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Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

How To Get A Younger Woman's Attention! (Older Men Can WIN A Younger Woman Over EASILY)

Do you ever wonder how to attract a younger woman?

Do you feel, as an older man, unsure of how to attract a younger woman respectfully?

Suppose you're unsure about how to approach the first steps of attracting a younger woman. In that case, you are in for a special treat because, in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti offers valuable insights on capturing the attention of younger women, particularly for older men seeking to establish meaningful connections.

Apollonia has worked with many older clients and recognizes common mistakes they make when trying to attract a younger woman.

Apollonia delves into the underlying reasons behind the attraction that younger women often feel for older, more mature individuals. She emphasizes the importance of adopting a mature and experienced mindset, as well as demonstrating strong leadership qualities and masculinity.

The practical advice that Apollonia discusses will help older mature men understand initiating and sustaining successful relationships with younger women. And to gain essential knowledge and enhance your dating prospects with younger women.

So, suppose you're struggling with how to attract a younger woman, how to approach a younger woman respectfully, and how to start having engaging conversations with a younger woman. In that case, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:07 - To attract a younger woman is to let her see you as a leader. This means leading the conversation and talking about your wants and needs. Be confident in the conversation.
• 1:30 - There is a reason why younger women are attracted to older men. He doesn't have a young person mentality but a mature and experienced one. He is taking the lead and being masculine.
• 2:09 - Ask her things to see that you want to get to know her. A younger woman wants an older man to ask her something about herself, leading the conversation and getting to know her more.
• 2:35 - One thing that can turn young women away from older men is focusing too much on the age gap. If the older man keeps making comments about the age gap, then the younger woman will be turned off and make her feel that the age gap will become a recurring problem.
• 2:58 - Apollonia talks about one of her older clients trying to date a younger woman. He spoke of the age gap and did it so much that the woman felt uncomfortable. She saw that he wasn't confident about his age, therefore leaving him.
• 3:57 - The younger woman loves adventure. Older men have the stereotype that they lose interest in having fun once they get older. That is not all true; being open to trying new things and exploring each other's interests is a good start.
• 5:07 - Show that you offer stability in your life. One reason a younger woman is attracted to older men is because they're emotionally secure and stable in their lives; he knows what they want and is not afraid of getting it.
• 6:10 - Don't hide your past to a younger woman. Telling her your stories and struggles can make her open up to you. This can emotionally attract her to you, knowing that you can open up about your past, not only showing that you can be vulnerable but showing that you're a great communicator as well.
• 7:25 - Act your AGE! When an older man tries to attract a younger woman, he tries to act like a younger man; this will instantly turn her off. There's a reason why a younger woman is attracted to an older man; he shows signs of maturity and balance in his life. Embrace this; don't try to hide from it.

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7 SNEAKY Reasons Why Women Friendzone Men! (Why RESPECT Gets You Nowhere!)

Do you often get friendzone?

Do you feel like there might be something you're doing wrong that makes her friendzone you? But I'm not sure what it is.

Suppose you don't want to end up in the friend zone forever and possibly make the relationship a romantic one. In that case, you are in for a special treat because, in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will share the intricacies of why men sometimes find themselves in the challenging position of being friend-zoned by women. Emphasizing the significance of maintaining a balance between masculine and feminine energies, Apollonia provides actionable insights on how to navigate the friend zone and cultivate a more desirable sense of male power.

Apollonia understands the frustration of men trying to get out of the friend zone. But in this podcast episode, Apollonia uncovers seven subtle yet crucial reasons contributing to this dynamic.

This practical advice on getting out of the friend zone can help you understand why women perceive a man as a friend rather than a romantic interest, shedding light on potential behaviors that may inadvertently lead to this perception.

