The Gently Used Human with Dr. Scott Lyons

The Art of the Swipe: Strategic Dating with Damona Hoffman


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Dating is HARD. With so many choices at our fingertips, dating apps have become a double-edged sword, offering endless possibilities while simultaneously overwhelming us with options. Do we swipe based on a carefully curated list of desired traits, or do we let our intuition guide us, swiping right on that inexplicable spark of connection? In this ever-evolving landscape where the rules of engagement are constantly shifting, many of us are left feeling lost and uncertain. 

Thankfully, in this episode, Dr Scott is joined by the brilliant Damona Hoffman, dating expert and author, who knows how to make sense of the complexities of human connection. Damona is here to dispel the myths of dating, like the trap of looking for a soulmate or waiting for the right chemistry, offering us tools to help navigate the search for aligned values and lasting intimacy.

In this conversation, they’ll explore the power of vulnerability and self-discovery in creating meaningful bonds, the importance of curiosity in building trust and what it really means for us to each build our own unique love story. They’ll dive into the four biggest dating myths that keep us stuck and learn how to flip the script, prioritizing goals, values, communication, and trust over fairytale fantasies.

So, if you’re ready, let's swipe left on outdated dating myths and swipe right on genuine connection and self-discovery.

Topics We Break Down: 

  • Debunking four harmful myths about dating and relationships, and exploring their antidotes. 
  • The paradox of choice - how choice impacts the way we interact and communicate.
  • How to identify your values, and how to see if they align with your partner's.
  • Why repair language (conflict resolution) is just as important as love language.
  • Helpful strategies for building trust.
  • Diving deeper into the myth of soulmates. 

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