Swapping Secrets

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with internationally recognised dominatrix, sex educator, and somatic practitioner Eva Oh for one of the deepest and most psychologically fascinating conversations the podcast has explored yet.

From power dynamics and long-term psychological play to shame, erotic liberation, BDSM, submission, embodiment, and human desire — Eva opens up about the hidden emotional worlds behind kink and why so many people crave control, surrender, punishment, connection, and acceptance.

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Eva’s Links:

IG https://www.instagram.com/youwillplease_me

YT https://www.youtube.com/evaoh

Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@youwillpleaseme

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Jess and Lawrence are diving into Reddit’s wildest open relationship stories — and things get messy fast.

From ethical non-monogamy dating struggles and first-time anxiety to sex club boundaries, changing rules mid-play, safer sex debates and questionable couple behaviour, this episode unpacks the Reddit posts that made them laugh, cringe and ask: is this real or is this a troll?

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Sponsors:

“Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) 

“Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20)

New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere.

Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox

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Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club.

Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS

Want to connect with other open-minded folks?
Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS.

Get in touch with us:
Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069

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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, we explore people, policy and pleasure podcast conversations with Deputy Lord Mayor Jess Miller, unpacking the hidden history of sex-on-premises venues in Sydney and how thoughtful legislation has shaped safer adult communities.

From the legacy of the Disorderly Houses Act to the Bodyline precedent, police discretion, planning reform, and the role of local councils, this conversation explores how rules and boundaries can actually create safer, more expressive spaces. The episode also draws powerful parallels between policy, consent, communication, and freedom — both inside adult venues and across society more broadly.

If you’ve ever wondered how sex-positive spaces are protected, why policy matters, or what Sydney can teach the wider world about safety, autonomy and respect, this one’s for you.

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Jess Miller’s links:

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Website

Sponsors:

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New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere.

Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox

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Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club.

Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS

Want to connect with other open-minded folks?
Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS.

Get in touch with us:
Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069

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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Dr. Leigh Barlow for a candid conversation about sex stigma, sexual health, STI testing, condoms, herpes, BV, and the choices that help people stay safe without shame. Together, they unpack why stigma around sex still exists, where sex education still falls short, and […]

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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence unpack one of the most relatable (and chaotic) parts of modern relationships — red flags in dating and why we ignore them when attraction takes over. We’ve all been there… The red flags are obvious, but the chemistry is too strong to walk away. From cocky […]

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🔥 Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! In this exclusive, sneak-peek clip from our new segment, Raunchy Recaps, Jess and Lawrence share some of the wildest swingers club stories from inside Our Secret Spot. From dungeon encounters and orgy room chaos to hilarious behind-the-scenes moments, these real lifestyle stories […]

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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with Genevieve LeJeune, founder of Skirt Club — the world’s largest women-only community for bisexual and bi-curious women. With over 27,000 members worldwide, Skirt Club has created a safe, empowering environment where women can explore sexuality, identity, and desire without pressure or judgement. 🔥 […]

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In Part 2 of this deep-dive episode, Jess and Lawrence answer real questions from the OSS community about boundaries, consent, rule-breaking, and what really happens when things shift mid-play. Plus, voice messages and video questions from our extended community — including familiar faces from the lifestyle podcast space. This episode is raw, honest and unfiltered […]

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What happens when curiosity turns into lived experience — and desire reshapes your identity, relationships, and sense of self? In Part 1 of this raw and reflective episode, Jess and Lawrence unpack how sexual desire can both liberate and destabilise. From early curiosity and boundary-blurring moments to the emotional hangovers no one prepares you for, […]

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Midlife used to be framed as the beginning of the sexual slow-down. Less desire. Less energy. Less spark. But what if that story is completely wrong? In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by globally renowned intimacy expert Susan Bratton to unpack what she calls The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance — […]

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