So, if you're struggling with how to get out of the friendzone, how to stop getting into the friendzone, and which steps to take when getting out of the friendzone, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:25 - One reason men get friendzone is not embracing their masculine side. Men should have a polarity of masculine and feminine energy. Usually, men lack their male side and go far into their feminine; women start to see you as more of a friend.
• 2:33 - Again, a woman, to be physically attracted to you, needs to see you in your masculine. Of course, a woman wants a man to be friendly and caring, but being too much into your feminine side can make her think you're more of a friend than a potential boyfriend.
• 3:07 - Frienzones happen when men are not comfortable with their seduction. Women want to crave your presents and feel that you are attracted to them. Showing intent with a woman can make her see you're more interested than just being friends.
• 3:42 - The woman wants to feel the flirty playfulness. If a man is too shy to flirt or show intent, she will take it as if you're not interested in her.
• 4:06 - One common reason you are a friendzone is the lack of sexual tension. That is what separates friendships and romantic relationships. Create the sexual tension and keep doing it.
• 5:10 - Putting more effort into being flirty and showing intent can have a great outcome. That healthy push and pull from a woman can make her feel wanted by you and create that sense of desire for you when you're not around.
• 5:50 - The structure in your intent. When men are too shy to talk to a woman, don't try to call or go up to her and flirt with her, then the friend zone immediately starts to form.
• 7:00 - The mistake of focusing on rational attraction rather than emotional attraction. Men will think about how to attract a woman by gaining muscles and or picking up a masculine hobby instead of not focusing on their values. Do you two have the same values? How about big life goals? These questions should be your priority instead of rational attraction.
• 9:10 - Friendzone happens when men are overly submissive. He will try to make her happy all the time; they will show no boundaries and neglect their values and put her values instead of his own. Women are attracted to men who hold strong values and take the lead in their lives.

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Are You A Man That's Too Much In His Feminine? (Lacking Masculine Balance)

Do you feel a woman always sees you more like a friend than a potential boyfriend?

Have other women told you that you exclude feminine energy even though you don't want to?

If the thought of being too feminine is affecting you, attracting highly valued women, you are in for a special podcast episode; Apollonia Ponti discusses maintaining a healthy balance between masculine and feminine energies in individuals.

Apollonia knows the frustration of men who face potential challenges in the dating world because they are deficient in their masculine energy. They lack what makes a woman attracted to a man seeking to appreciate a strong sense of masculinity.

This practical advice on being masculine while balancing out your femininity will help you attract feminine women. Apollonia will provide insightful examples of masculine energy traits and offers practical guidance on how men can effectively express and embody their masculine selves.

So, suppose you struggle with your feminine energy, not knowing if you're using it, and how to finally get a woman who is in their feminine energy. In that case, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:58 - Why do women go for the men who mistreated them when im so nice? Apollonia explains the polarity effect and how men and women have both masculine and feminine energies. And sometimes, the lack of male energy can be the leading cause of why a woman will friend zone you.
• 1:22 - Apollonia explains that her polarity affects the masculine and feminine energy philosophy. Masculine energy is goal-oriented and takes leadership, while feminine energy is nurturing and patient.
• 2:21 - In a relationship, men and women must use this polarity effect. However, if a man isn't showing his masculine energy and embracing his feminine energy, then the woman will not be interested.
• 3:15 - Apollonia always tells her male clients to have at least 70% masculine energy while having 20% feminine energy. The feminine energy is also vital; for example, when you talk about your feelings.
• 3:48 - Apollonia tells a story about one of their male clients being in his feminine too much. She explains how her client constantly sent poems and love letters to the woman he was interested unknowingly making the woman move away.
• 5:02 - You talk about your feelings all the time. When a man is too much in his feminine, he will constantly talk about his emotions and hold no mystery for the woman to explore.
• 5:48 - When a man is too much in his feminine, he will never say 'no.' This can be a people-pleaser tendency, but a woman likes a man who can stand his ground and take the lead. If she sees you let her control your life, she might pull away from the relationship.
• 6:46 - A man who isn't taking the lead is too much in his feminine. When a man doesn't take leadership in his life, the woman will lose Interest. A woman will want to fall into her feminine, but when she doesn't see you as a reliable person, she will start to lose Interest.
• 8:03 - You are unable to regulate emotionally. This is losing your cool and emotions when there is a tricky situation that you're facing.

