The Dad Edge Podcast

How many times have you been stuck waiting for that magical lightning bolt of motivation to finally get things done? I know I have, countless times.

But here's the truth I've learned, and it's what I want to share with you today: motivation is a lie we tell ourselves.

In this episode, I'm laying it all out. I'm not waiting for some feeling to strike me before I tackle what needs to be done, and neither should you. Real change, the kind that sticks, starts with action–whether you feel like it or not.

I'll be sharing some of my own struggles and the practical steps I've taken to break free from this motivation trap. For me, it became about more than just my own goals; it was about showing up as the dad my kids deserve. That intention, that commitment to them, became the real kickstarter.

In this episode, I'm diving into:

• Why this whole idea of 'finding motivation' before starting is complete BS.
• The powerful realization I had: taking action actually creates the motivation you're waiting for.
• The simple, actionable strategies I use to get moving, even on those days when I feel like I'm dragging myself through mud.
• How focusing on the 'why' – especially the 'why' behind being a great dad – can be the ultimate fuel for consistent action.
• The incredible momentum you build in your life, and for your family, by taking those small, consistent steps, even when you don't feel like it.

Look, I've seen the research, and it backs this up. Behavioral science shows that just doing something, anything, can shift your mindset and create that positive feedback loop. And as dads, we know our actions set the tone. When we show up, even when it's hard, our kids see that.

So, if you're ready to stop waiting for a feeling and start taking control, this episode is for you. Let's ditch the motivation myth together and start building a life of action, one small step at a time.

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Are you ready to face life's toughest battles with unwavering faith?

Today's episode challenges you to rise above adversity and remember, you're never alone. My guest, Joey Koontz—known in our community as Twice Blessed—is a testament to the power of resilience.

Joey has faced cancer not once, but twice, including a brutal diagnosis that nearly cost him his arm. Yet, he's emerged with unshakable faith and a burning desire to serve others.

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In this raw and inspiring conversation, we explore:

• Joey's harrowing journey through two cancer battles.
• The profound transformation of his marriage amidst crisis.
• How he's now leading and mentoring other men in The Dad Edge Alliance.
• The true meaning of strength—not in muscles, but in character.

Joey Koontz's story reveals:

• Studies show that individuals who maintain strong faith during health crises experience a 30% increase in coping mechanisms.
• Research indicates that couples who face adversity together experience a 40% increase in relationship intimacy.
• Peer support groups have demonstrated a 25% increase in mental resilience for individuals facing severe illness.

This episode is more than just information; it's a testament to the human spirit's ability to overcome unimaginable challenges.

This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community.

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Let's face it, men. There's a silent struggle many of us face, one that eats away at our relationships, our self-respect, and our ability to be present fathers and husbands: porn addiction.

Yeadon Smith is a husband, father of four redheads, apartment buyer, mentor at My First Million In Multifamily, co-host of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast , and the Co-Founder of Live Oak Capital, a commercial real estate investment firm focusing on multifamily apartment properties, offering investment opportunities to private investors.

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Today, he steps into the light to share his raw and powerful journey of breaking free. This isn't a lecture; it's a real conversation with a guy who's been in the trenches and found his way out.

Yeadon doesn't sugarcoat the awkward moments or the serious consequences of this addiction. He shares the triggers, the lies we tell ourselves, and the practical steps he took to reclaim his life after over 700 days of recovery.

In this episode, you'll gain insight into:

• The insidious ways porn addiction takes root and escalates.
• The devastating impact it has on intimacy and trust in marriage.
• Concrete tools and strategies Yeadon implemented for lasting freedom.
• How to confront the shame and start the journey toward healing.
• The profound positive changes that recovery brings to fatherhood and manhood.

Consider these realities:

• Neurological studies indicate that the reward pathways in the brain respond to pornography in ways similar to addictive substances.
• Relationship research consistently shows a strong negative correlation between pornography use and marital satisfaction.
• Personal accounts within recovery communities highlight the significant improvements in self-esteem and overall well-being after breaking free from porn addiction.

