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Most guys who are interested in self-care and self-improvement struggle heavily with it. Flicking on the TV or loading your favorite social media for doom scrolling is so much easier. Especially when you lead a busy life and are responsible for your family.
And you know what?
I struggle with this too. It's a daily battle to pick the activity that's rewarding in the long-term instead of the one that's numbing in the short-term.
But it's possible to make the right choice even when you're exhausted and your willpower is empty. In fact, I just went through this exact process last week. After a long, stress-filled morning, I plopped down on my couch after putting my daughter down for a nap, and flicked on the TV.
But then a voice inside my head challenged me to use my time wisely. And in this episode, I share exactly what I did to flick off the TV and work on myself instead.
In this episode, you'll discover:
Why it's such a struggle to prioritize self-care (and strategies to make it easier)
A prose I wrote called "Choosing Self-Care" that gives you a sneak peek into my brain—and reveals how I flicked off the TV (try this next time you want to veg out)
How to make time in your schedule for the activities that truly matter
Some other highlights include:
One question to ask yourself when you're low on willpower to hijack your brain for self-care (2:07)
The insidious "mentally buzzed" trap you fall into each time you flick on your TV or open a social media app (3:29)
How to choose what's rewarding instead of what's numbing (4:57)
Why your environment is a better predictor of the success of your goals than motivation, willpower, or discipline (8:36)
Listen now!
Resources mentioned on this episode:
1. Be The Better You Retreat: The next Be The Better You Retreat happens this weekend in Austin, TX. While I haven't scheduled the next one yet, I will do another one later in 2024. Subscribe to our emails to stay in the loop if you'd like to come.
2. Man Flow Yoga Engage Beta: I kicked off the beta for Man Flow Yoga Engage recently—and we're ironing out all the kinks to make it even more impactful for men looking for more from their life. The next cohort opens in July, so keep an eye out if you're interested in joining.
Other important links:
Want to improve your sexual wellness, get stronger erections, and last longer in bed? Then join the FREE 7-Day Sexual Wellness Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/uA27H
Want to unlock more flexibility and strength, reduce your risk of injury, and feel your absolute best over the next 7 days? Then join the FREE 7-Day Beginner's Yoga for Men Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/pTVc7
Tired of doing a form of yoga that causes more injuries than it helps prevent? The cold, hard truth is men need yoga specifically designed for them. Well, here's some good news: You can start your 7-day free trial to Man Flow Yoga by visiting https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7
Here's an uncomfortable truth:
You will get injured at some point on your fitness journey. While we can do our best to prevent injuries, injuries are unavoidable. But just because you've injured yourself doesn't mean you have to be sedentary for months. In fact, after listening to this episode, you might be able to cut your recovery time in half.
Here's why:
The science behind pain and recovery reminds me of the science behind nutrition. For years, we've been told outdated advice on nutrition, and the proper protocols are just becoming popular.
Well the same is true for pain and injuries. For years, we've been told to use the RICE method—and are only recently discovering how ineffective this protocol is.
That's why I invited Garrett Salpeter (aka The Health Engineer) on today's show to give you an updated understanding into the science behind pain and recovery. Garrett's background in engineering and neuroscience has helped him create NeuFit and his patented NEUBIE device, which helps you recover in half the time as normal.
How was Garrett able to create tools to actually speed up recovery? Well, his big insight into pain and recovery is how much of it stems from your brain and nervous system, not just the injury itself.
When you can tweak this "software" side of your injury, your body doesn't get in the way of the healing process. And you recover faster. Regardless of your age, injury, or fitness level.
Garrett will challenge many of your beliefs about pain, chronic pain, and injuries in the episode. And if you're currently dealing with chronic pain, I can think of no better way to spend your time than by tuning into this interview.
Here's a sneak peek into what Garrett and I discuss:
And so much more!
Highlights from this show include:
Listen now!
Resources mentioned on this episode:
1. NeuFit: If you want to speed up the healing process, there's no better way than by checking out NeuFit. Garrett has trained thousands of personal trainers and doctors across the world into his modality. Learn more about NeuFit here: https://www.neu.fit/
2. Buy Garrett's Book: If you want a deeper dive into the NeuFit modality, I also recommend reading Garrett's book, "The NeuFit Method: Unleash the Power of the Nervous System for Faster Healing and Optimal Performance." Order it on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/NeuFit-Method-Unleash-Nervous-Performance/dp/1544520921
3. Follow NeuFit on Instagram: Want to stay up-to-date with NeuFit? Follow them on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/neufitrfp/
Other important links:
Want to improve your sexual wellness, get stronger erections, and last longer in bed? Then join the FREE 7-Day Sexual Wellness Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/uA27H
Want to unlock more flexibility and strength, reduce your risk of injury, and feel your absolute best over the next 7 days? Then join the FREE 7-Day Beginner's Yoga for Men Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/pTVc7
Tired of doing a form of yoga that causes more injuries than it helps prevent? The cold, hard truth is men need yoga specifically designed for them. Well, here's some good news: You can start your 7-day free trial to Man Flow Yoga by visiting https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7
For whatever reason, men are particularly bad at managing their stress, anxiety, and overwhelm. I've struggled with this myself. Everyone struggles with this.
