On Jan 6th, 2021 I got a text from a friend of mine… “I see now.”

Three words from a super close friend who lives on the opposite side of the aisle as I do.

Three words that finally broke me and I wept.

A white, conservative, middle-aged, Trump-voting man whom I love dearly.

We have had many deep talks the last 4 years. Me explaining the depths of my concern. Him listening and explaining his.

The goal wasn’t to turn him from his conservative roots.

The goal wasn’t to make him lean left.

It was simply to be seen.

And he saw me.

That doesn’t mean he turned his back on his values...

It simply meant he faced me and protected mine.

In today’s episode, I talk to one of my best friends Rob Sentell. And we talk about how to have rich and deep relationships with people whom you may massively disagree with on politics and policy.

Spoiler alert…

It’s not only possible…

It’s necessary…

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So a few days ago I did a Q&A where I talked about how our kids have been doing all the laundry in the house since they were in elementary school.

Insert 4324325543 DMs as to how we pulled that off.

Yes it’s true.

Heather and I have not done any laundry nor have we even made our own bed since the kids were old enough to wash a dish.

We go over homeschooling, the sex talk, chores, allowance, technology, dating, roles, struggles, what we did wrong, and so much more.

Our way of raising kids IS NOT the best way nor the only way. But we’ve found the best way for our kids.

So take what we say with a grain of salt… But also know that we’ve known no greater honor than raising these kids.

Hope this helps you guys.

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Guys. I CAN’T WITH THIS CONVO.

Mary Heffernan shares her story of how she and her attorney husband Brian risked everything and sold it all in the suburbs to raise their 4 little girls on a cattle ranch in Northern California. THEY HAD TO LEARN HOW TO DO EVERYTHING. And now they are a successful company growing every day.

It wasn’t overnight. It was a lot of hard work. But today's conversation will make the most pessimistic 1/2 dreamer out there come alive.

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On Tuesday I spent 8 hours inside a maximum-security prison here in Tennessee and even got to visit an inmate on death row.

One of the inmates told me that the person they hurt had forgiven them. And now they are freer inside than they ever were outside.

It got me thinking DEEP about forgiveness.

Today I dive deep into the 3 types of forgiveness that finally gave me freedom.

I unpack them.

My wife’s forgiveness of me for how I wounded her…

My forgiveness of others for their wounding me…

And my forgiveness of self for hating me…

(That last one is a doozy so hang on…)

I think that many of you may just find the freedom you have been looking for...

So join me with learning to love the F word…

Forgive…

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November of 2019 we rushed our 17-year-old daughter to Vanderbilt University Medical Center as she was experiencing massive chest pain. The next 21 days in the hospital would change all of our lives and bring out a strength we didn’t know existed.

Sohaila’s story is going to make you feel like you can bust down any wall that is in front of you.

Also your stories of the most impactful gift you ever received.

Make sure you have some Kleenex nearby.

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I stopped to have some Chick-fil-A in concourse A of the Atlanta airport and noticed nobody was paying attention to this piano player, so I thought I would sit down and enjoy his music.

After listening for a few minutes I invited him over for a chat.

I learned that Tonee has kidney disease and is on dialysis 9 hours every night but then comes to the airport to play piano 4 hours a day…

I saw his empty tip jar and asked my InstaFamilia to cash app and Venmo a tip for him.

30 minutes later, and after a 20-minute conversation getting to know him, we tipped Tonee $10,000… which has since grown to $55,000 in 12 hours.

In today's podcast, I sit down with Tonee and his wife Mickey to surprise them with the news that their $10,000 tip has morphed into $55,000 and their reaction is everything.

Tonee shares his life journey on today's episode and it is nothing short of heroic. There is so much to learn from his life.

Oh. His wife Mickey TAKES OVER the interview in what is sure to be one of my favorite podcast moments ever...

This is what human hope is all about…

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Texas? They came after me on Instagram this week when I said that Dallas was Central Texas. 

Which caused me to go through trauma that ended up with me in therapy for 4 days in San Diego.

Only 1/2 way kidding.

In today's episode, I take a deep dive into my journey with my dad's dementia and how therapy is helping me process it all.

I also give you 2 acronyms that will help you communicate better with those you love.

Those are worth the price of admission to this podcast alone.

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Leeann Miller met a strong, soft-spoken Amish young man when her father hired an Amish carpentry crew to fix their suburban home fireplace.

28 days later they eloped.

30 years later she sits down to tell us the story of how their 30-year love story started and how it’s going.

I haven’t been this enthralled with a guest’s story in a long time.

What does sacrifice really mean when it comes to relationships?

How has the current cultural climate diluted what true love means?

What can we learn from how the Amish do community?

LeeAnn’s story is fascinating and I’m ready to squeeze all the wisdom out of her story and the Amish way of life…

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Recorded live from ALASKA!!!

We’ve been all over the world as a family. We never let our lack of resources get in the way of our exploration. This episode is going to help every single one of you get out there and travel again… or maybe even for the first time.

We took a lot of your travel questions and tried to answer them!

How do we afford to travel as a family?

Where do we find the incredible travel deals? (Like $500 round trip to Cape Town South Africa)

How to best travel long distances with little kids and thrive not just survive?

We went all in.

This is a little different of an episode and I think you are gonna love it!

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