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How Women REALLY View Intimacy! (What You Need To Know And It's Not What You Think)

When you are with a woman, does it seem like every time you're trying to indicate sexual advances toward her, she instantly pulls away?

Do you feel that sometimes your woman seems physically uninterested in being sexual with you?

If the thought of how to please your women sexually becomes more of a challenge, then you are in for a special treat because, in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti provides insights into the nuanced perspective of women regarding intimacy. She delves into a profound understanding of how to genuinely satisfy women sexually, emphasizing that women are multifaceted sexual beings.

Apollonia has worked with many clients and seen their frustration when trying to please their women. But in this podcast episode, Apollonia will explain that beyond physicality, underscores the pivotal role of mental stimulation in pursuing genuine intimacy. Connecting with a woman's mind and ensuring she is mentally engaged is crucial to unlock the depths of her pleasure.

This practical advice on how to not only please a woman sexually but also understand a woman's views on intimacy can help you understand the essential distinction between men and women in terms of hormonal responses, highlighting the need for heightened mental stimulation to complement physical sensations for women.

So, if you're struggling with how to please your woman sexually, what to do to stimulate her, and how to make her desire and want you, this podcast episode is for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:21 - Women are sexual beings. But there's a whole mental side that you need to stimulate more than physically. You have to tap into her mind and ensure she is mentally simulated.
• 2:00 - Fantasy is vital to a woman's intimacy. This sets the stage for their physical responses, paving the way to get into the sexual mood.
• 2:27 - Unlike men, women's hormones are different, meaning they need more stimulation in the mind to feel the sensation you are giving them physically.
• 3:08 - Sexting can help stimulate her. You can help her with anticipation of being intimate with you.
• 3:42 - The mental foreplay helps her experience her sexual side. Stirring up those mental images can help her want more imitacy and desires.
• 4:20 - Apollonia proves an example of how a woman desires a man. When a woman looks at an attractive guy, her first thought is whether he likes and wants her. She craves a man to want her, which can lead to thinking about sex.
• 5:00 - It's not a physical touch that sparks physical desires for a man. It's mentally letting her know that you want and desire her; that is when mental sexual fantasies occur.
• 5:31 - Women and men have different orgasms. It may take longer for a woman to orgasm, but once you find a pattern to help her simulate, it's like a guide map to help you know what pecks her sexual interest.
• 6:46 - Women crave sexual discipline from a man. This means not beg with her for sex, going to their women with sex, and porn addiction; she wants a man who can showcase self-control. This helps her to respect you and want you later on.

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8 Types Of Women Who Will INSTANTLY Cheat On You! (Don't Let Her DO This)

Have you ever felt something might be wrong in your relationship?

Are you suspecting her of secretly cheating? But aren't you sure if she is?

If that thought ever crosses your mind, you are in for a special treat because, in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will share eight distinct archetypes of women who may engage in infidelity and how to prevent this from happening to you.

Apollonia has worked with many clients who had dealt with infidelity from their past partners.

Apollonia empathizes with the frustration that can arise when your partner is dishonest about their actions. However, Apollonia offers a comprehensive analysis of the underlying reasons behind female infidelity and furnishes invaluable insights into identifying the subtle indicators of potential cheating within a relationship.

Although determining infidelity may be challenging, Apollonia systematically outlines the behavioral patterns and dispositions that categorize women predisposed to unfaithfulness.