But why?
As men, we've been discouraged to give our emotions the validation they deserve. Instead of confronting issues, we avoid them by turning into workalcoholics or exercise junkies. While these can be beneficial activities, they cause your emotions to bubble behind the scenes… Until you unleash them at the worst possible times.
But there's a better way to manage uncomfortable feelings like stress, anxiety, and overwhelm, so you actually overcome them.
In this episode, you'll discover:
And more, including…
Listen now!
Other important links:
Want to improve your sexual wellness, get stronger erections, and last longer in bed? Then join the FREE 7-Day Sexual Wellness Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/uA27H
Want to unlock more flexibility and strength, reduce your risk of injury, and feel your absolute best over the next 7 days? Then join the FREE 7-Day Beginner's Yoga for Men Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/pTVc7
Tired of doing a form of yoga that causes more injuries than it helps prevent? The cold, hard truth is men need yoga specifically designed for them. Well, here's some good news: You can start your 7-day free trial to Man Flow Yoga by visiting https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7
Something devastating happened to you when you turned seven years old…
You figured out your default state of being and thinking and trapped yourself in a "mind matrix." Inside this "mind matrix," your ego formed, your defense mechanisms solidified, and you started living the rest of our lives on autopilot.
This happens to everyone, not just you…
But the problem is, relying on defense mechanisms you formed when you were a child makes it easy to self-sabotage in adulthood.
To make matters worse… Most men stay trapped in these childhood behavior patterns because they've repressed them for so long they don't even realize their impact—until gut-wrenching pain shocks your system and allows you to see the matrix.
That's why I invited Ani Manian (aka The Mind Whisperer) onto today's show.
Ani went through this matrix-shattering experience when his dad's body got cremated. And since then, he's discovered how to help other men go through these transformative experiences without the soul-crushing pain.
In today's show, Ani reveals:
And so much more, including these highlights…
Resources mentioned on this episode:
1. Scale with Psychology Podcast: If you'd like to learn more about Ani and his version of self-improvement, check out his podcast, Scale with Psychology, wherever you listen to podcasts.
2. Ani's website: If you're a high-level entrepreneur who wants more out of life, check out Ani's website here: https://animanian.com/
3. Follow Ani on Instagram: Want to stay up-to-date with The Mind Whisperer? Follow Ani on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/ani.manian/
Other important links:
Want to improve your sexual wellness, get stronger erections, and last longer in bed? Then join the FREE 7-Day Sexual Wellness Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/uA27H
Want to unlock more flexibility and strength, reduce your risk of injury, and feel your absolute best over the next 7 days? Then join the FREE 7-Day Beginner's Yoga for Men Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/pTVc7
Tired of doing a form of yoga that causes more injuries than it helps prevent? The cold, hard truth is men need yoga specifically designed for them. Well, here's some good news: You can start your 7-day free trial to Man Flow Yoga by visiting https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7
There are a lot of men in the Man Flow Yoga Community who either want more or need more from their subscription. Whether you struggle with motivation, consistency, your relationships, or too much stress, I have good news for you:
Man Flow Yoga Engage will help you overcome these struggles (even if they're not purely physical struggles).
I haven't launched something as big as Man Flow Yoga Engage since I first launched the Member's Area.
And in this episode, I explain…
If you're curious about Man Flow Yoga Engage at all, listen now.
Highlights from this episode include:
Resources mentioned on this episode:
1. Man Flow Yoga Engage: If you're interested in the beta launch of Man Flow Yoga Engage, you must sign up by March 24, 2024. Learn more and enroll here: https://manflowyoga.com/mfy2402/
Other important links:
Want to improve your sexual wellness, get stronger erections, and last longer in bed? Then join the FREE 7-Day Sexual Wellness Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/uA27H
Want to unlock more flexibility and strength, reduce your risk of injury, and feel your absolute best over the next 7 days? Then join the FREE 7-Day Beginner's Yoga for Men Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/pTVc7
Tired of doing a form of yoga that causes more injuries than it helps prevent? The cold, hard truth is men need yoga specifically designed for them. Well, here's some good news: You can start your 7-day free trial to Man Flow Yoga by visiting https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7
One of the most understated things that most men carry around unknowingly is some type of deep grief or sadness that comes from your childhood.
