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Hey girl,
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jennie Young, professor of rhetoric and author of Burn the Haystack, for a conversation that is going to completely change the way you think about dating apps and the men on them. We talk about recognizing toxic communication patterns early, why words matter just as much as actions, and how to protect yourself from the jump so you can actually enjoy the process.
Dr. Jennie breaks down her signature method, which flips the whole dating mindset on its head. Instead of searching for "the one," your only job is to rule men out fast, efficiently, and without guilt. The needle will reveal itself. This episode is about reclaiming your time, trusting your gut, and dating with strategy instead of hope.
BIO:
Jennie Young, PhD, is the creator of the Burned Haystack Dating Method and a professor of writing and rhetoric at the University of Wisconsin, Green Bay. She publishes work in humor, feminism, applied rhetoric, dating dynamics, and education. Her writing can be seen in McSweeney’s, Ms. magazine, The Independent, Huffpost, Inside Higher Ed, and elsewhere. Also, the author of a textbook that applies critical discourse analysis to contemporary high school culture, Young focuses on public scholarship, making academic content accessible for everyone.
Resources Mentioned:
Burn The Haystack Book | Instagram | Jennie Young
Here are 3 ways I can help you:
Sincerely,
Coach Anwar
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Hey girl,
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jennie Young, professor of rhetoric and author of Burn the Haystack, for a conversation that is going to completely change the way you think about dating apps and the men on them. We talk about recognizing toxic communication patterns early, why words matter just as much as actions, and how to protect yourself from the jump so you can actually enjoy the process.
Dr. Jennie breaks down her signature method, which flips the whole dating mindset on its head. Instead of searching for "the one," your only job is to rule men out fast, efficiently, and without guilt. The needle will reveal itself. This episode is about reclaiming your time, trusting your gut, and dating with strategy instead of hope.
BIO:
Jennie Young, PhD, is the creator of the Burned Haystack Dating Method and a professor of writing and rhetoric at the University of Wisconsin, Green Bay. She publishes work in humor, feminism, applied rhetoric, dating dynamics, and education. Her writing can be seen in McSweeney’s, Ms. magazine, The Independent, Huffpost, Inside Higher Ed, and elsewhere. Also, the author of a textbook that applies critical discourse analysis to contemporary high school culture, Young focuses on public scholarship, making academic content accessible for everyone.
Resources Mentioned:
Burn The Haystack Book | Instagram | Jennie Young
Here are 3 ways I can help you:
Sincerely,
Coach Anwar
Book a Consult to Work with Me
Join my Get Your Guy Club
Buy My Dating Strategy Course
Check out My Latest Podcast Episode
Missed any of my Q&A TikTok Live sessions?
Send us Fan Mail
Thank You: A big thank you to our listeners for tuning in! Your support and feedback are invaluable to us. If you enjoyed this episode, please consider subscribing, rating, and sharing the podcast with others who might benefit from it. For more updates and behind-the-scenes content, follow me on social media and visit my website. We appreciate you being part of our community!

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