[8:49] – Understanding EMDR: How it works and why it’s so effective for those with ADHD.
[12:43] – The trauma all ADHD individuals experience, even if not always recognized as such.
[16:34] – Coaching vs. EMDR: What works best for whom and why.
[19:15] – How to tailor EMDR for ADHD brains—visualization techniques, fidgeting, and re-imagining parts of the brain.
[25:58] – Internal Family Systems (IFS) and using imagination to process trauma in ADHD clients.
[29:22] – Noelle’s final thoughts on where to start after an ADHD diagnosis and how to find the right resources.

Connect with Noelle Lynn, LMSW, ADHD-CCSP:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/noelle-lynn-lmsw-adhd-ccsp-1287913b

Resources Mentioned:

• Attitude Magazine
• ADDA – Attention Deficit Disorder Association
• How to ADHD YouTube Channel

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This week I'm joined by my good friend, Neuropsychotherapist, and Author Britt Frank. Britt is a familiar face here, and today we’re diving into a topic that’s more relevant than ever: election anxiety. With the upcoming election in 2024, many of us, especially those with ADHD, are feeling overwhelmed by the constant news and social media overload. Britt shares her expertise on why our brains react this way, how the ADHD brain is particularly affected, and most importantly, strategies to help us stay grounded in such chaotic times.

Together, we explore practical ways to regulate your nervous system, why ADHDers tend to get stuck in anxiety loops, and how we can learn to manage these stress triggers. Britt also discusses her new Getting Unstuck Workbook and offers some powerful takeaways on how we can all regain a sense of control, even when it feels like the world is spiraling. 

Britt Frank, LSCSW, SEP is a licensed neuropsychotherapist and author of The Science of Stuck (Penguin Random House), named by SHRM, Esquire, New York Magazine, and The Next Big Idea Club as a must-read. Britt received her undergraduate degree from Duke University and her master’s degree from the University of Kansas, where she later became an award-winning adjunct instructor. Britt is a contributing writer to Psychology Today and her work has been featured in Forbes, NPR, The New York Times, Fast Company, Psych Central, SELF, and Thrive Global.

Episode Highlights:

[2:18] – The overwhelm of politics and how it’s affecting everyone, particularly the ADHD community.
[4:36] – Understanding how the ADHD brain reacts to news overload and what we can do about it.
[7:56] – Breaking down why election cycles trigger deep-rooted family or personal anxieties. [16:12] – Practical strategies to stop negative thought loops, including Britt’s “snow-globing” technique.
[20:36] – What’s your role? Understanding where to focus your energy and make the best choices for your mental health.
[28:42] – How to handle doomscrolling and reduce anxiety during election season by managing your nervous system.
[33:05] – Britt shares insights from her Getting Unstuck Workbook and the concept of "micro yeses." 
[37:02] – Self-compassion and how to validate your feelings during overwhelming times.

Connect with Britt Frank, LSCSW, SEP:

• Instagram: @brittfrank 
• Email: [email protected] 
• Website: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brittfrankmsw/

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In today’s episode of SuccessFULL with ADHD, I’m joined by two incredible experts in the field of diagnostic evaluations—Laurie Peterson and Dr. Abbey Weinstein. Laurie and Abbey are the brilliant minds behind Diagnostic Learning Services, and they’ve spent years helping people of all ages navigate the complex world of ADHD and learning disabilities. 

We get into the nuances of ADHD evaluations, the importance of comprehensive assessments, and the pitfalls of quick online diagnoses. Laurie and Abbey also share their experiences with the rise in evaluations post-COVID and the crucial role of proper testing in setting up effective interventions. 

Laurie Peterson and Dr. Abbey Weinstein are the dynamic hosts of the widely successful podcast "Let’s Talk Learning Disabilities." Laurie, the Founder and Executive Director of Diagnostic Learning Services, holds dual master’s degrees in Special Education and Professional Counseling, and is a National Certified Educational Diagnostician (NCED). Dr. Weinstein, the Director of Assessment for eDiagnostic Learning Services, brings over 22 years of experience in education, including a Ph.D. in Special Education. Together, they leverage their extensive expertise in assessing and addressing learning disabilities like Dyslexia and ADHD, making them respected voices in the field.