But therapy, which is dominated by women, doesn't give the best route to confront, address, and accept these deep-seated feelings. To make matters worse, most men are so out of touch with their emotions that they can only try to explain them logically.
But emotions don't happen in your head. They live in your body.
Understanding this tells us why so many men lead lives of quiet desperation, isolation, and depression. And nobody's a better guide to healing your emotional wellbeing than today's guest: Connor Beaton, founder of ManTalks.
Connor had it all on the outside looking in. But behind the scenes, his life was falling apart in every aspect.
One day, after hitting rock bottom, Connor apprenticed under an old-school psychologist. And since then, he's not only turned his life around, but leads other men to transform themselves.
Connor reveals a ton in this episode including…
And so much more.
The state of men's emotional health is in sharp decline. But Connor has strategies and tactics that can help.
Other highlights from this episode include:
Resources mentioned on this episode:
1. ManTalks: Need help applying what Connor talked about in this episode? Head to his website, Man Talks, here to learn more: https://mantalks.com/
2. ManTalks Podcast: Check out Connor's podcast, Man Talks, wherever you listen to podcasts.
3. Follow ManTalks on Instagram: @ManTalks or via this link: https://www.instagram.com/mantalks/
Other important links:
Want to improve your sexual wellness, get stronger erections, and last longer in bed? Then join the FREE 7-Day Sexual Wellness Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/uA27H
Want to unlock more flexibility and strength, reduce your risk of injury, and feel your absolute best over the next 7 days? Then join the FREE 7-Day Beginner's Yoga for Men Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/pTVc7
Tired of doing a form of yoga that causes more injuries than it helps prevent? The cold, hard truth is men need yoga specifically designed for them. Well, here's some good news: You can start your 7-day free trial to Man Flow Yoga by visiting https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7
Despite never having easier access to other people, men today are lonelier than perhaps any other point in history.
We don't deeply connect with each other. We don't share our struggles in a vulnerable way. And it comes with the steep cost of loneliness, stress, overwhelm, and other mental health issues.
But there's not a more effective way to overcome acute mental problems than by sharing your struggles with other men. I realized this last week when I was freaking out about everything. I didn't want to share my worries with my wife, but not talking about them gave them more power.
And so, I reached out to a few friends I trust and asked them if they ever felt this way. My worries evaporated a little bit more with each reply I got. But I know most men today aren't lucky enough to be able to feel this vulnerable with other men.
That's why I recorded this week's show and reveal:
And more, including…
Resources mentioned on this episode:
1. Man Flow Yoga Engage: Coming April 1, keep your eyes on your email inbox for more info.
Other important links:
Want to improve your sexual wellness, get stronger erections, and last longer in bed? Then join the FREE 7-Day Sexual Wellness Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/uA27H
Want to unlock more flexibility and strength, reduce your risk of injury, and feel your absolute best over the next 7 days? Then join the FREE 7-Day Beginner's Yoga for Men Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/pTVc7
Tired of doing a form of yoga that causes more injuries than it helps prevent? The cold, hard truth is men need yoga specifically designed for them. Well, here's some good news: You can start your 7-day free trial to Man Flow Yoga by visiting https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7
Motivation is a fickle beast. One day, your motivation soars and you finally start a fitness program. The next day, your motivation strands you and threatens your goals.
The trickiest part about motivation is how quickly it comes and goes. Despite it consistently being unreliable, we still feel the need to want to feel it before tackling a big goal.
Well, today's guest, Paul Clingan (aka The Trooper Transmission CT-3939), the founder of The Trooper Transmission—a Star Wars based fitness program—has stumbled on a way to "hack" your motivation by borrowing it from your favorite movie characters.
Whenever he feels unmotivated, he asks himself what Luke Skywalker would do. And while this may seem a bit weird, it's incredibly effective.
In today's show, Paul and I discuss:
And more, including…
Resources mentioned on this episode:
1. The Trooper Transmission: If you're a fellow Star Wars fan and want to follow the workout plans troopers would follow, follow Paul on his Instagram and YouTube channel.
