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Have you ever felt that dating is a big, ol' waste of time? After years on and off dating sites, swiping through thousands of men, and the endless revolving door of losers, players, and flakes, you conclude that being single is much easier. So you remain single. Indefinitely. Listen to this Love U Podcast to learn how to take control of your love life instead of doing the same thing, over and over, expecting different results.

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Hey, this is Evan Marc Katz. Dating coach for smart, strong, successful women and your personal trainer for love. 

In my signature course, Love U, I explain in great painstaking detail exactly how you should be dating if you want to meet Mr. Right in the next six months. 

But before you worry about enrolling in Love U, let's talk about the two things that you must stop doing to meet your soulmate this year. 

These are the two most common paths that women take that not only leads you further away from your goal, but actually make you think that your goal isn't even obtainable. So stick with me here. I got metaphors for you... so many metaphors. 

Imagine there's two treadmills and you know what a treadmill is. You're working really hard. You're not actually getting anywhere. That's what it feels like to be on one of these two dating treadmills. There's a single treadmill and a dating treadmill. They both are terrible ideas. But because neither of them actually gets you to your destination, you're just moving in place and getting really tired with the process.

So imagine the single treadmill. And if you're a smart, strong, successful woman, you're familiar with this. Maybe you've been hurt by too many men. Maybe you've dated for too long and gotten jaded or bitter. Maybe you wonder what's the purpose of all of this? Everybody's a loser. Every guy is looking for sex. Whatever story you tell yourself about dating. You convince yourself that, hey, the one thing I do well, the one thing I can control is how I do at work. So you sink your time and energy into work. And, you are working 50 hours a week and in between your 50 hours a week and your commute, you go to the gym, you take your yoga class,