So, if you're struggling with a partner suspected of cheating, knowing if she's cheating, and what to do with your cheating partner, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:29 - The first sign that a woman is cheating is she is constantly partying. Going out with her friends is not wrong; this only applies to a woman who has substance abuse, as they can not fully grasp the impact of their actions. In a setting with alcohol and drugs, she is most likely to do things out of passion.
• 2:26 - Substance abuse stems from thrill-seeking behaviors and validation. Because of the thrill, they will most likely find other people who share the same interest in this thrill, which can cause her to cheat.
• 2:55 - Commitment phobia can cause a person to cheat. She can genuinely care about the person she is dating; however, because of this fear of losing her independence, she will cheat and use that person as a safety net if things go sour.
• 4:13 - When a woman shows a history of cheating and hasn't changed. It might be obvious to some people, but the main reason men stay in a committed relationship with a woman with a history of cheating is the belief that she will change for him. Men in a relationship like this are usually in constant denial and exhibit self-destructive behaviors.
• 4:59 - A manipulative woman will cheat. It might be hard to know if someone is manipulating you, but if you see patterns of her trying to control how you do things and guilt tripping you into doing something you didn't want to do, are the first few signs.
• 5:56 - A woman who cheats is in and out of your life. After you guys broke up, she quickly returned to you, not entirely to commit but to linger around you; it might seem that you two are in a relationship, but you are not.
• 7:29 - She is extremely private in her life. Even though you both are in a relationship, she is still private about her life, friends, and social life, shutting you out and putting her needs before yours; this is most likely because she is cheating.
• 8:43 - A woman who is a cheater is self-conscious and thrives on attention from men. When you guys are out together, she cares about how other men look at her; she thrives off the engagement and compliments of men that she barely acknowledges.
• 9:21 - The emotional connection isn't present anymore. Negligenting her emotional needs can lead to her turning to someone who will pay more attention to her emotional needs. She will seek out someone intentionally and cheat because of the lack of intimacy in the relationship.

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How To Be Irresistible To Feminine Women w/ Coach Marce and Coach Cynthia.

Have you ever felt that sometimes you unwillingly attract a masculine woman instead of a feminine one?

Do you ever hear people tell you you have more feminine energy than masculine?

If the thought of attracting a feminine woman becomes more of a challenge, then you are in for a special podcast episode; in today's episode, Coach Cynthia, along with her distinguished guest, Coach Marce, will offer guidance on cultivating irresistible appeal to feminine women.

Coach Marce is a transformational coaching expert who empowers men to authentically embrace, heal, and inspire their innate masculine energies. With a wealth of experience, Coach Marce has assisted numerous men in restoring and enhancing their masculine energy while enabling their partners to express their feminine essence fully.

Coach Marce knows in the modern dating landscape; men often grapple with societal expectations that may encourage the suppression of their masculine qualities, leading them to overcompensate by attempting to fulfill women's needs instead of their own.

Under Coach Marce's expert guidance, this episode aims to help men reconnect with their masculine attributes and attract available and feminine partners into their lives.

So, if you're struggling with embracing your masculine energy, attracting feminine energy, and knowing if you are more in your unhealthy feminine, then this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this special episode:

• 0:33 - Coach Cynthia introduces Coach Marce.
• 2:50 - Coach Marce explains what masculine and feminine energy is. She explains how both men and woman naturally carries these energies.
• 3:37 - Masculine energy is different from feminine energy. Masculine energy is beautiful in that it naturally leans into their leadership and strength.
• 4:52 - What happens if there is no balance with both energy? Coach Marce explains it through her journey of seeing these energies in person.
• 5:43 - Coach Marce talks about her past. Raised in a traditional household, she faced difficult situations where she could not embrace her feminine side and instead took more of her masculine side.
• 7:00 - Coach Marce's story of a woman who is embracing their feminine side. In this story, she explains how the woman she was shopping with, receives different treatment from men when assuming her feminine energy.
• 8:08 - Men have a natural side to help and support somebody. Coach Marce explains how confused men are when embracing this side in the modern dating world, where women are held to the standard of being their boss.
• 10:08 - Woman naturally craves safety. Coach Marce explains how a woman's natural feminine side shuts down in unsafe situations and instead starts to embrace their masculine side.
• 11:34 - Coach Marce explains what it looks like if a man is not in his unhealthy feminine. If a man is in a relationship with a woman showing her masculine side, he lets her take the lead, leading to his unhealthy femininity.
• 14:39 - A man who cannot embody his healthy masculinity doesn't feel fulfilled. This goes the same way with a woman who does not feel happy when not embracing her healthy feminine.
• 17:54 - What's the difference between grounded and passive energy? Coach Marce will explain how to identify the difference using the nature around you, calming you down to face your natural energy when talking to a woman.
• 21:41 - The energy in a masculine is to pursue a woman. If a woman is unavailable, she will not let him follow her and will not open up to him about her availability.