Episode Highlights:
[00:00] - Introduction and welcome to Laurie Peterson and Dr. Abbey Weinstein.[4:10] - Laurie and Abbey share the importance of comprehensive ADHD evaluations and the impact of their work.
[6:20] - Differences between evaluations for academic accommodations vs. personal understanding of ADHD.
[14:12] - Discussion on the ethical concerns of quick online ADHD evaluations.
[22:31] - Frustrations with the school system’s approach to ADHD and learning disabilities.
[25:02] - The rise in ADHD evaluations post-COVID and the influence of social media.
[26:35] - The accuracy of self-diagnosis and the role of proper childhood history in ADHD diagnosis.
[37:32] - How to take the first steps if you suspect ADHD in yourself or your child.
[38:44] - Where to find Laurie and Abbey for more information or to schedule an evaluation.

Links and Resources:
Let’s Talk Learning Disabilities Podcast: https://ltldpodcast.com/
Diagnose Learning Disabilities Website: https://www.ediagnosticlearning.com/ 

Thank you for tuning into "SuccessFULL with ADHD." If this episode has impacted you, remember to rate, follow, share, and review our podcast. Your support helps us reach and help more individuals navigating their journeys with ADHD.

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In this episode, I sit down with Jason Raznick, the founder and CEO of Benzinga, a financial content platform that's all about making complex financial information accessible and easy to digest—something we ADHD-ers can definitely appreciate! Jason is not just a successful entrepreneur but also someone who navigates life with ADHD. He shares his personal journey from being a young boy who taped himself to his chair in school to becoming a leading voice in financial news. We dive into the challenges and triumphs of managing ADHD in both personal and professional life, especially in the high-stakes world of finance. Jason’s story is one of resilience, innovation, and learning to harness ADHD as a strength rather than a setback. 

Episode Highlights:
[0:42] - Introduction to Jason Raznick, his background, and his mission with Benzinga.
[3:03] - Jason’s early experiences with ADHD, including taping himself to his seat in second grade.
[6:16] - Discussing the dual edge of ADHD: impulsivity versus overthinking.
[10:29] - How Jason turned the corner in fifth and sixth grade and gained confidence in his learning abilities.
[11:35] - The struggle with deadlines and the stress of last-minute work.
[19:46] - How Jason deals with negative feedback and the importance of ignoring the noise.
[25:39] - Growing Benzinga and making financial news more accessible, especially for those with ADHD.
[34:35] - The importance of diversifying investments and following intuition.
[41:17] - Jason’s top success tip for ADHD-ers starting to invest: diversify and start small.

Connect with Jason Raznick:

• Jason’s website: benzinga.com
• Podcast: The Raz Report: https://redcircle.com/shows/the-raz-report 
• X: https://x.com/jasonraznick 
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raznick 

Thank you for tuning into "SuccessFULL with ADHD." If this episode has impacted you, remember to rate, follow, share, and review our podcast. Your support helps us reach and help more individuals navigating their journeys with ADHD.

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Today I have a truly special guest joining us – my friend and esteemed colleague, Cathy Rashidian. Cathy is a certified executive coach with a unique focus on ADHD in the workplace. With over 20 years of leadership experience and a personal journey with ADHD, Cathy combines traditional coaching techniques with ADHD-specific strategies to empower her clients. She holds credentials from the International Coach Federation (ICF) and the Professional Association of ADHD Coaches (PAAC), and she's a lead trainer at ADD Coach Academy. She's also the host of the "Proudly ADHD at Work" podcast and a sought-after speaker on neurodiversity in the workplace.

In this episode, we discuss the responsibilities of the coaching industry, especially for those specializing in ADHD. We discuss the explosive growth of the coaching field, the importance of proper training and credentials, and how to find a coach who operates with integrity. Cathy shares her journey from corporate leadership to becoming an ADHD coach and provides invaluable advice for both aspiring coaches and those seeking coaching services. Join us as we unpack what it truly means to be a responsible and effective coach in today's world.

Episode Highlights:

[3:40] - Cathy's journey to becoming an ADHD coach and her diagnosis.

[7:49] - The difference between effective coaching and mere advice-giving.

[10:35] - The dangers of unqualified coaching and why proper training is crucial.

[14:18] - The rigorous process of getting a coaching program ICF-approved.

[18:03] - How to determine if a coaching relationship is the right fit for you.

[22:00] - The importance of tracking progress and seeing micro-progress in coaching.

[28:51] - Creating a responsibility checklist for coaches to ensure ethical practices.

[39:28] - The financial realities of being a coach and balancing passion with business.

Connect with Cathy Rashidian:

https://www.readysetchoose.com/ 

Thank you for tuning into "SuccessFULL with ADHD." If this episode has impacted you, remember to rate, follow, share, and review our podcast. Your support helps us reach and help more individuals navigating their journeys with ADHD.