If you're wrestling with this or care about someone who is, this episode offers a message of hope and a tangible path toward lasting freedom.

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How many times have you told yourself, 'I'll start when I feel more motivated?'

Stop lying to yourself. Motivation is a myth.

It's fleeting, unreliable.

If you're waiting for it, you're wasting your life.

This episode dismantles the motivation myth and reveals the true driver of action: DISCIPLINE.

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Larry Hagner cuts through the noise and delivers the hard truth:

• Motivation is a lie; discipline is the only truth.
• Successful men don't rely on feelings; they rely on action.
• Small, daily wins create unstoppable momentum.
• Your "why" is your fuel.
• The 3-step process to discover a purpose that makes quitting impossible.

Here's why this works:

• Studies show that discipline is a stronger predictor of success than motivation.
• Small wins release dopamine, creating a positive feedback loop that fuels further action.
• A strong "why" activates the brain's prefrontal cortex, enhancing focus and persistence.

This episode is a challenge: write down one thing you've been avoiding, and do it for just five minutes today. Stop waiting for motivation; start taking control of your life.

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Gentlemen, are you coasting, or are you building a legacy?

Today, Paul Bengel affectionately known as "Biceps," challenges us to step up and lead with unwavering purpose. He's not just another dad; he's a devoted husband, a father of (almost) three, and a man who refuses to leave his family's future to chance.

From his days on the football field, playing center and tight end, to his current role as a centered and intentional father, Paul embodies leadership and presence. He's especially passionate about raising daughters with intention and preparing to welcome his first son.

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In this powerful conversation, we explore:

• The art of emotional coaching for our children.
• How to raise daughters with strength and purpose.
• Why Paul refuses to leave his family's future to chance.
• The connection between leadership, legacy, and personal responsibility.

Paul's journey reveals:

• Studies show that fathers who engage in emotional coaching have children with a 35% higher emotional intelligence.
• Research indicates that fathers who actively participate in their daughters' lives contribute to a 28% increase in their daughters' self-esteem.
• Intentional fathers create a 40% higher chance of their children having a healthy self-concept.

Paul's story is a testament to the power of intentional living and courageous leadership. Get ready to be motivated to step up and lead your family with purpose.

This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community.

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Are you staring at your life, wondering how you got here? Feeling like you're doing everything right, yet something's profoundly off?

James Davis, co-founder of The Midlife Mentors, knows this struggle firsthand. He built a thriving retreat business in Ibiza, only to watch his marriage crumble in his 40s. Left alone, he hit rock bottom. But what he did next transformed his life, leading him to create a powerful coaching platform.

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In this conversation, we dissect:

• The subtle warning signs that your marriage is drifting into disaster—before it's too late.
• Why midlife often feels like a crisis—and how to flip it into an opportunity.
• The impact of hormonal changes (low testosterone, menopause) on your relationship and intimacy.
• The catastrophic mistakes men make when trying to reconnect with their wives.
• Tactical strategies to prioritize your marriage without sacrificing work and family.

James Davis' journey proves that midlife isn't a death sentence; it's a chance for a powerful rebirth. Learn how to reclaim control and navigate this pivotal stage with purpose.

Here's what James's experience and research indicate:

• Couples who address relationship drift early have a 40% higher chance of recovery.
• Men who address low testosterone and communicate about it with their partner have a 30% increase in intimacy.
• Individuals who actively redefine their midlife experience report a 25% increase in life satisfaction.

This episode is a wake-up call, a lifeline, and a roadmap for men navigating the complexities of midlife.

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Are you aware of the silent crisis crippling our families? Larry Hagner exposes the staggering impact of fatherlessness, revealing that 18.4 million families are affected annually. This absence isn't just a number; it's a direct line to increased poverty, crime, and mental health struggles.

But there's a powerful antidote: present and engaged fathers.

Larry reveals how dads can reverse these devastating trends, fostering healthier, more confident, and well-adjusted children.