Follow The Trooper Transmission on Instagram here: @the_trooper_transmission
Follow The Trooper Transmission on YouTube here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCIy79ZSYcvLM6ErO-wScrA
Related Episodes:
Episode 84: How To Get Back On track When You Lose Motivation
Episode 63: How to Hack Your Motivation
Other important links:
Want to improve your sexual wellness, get stronger erections, and last longer in bed? Then join the FREE 7-Day Sexual Wellness Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/uA27H
Want to unlock more flexibility and strength, reduce your risk of injury, and feel your absolute best over the next 7 days? Then join the FREE 7-Day Beginner's Yoga for Men Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/pTVc7
Tired of doing a form of yoga that causes more injuries than it helps prevent? The cold, hard truth is men need yoga specifically designed for them. Well, here's some good news: You can start your 7-day free trial to Man Flow Yoga by visiting https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7
What do you do when you're stuck in a rut and your motivation is running out?
If your first reaction is to berate yourself out of it or deny that it's happening—a problem men in particular struggle with—then, well, you can actually prolong the rut you're in.
I've experienced this myself. And I've also found a better, more productive way to handle a lack of motivation:
In today's episode, I'm sharing the set of strategies I use to pull myself out of a rut, so you can try them whenever your motivation is running out.
In this episode, I discuss:
And more, including:
Related Episodes:
Episode 83: How Low-Effort Exercise Enhances Your Health More Than High-Intensity Workouts
Episode 82: The Power of Being Alone: My 24-Hour Solo Retreat Experience
Other important links:
Want to improve your sexual wellness, get stronger erections, and last longer in bed? Then join the FREE 7-Day Sexual Wellness Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/uA27H
Want to unlock more flexibility and strength, reduce your risk of injury, and feel your absolute best over the next 7 days? Then join the FREE 7-Day Beginner's Yoga for Men Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/pTVc7
Tired of doing a form of yoga that causes more injuries than it helps prevent? The cold, hard truth is men need yoga specifically designed for them. Well, here's some good news: You can start your 7-day free trial to Man Flow Yoga by visiting https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7
Men today live in a constant state of stress. Despite never being safer from external threats, modern society presents us with more stress than any other generation before us—and it's killing us.
In fact, when you live in a constant state of stress, things that are considered healthy—like weight lifting, cardio workouts, and cold & hot therapy—actually become unhealthy. They deplete your energy savings, swirling your cortisol levels to unmanageable heights, and create a vicious cycle of even more stress.
That's the bad news.
The worse news is that the solution is so simple, most men will ignore it.
That's why I invited human performance specialist, Brian Mackenzie, back onto the Better Man Podcast to prove to you—beyond a shadow of a doubt—that doing less is more effective than tacking on more to your already busy schedule.
For example, if you can go on a 45-minute walk per day without breathing through your mouth or bringing your phone, you will be healthier and have greater longevity than 90% of the world.
In this episode, Brian and I discuss:
And so much more that flips the "more, more, more!" mentality most of us have on its head with unconventional wisdom including…
Resources mentioned on this episode:
1. Receive a free daily breathing plan based on your Breathing Calculator results: Your breath gives you important insights into your overall health. Take Brian's Breathing Calculator test here and receive a free daily breathing plan when you finish: https://shiftadapt.com/breath-calculator/
2. Go to Brian's website, Shift Adapt: If you'd like to learn more about Brian's company, Shift Adapt, and how he can help you boost your health and longevity, visit his website here: https://shiftadapt.com
3. Sign up for the MFY Breath Series: If you want to work on your breath and yoga practice at the same time, I invite you to sign up for the MFY Breath Series here: https://manflowyoga.tv/programs/collection-breath-series-challenge?category_id=66093
Related Episodes:
Episode 82: The Power of Being Alone: My 24-Hour Solo Retreat Experience
Episode 75: Subtract; Don't Add (Creating Space to Create Change for 2024)
Episode 36: Training To Chill Out: Nasal Breathing, Cold Plunges, & Why Less is More w/ Brian Mackenzie
Episode 1: Why Breath is the Most Critical Component to Your Health w/ Brian Mackenzie
Other important links:
Want to improve your sexual wellness, get stronger erections, and last longer in bed? Then join the FREE 7-Day Sexual Wellness Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/uA27H
Want to unlock more flexibility and strength, reduce your risk of injury, and feel your absolute best over the next 7 days? Then join the FREE 7-Day Beginner's Yoga for Men Challenge here: https://shrtlnk.co/pTVc7
Tired of doing a form of yoga that causes more injuries than it helps prevent? The cold, hard truth is men need yoga specifically designed for them. Well, here's some good news: You can start your 7-day free trial to Man Flow Yoga by visiting https://shrtlnk.co/kP8M7
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