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In this episode, I have the honor of hosting the incredible Jim Kwik, a world-renowned brain coach and memory expert. Jim shares his remarkable journey from being labeled the "boy with the broken brain" to becoming a leading authority in brain performance and accelerated learning. Jim shares strategies for enhancing memory, boosting reading speed, and unlocking the true potential of our minds. 

Rising from the challenges of a childhood brain injury, Jim developed groundbreaking strategies to enhance mental performance. For over three decades, he's been on a mission to empower individuals to unlock their true genius, empowering them to live a life of greater power, productivity, and purpose. Jim is a coach and the author of the book Limitless: Upgrade Your Brain, Learn Anything Faster, and Unlock Your Exceptional Life.

Connect with Jim and grab your free virtual pass to the “Limitless Learner Summit” starting August 5. At the summit, you will learn from Jim Kwik and other expert speakers how to supercharge your memory, optimize brain health, and unlock your potential, leading to increased productivity, performance, and personal growth.

Episode Highlights:

[01:40] - Jim's journey and overcoming his traumatic brain injury.
[06:43] - Jim's mission is to empower individuals through brain training.
[10:03] - The significance of mindset and the power of words.
[11:13] - Practical brain health tips, including diet and hydration.
[15:45] - How can killing ants improve your brain?
[20:13] - Speed reading techniques and the importance of focus.
[31:50] - The Pomodoro Technique and managing focus with ADHD.
[38:42] - The role of choice in achieving flow states and maintaining focus. 
[44:44] - Jim's advice for staying in a flow state and the power of stopping mid-sentence.
[46:30] - Show up for yourself at The Limitless Learner Summit.

Connect with Jim Kwik:

Free Virtual Pass to the Limitless Learner Summit (August 5th to 7th): https://www.TheLimitlessLearner.com/CWB

Follow Jim Kwik on social media: Instagram, Facebook, Twitter

Thank you for tuning into "SuccessFULL with ADHD." If this episode has impacted you, remember to rate, follow, share, and review our podcast. Your support helps us reach and help more individuals navigating their journeys with ADHD.

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💥Gain a proven process for ADHD coaching

💥Earn 38 ICF Credits

💥Learn the latest neuroscience to boost your practice

💥Qualify to be listed under ACO Directory

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💥Gain a proven process for ADHD coaching

💥Earn 38 ICF Credits

💥Learn the latest neuroscience to boost your practice

💥Qualify to be listed under ACO Directory

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In this episode, I welcome Dr. Sharon Saline, a clinical psychologist with over 30 years of experience and a top expert on ADHD, anxiety, learning differences, and mental health challenges. Dr. Saline shares her personal experience with ADHD and anxiety and provides insights into the relationship between these two conditions. She also offers strategies for managing anxiety and ADHD, emphasizing the importance of understanding triggers and developing proactive strategies.

Episode Highlights:

[0:43] Introduction of Dr. Sharon Saline

[3:11] Dr. Sharon Saline's story of an ADHD Diagnosis

[8:37] Research on Generalized Anxiety Disorder in kids and teens

[8:55] Connecting ADHD and Generalized Anxiety Disorder

[13:03] Triggers of anxiety and ADHD

[15:02] Signs of anxiety

[17:57] How ADHD impacts people dealing with their anxiety

[20:28] Making a list of choices for when triggered

[22:19] Thinking about what could go right instead of focusing on negativity

[24:02] The importance of distraction

[25:59] Why we need connection

[28:05] Blending cognitive behavioral therapy, insight-oriented psychotherapy, and mindfulness positive psychology

[30:30] Number one pro tip

Resources Mentioned:

• Dr. Saline’s website: https://drsharonsaline.com/ 
• Dr. Saline’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrSharonSaline/ 
• Dr. Saline’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsharonsaline/ 
• Dr. Saline’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sharon-saline-psy-d-b2a18770/ 
• Dr. Sharon Saline's book: What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew: Working Together to Empower Kids for Success in School and Life

Thank you for tuning into "SuccessFULL with ADHD." If this episode has impacted you, remember to rate, follow, share, and review our podcast. Your support helps us reach and help more individuals navigating their journeys with ADHD.

🚨Calling all aspiring ADHD coaches ▶️ https://www.coachingwithbrooke.com/coach-certification-and-training

Help your clients break free from paralysis and better manage their life with 3C Activation® coach training!

💥Gain a proven process for ADHD coaching

💥Earn 38 ICF Credits

💥Learn the latest neuroscience to boost your practice

💥Qualify to be listed under ACO Directory

Learn more ▶️ https://www.coachingwithbrooke.com/coach-certification-and-training