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Women everywhere swear men have lied to them.
But what if that’s not what actually happened?
In this episode, I'm breaking down the 10 statements men use most often that leave women overthinking, spiraling, or holding onto hope… and revealing the real meaning beneath them.
Not the feminine interpretation.
Not the emotional projection.
The actual male coding behind the words.
You’ll learn why most men aren’t lying to you at all—why the masculine recoils at deception—and why women still end up feeling blindsided, disappointed, or misled. The truth is simpler and more shocking: men speak in emotionally safe half-truths, and women fill in the blanks with meaning that was never there.
If you’ve ever wondered, “Why did he say that?” or “What did he mean?” this episode will change the way you hear men forever.
This isn’t about blaming men or shaming women.
It’s about decoding the disconnect—so you finally stop confusing ambiguity for intimacy.
By Shane Kohler5
8585 ratings
Women everywhere swear men have lied to them.
But what if that’s not what actually happened?
In this episode, I'm breaking down the 10 statements men use most often that leave women overthinking, spiraling, or holding onto hope… and revealing the real meaning beneath them.
Not the feminine interpretation.
Not the emotional projection.
The actual male coding behind the words.
You’ll learn why most men aren’t lying to you at all—why the masculine recoils at deception—and why women still end up feeling blindsided, disappointed, or misled. The truth is simpler and more shocking: men speak in emotionally safe half-truths, and women fill in the blanks with meaning that was never there.
If you’ve ever wondered, “Why did he say that?” or “What did he mean?” this episode will change the way you hear men forever.
This isn’t about blaming men or shaming women.
It’s about decoding the disconnect—so you finally stop confusing ambiguity for intimacy.

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