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Have you experienced being discarded by your husband, either emotionally or physically? Yvette Stone has experienced both. Being discarded is a pain that cuts so deep, even the strongest person is not immune to it. 


Yvette is here to tell us about her life story, from marrying her narcissistic abuser at nineteen to thriving as a trauma-informed psychotherapist who now helps other women just like her. Just like you. Join us as she tells her incredible story of healing. 


Key Points From This Episode:

  • What a narcissistic abusive relationship is.
  • Why it’s fair to say that everyone is on the narcissistic spectrum. 
  • What the phrase “deflated narcissistic tendencies” means.
  • How Yvette found out that she was dealing with a narcissistic husband.
  • How Yvette’s husband packed up and left after a year of marriage (and how they “made up” and spent the next twenty-some years together). 
  • Yvette’s journey back to school and the repercussions that caused in her marriage.
  • How Yvette was served divorce papers at the end of her two decades of marriage without even a single conversation about divorce. Talk about discard. 
  • The hardest part about healing and the best part about healing from a narcissistic abusive relationship. 

Access the transcript, read the show notes, and/or ask Natalie a question here

Related Resources:

  • Connect with Yvette on her website
  • If you are a Christian woman who thinks you may be in an emotionally destructive marriage, learn more at https://flyingfreenow.com
  • I'll send you (free!) the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage, which has an assessment to help you figure out if your relationship is abusive or not. All you have to do is hop on my mailing list at https://flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download
  • You can also find out about our online education and support program for women of faith at https://joinflyingfree.com
  • And finally, if you are a divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, lose weight, have amazing relationships, get things done, build a business or career, and even find a good man (if you want one) - check out Flying Higher at https://joinflyinghigher.com

Yvette Stone is a human, both being and doing. A former magazine publisher, Yvette changed careers midlife and now practices as a trauma-informed psychotherapist and life coach based in Seattle, Washington, specializing in helping women recover from domestic violence, particularly narcissistic abuse. Yvette earned her degree from The Seattle School of Theology and Psychology, and has worked as a Fellow at the Allender Center, and as an advocate with Northwest Family Life. In her free time, you can find her holding a one-sided conversation with her dog, doing some sort of intense workout, painting a portrait, reveling in paradox, or dreaming of her next great challenge.

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