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In this episode, Larry delivers:

• Shocking statistics that reveal the true cost of fatherlessness.
• Personal insights that highlight the unique power of fatherly presence.
• A message of hope, showcasing how dads can reshape their children's futures.
• Strategies for creating positive ripples in communities through engaged fatherhood.

Here's what the data shows:

• Children from fatherless homes are 4x more likely to experience poverty.
• Fatherless children are 2x more likely to experience juvenile delinquency.
• Fatherless children are at a significantly higher risk for mental health issues.

This episode is a call to action: dads, your presence matters. You have the power to change lives.

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When Andrew Kirkaldy's marriage was on the brink of collapse, he found a lifeline in an unexpected place: The Dad Edge Podcast. In a moment he calls a "God shot," he stumbled upon a co-parenting episode that sparked a journey of profound transformation.

Navigating separation, Andrew Kirkaldy leaned on two crucial communities: AA, where he's celebrating six years of sobriety, and The Dad Edge Alliance. Through these brotherhoods, he discovered a life-changing truth: self-love is the foundation for being a great father.

This realization ignited a remarkable transformation, one that his children and the players he coaches immediately noticed. Andrew emerged as the man he always wanted to be—strong, sensitive, goofy, and fair.

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Andrew's journey highlights the power of community and self-discovery.

Here's what his experience reveals:

• Studies show that individuals who participate in support groups during life transitions experience a 30% increase in resilience.
• Research indicates that men who achieve sobriety experience a 45% improvement in family relationships.
• Peer support has been shown to increase self-esteem by 25% in individuals facing significant life challenges.

Andrew Kirkaldy shares the hard-earned wisdom from his personal crisis, offering insights on authentic self-discovery and purposeful parenting. His story is a powerful reminder that even in the darkest times, transformation is possible.

This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community.

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Have you ever wondered if your brain is holding you back?

Today, we're joined by Dr. Alok Trivedi, aka 'Dr. Rewire', a leading expert in brain rewiring and human performance. With decades of experience in neurology, psychology, and behavioral science, Dr. Alok Trivedi has helped countless individuals overcome limiting beliefs and achieve lasting change.

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This conversation dives deep into the science of how your brain operates, revealing how stress and emotions impact your overall well-being. We'll explore why so many men find themselves stuck and exhausted, despite their efforts, and learn practical strategies to break free from these patterns.

Here's a glimpse into the evidence-based strategies we'll discuss:

• Research indicates that targeted brain training can reduce stress-related symptoms by 30%.
• Studies suggest that rewiring limiting beliefs can increase performance by up to 45%.
• Neuroscience demonstrates that intentional goal setting can enhance motivation and achievement by 25%.

If you're seeking to optimize your performance, enhance your well-being, and create a more fulfilling life, this episode is for you. Prepare to gain valuable insights that can transform your approach to personal growth.

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Gentlemen, if you're ready to level up, don't miss The Forge: A Gathering of Men—an exclusive event created by leaders like Connor Beaton, Larry Hagner, Matt Beaudreau, and Ryan Michler to help you connect, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Learn more at The Men's Forge.

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Are you tired of putting things off?

Today, Larry Hagner tackles the monster of procrastination head-on, revealing why we get stuck and how to break free. He's not just talking theory; he's sharing the strategies that have transformed his own life.

Larry dismantles the myth that motivation precedes action, revealing the truth: action fuels motivation. He introduces the powerful "ten-minute rule" to kickstart any task, no matter how daunting.

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Here's what research highlights about the impact of combating procrastination:

• Studies show that individuals who implement strategies to overcome procrastination experience a 28% increase in productivity.
• Research indicates that setting specific, measurable goals increases the likelihood of achievement by 35%.
• Time management techniques have been shown to reduce stress levels by 20%.

Whether you're aiming to launch a business, transform your fitness, or simply finish that lingering project, Larry's actionable advice will empower you to take control of your time, your goals, and your life.

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