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How To Touch A Woman To Turn Her On! (5 Things Most Men Miss, But Now You Won't)

Are you unsure when to start flirting with her?

Do you get nervous at the thought of trying to seduce your date? And often unsure whether or not she is really into you in the first place.

If your thoughts of seducing a woman are making you unsure that will lead to more, then you are in for a special treat; in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti shares valuable insights on the art of building romantic connections with women, specifically focusing on the subtle nuances of physical interaction that many men tend to overlook.

Apollonia has seen it all when men are trying to turn a woman on. Many men and her clients frequently overanalyze their approach in the realm of seduction, often failing to grasp the subtle cues and signals women provide to express their interest.

Apollonia empathizes with the frustration of seducing a woman and trying to turn her on while not being seen as creepy. But in this podcast episode, Apollonia uses practical and straightforward methods to help you discern a woman's readiness for romantic advances.

These practical advice and tests will help you emphasize the importance of attentive body language observation and reciprocal physical contact; Apollonia provides essential guidance for recognizing the pivotal moments when a woman is ready to take things to the next level and potentially lead to the bedroom.

So, if you're struggling with how to turn on a woman, seduce a woman, and know if she wants to be seduced, then this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:00 - Most men struggle with seducation. Apollonia explains how many men overthink when trying to seduce women, such as being overly flirty in a text.
• 1:34 - You need to read the room. Watch her body language and see how she is acting toward you. Is she smiling? Laughing? Constantly touching your arm, or is she closed off, moving away from you, or not even looking at you?
• 2:38 - The hand test. It's a simple yet effective test: if she wants you, put your hand on hers for 5 seconds. If she pulls away immediately, she is not comfortable with you yet; however, if she doesn't pull away and let your hand rest on hers for a while, that is the green light.
• 3:15 - Touch the appropriate parts of her body. One way to turn a woman on is physical touch (only start doing this if you know she is comfortable with you). Touching her shoulders, arms, and hands is the most respectful way to convey that you want her; however, feeling her stomach, thighs, or knees will make her uncomfortable.
• 4:45 - Putting her hair behind her ear. This makes a woman turn on; the thought of a romantic gesture makes her want you more.
• 5:19 - Hugging her. Once you have the green light and are both comfortable touching each other, once you hug her, let your hand gently touch her back; kissing her shoulders or neck will instantly turn her on.
• 5:58 - The key to turning her on is taking it slowly. Build up the tension; don't start kissing her off the bat; start with her hand, then her shoulder, hugging, and finally, a kiss. These steps can cause her to take things more with you in the bedroom.

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Are Men Done With Dating? TODAY'S Dating Scarcity Leaves Men Feeling Miserable!

Do you feel that it's getting hard to find the right partner?

Are you jealous because you see friends and family are getting married or in a committed relationship?

If you are having trouble finding a partner or lack the motivation to start dating again, then you are in for a special episode; in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the modern dating landscape, shedding light on why some men may find themselves disillusioned with today's dating culture.

Apollonia knows her clients well; she has seen the patterns of men having a scarcity mindset that leaves them alone and unsure of why they are unsuccessful in the dating world. Apollonia recognizes that individuals with a scarcity mindset frequently find themselves entering relationships with partners who do not align with their desired criteria.

Apollonia's practical advice and examples shed light on the scarcity mindset, which serves as a cognitive filter in dating, instilling the belief that one's current relationship is inadequate for long-term commitment.

So, if you're struggling with finding the right partner, getting out of a scarcity mindset, and finding any encouragement to return to the dating world, this podcast episode is for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:10 - What is a scarcity mindset? It's a mindset that is a mental filter when dating; it is a mindset that you feel that the person in the relationship is not enough to be long-term. This leads to rushing into relationships because they are afraid of being alone.
• 2:40 - Desperation is not attractive. In the scarcity mindset, you are often seen as desperate for love and will drive potential partners away.
• 3:18 - Apollonia proves an example of a man in a scarcity mindset. When a man thinks that a woman is lost in life and only a man will save her, he develops into a savior complex. This can create an unhealthy codependency and a lack of boundaries.
• 5:03 - Another reason why men are in a scarcity mindset is appearance. In society, men are looked down on if they show emotion; they care about having the ' tough guy' appearance, which can make them get into toxic or unfulfilling relationships.
• 6:11 - Men deserve to have respect and express emotion. They should be able to express vulnerability (if they know how to do it correctly). One way to get out of the scarcity mindset is to make sure you have standards for the woman you date and respect other people's standards if they do not meet yours.
• 7:11 - It's essential to have a positive outlook in dating. Some men see the dating world as a hostile place, but if you can think optimistically about the dating world, you will be able to attract the woman you want.
• 7:40 - Surround yourself with other men and support. Men who are feeling miserable after dating usually lack support from people. Talk to people or men that are successful in the dating world. Listen to them and their advice on navigating and finding partners healthily.

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Is Porn Destroying Men's Lives? (The SILENT Epidemic)

Let's be honest; have you ever been in your room all day watching porn and doing nothing else?

Do you miss out on events, seeing loved ones, or dating life because of porn?

If you ever thought that you might have a porn addiction, then you are in for a special episode; in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the pressing topic of the impact of pornography on men's lives, addressing it as a pervasive yet often unacknowledged issue – the "Silent Epidemic."

Apollonia knows that a lack of awareness of porn addiction can profoundly affect men's social, psychological, and romantic spheres. But in this podcast episode, Apollonia advises navigating porn addiction, the reasons behind men's reliance on pornography, dissecting the unrealistic ideals it propagates, and guiding self-assessment for potential addiction.

These practical strategies that Apollonia discusses will help you debunk misconceptions surrounding intimacy in pornography to empower modern men in overcoming this challenge. And will make you live a fulfilling life simply by identifying the underlying cause of porn addiction.

So if you're struggling with porn addiction, don't know if you are addicted to porn, or if your unsure why you are addicted to porn, then this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:19 - Apollonias experiences her clients and their porn addiction. She understands how porn is made to make the person consume more crazy and explicit scenarios, inviting men to go down the rabbit hole of addiction to porn.
• 2:18 - Unrealistic expectations of what a woman should be doing in bed. It gives the expectation that if a woman is not acting like what is seen in porn videos, then they are not enjoying it or that you are a terrible lover, which is entirely false.
• 3:01 - Apollonia explains her male clients developing performance anxiety. Since they already have a false impression of how they should perform and how the women should reciprocate, they develop anxiety since they know they can not do what they saw in the videos.
• 3:20 - Some guys want to sleep with women who have the body of the pornstar. It's okay for men to have preferences, but this is a false perception of a woman's body; it should be noted that a lot of porn star actress has gone under cosmetic surgeries.
• 3:46 - Porn addiction can cause erectile dysfunction. Younger men are having trouble getting erect because their brains function to watch other people having sex, and when they try to have sex, they can not perform. This is an unhealthily codependently on porn.
• 4:49 - Dr. Andrew Huberman's takes on porn addiction. He explains porn addiction is like spices; the more different you eat, the more bland the rest gets.
• 5:33 - Porn can hurt your stamina and performance. When men masturbate to porn, their train their bodies to ejaculate quickly, which can affect their life when it comes to the bedroom with a woman. Women want someone who will last longer and is emotionally present; a lack of that can turn them off.
• 6:40 - Porn can create dopamine spikes associated with shame and guilt. You are training your body to have these high dopamine spikes from doing something that does not make you happy. She explains further how men have to watch porn to get their day started; without it, it doesn't make them feel good, potentially messing up their dating and personal lives.
• 8:28 - Apollonia is not trying to shame men that are watching porn. She says that many men miss out on dating women or interacting with women when having porn addiction. Some men base their interactions on what they see in porn, which affects their fundamental interactions with a woman thinking it's okay to say things to a woman that will make her want to have sex with them, which is often seen as creepy or harassment.

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Identifying Toxic Women! (13 Signs That Scream AVOID HER!)

After having a good day at work, do you ever feel hesitant to come home knowing that your partner is there?

Do you suddenly feel stressed or overwhelmed by the thought of spending time with your partner, to the point where you would rather stay at work than be at home?

This might be the sign that you are dating toxic women, and if you are still unsure, then you are in for a special treat; in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the topic of recognizing toxic behaviors in women, presenting 13 distinct signs that serve as clear indicators to avoid that person.

Apollonia has worked with many clients and has seen high-valued men overlook the toxic traits of women and try to justify their actions. But in this podcast episode, Apollonia offers valuable insights for those currently dating or in relationships, highlighting that developing toxic traits is a gradual process rather than an abrupt transformation in relationships.

Apollonia's practical advice will help you identify toxic women and how to respond to these toxic behaviors appropriately. She will help you know if you're in a toxic relationship by looking at their inconsistencies and mental games surrounded by their negativity.

So, if you are struggling with a toxic woman, how to identify if someone is toxic, and how to start moving on from a toxic relationship, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:11 - A person with toxic traits doesn't become toxic overnight. Apollonia explains why people become toxic, often stemming from childhood or trauma.
• 2:04 - They are a cloud of negativity. They will bring down the friendly mood around you, a familiar sign people look at.
• 2:33 - Toxic women have controlling behavior. They will want to control every aspect of your life, down to how you dress or even who you talk to.
• 3:01 - She takes a lack of accountability. Instead of owning their faults, they will blame someone else and not see that they are causing problems.
• 3:38 - Jealously and possessive. This behavior can make you feel suffocated in the relationship and often leave you with trust issues as you enter a different relationship.
• 4:12 - A lack of empathy. Don't expect sympathy from toxic people; they will brush off your feelings. They will make your problem look small and won't even acknowledge your frustration.
• 4:38 - They are gaslighting you. This is a bit difficult to see if you are being manipulated. However, the typical signs you have being gaslit are feeling drained and confused after talking to or confronting them.
• 5:23 - Being constantly dramatic. Apollonia provides an example of a client she had and the relationship he was in, saying that she would always cry when he confronted her about the things he didn't like.
• 5:38 - Inconsistent behavior. One moment, they are loveling and affectionate, and then later, they are mad and aggressive with you. You always feel that you are walking on eggshells.
• 6:08 - Toxic people will try to cut you off from family and friends. They will try to isolate you to depend on them; this is dangerous and should be discussed more.
• 6:25 - They are emotionally or physically abused. This is the worst trait of a toxic woman; they will belittle or try to hit you. This can result in you having trauma in the relationship.
• 7:02 - An unhealthy sense of entitlement. Toxic women (and people) believe they should be catered to everything and the center of your attention.
• 7:22 - Always crossing your boundaries. When you're setting your boundaries, they will try to push it and cross those you have set. She will always make you try to say yes to things you are uncomfortable with.

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