Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

Dating A Woman With A Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style! (Make Her WANT You MORE)

Do you feel like the woman you're dating is not fully there?

Do you see that sometimes, when things get serious, she pulls away?

If you ever see her doing the push and pull, but she is not fully committed, Then you might be dating a Fearful-Avoidant, Attachment-style woman. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the intricacies of dating a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, shedding light on strategies to enhance your appeal and foster a more profound connection while dating a fearful-avoidant attachment style woman.

Apollonia has worked with many clients to see a pattern in a man dating a fearful-avoidant woman.

However, by offering insights into the dos and don'ts of navigating a relationship with a woman exhibiting fearful-avoidant attachment tendencies, Apollonia provides valuable guidance on establishing and sustaining a lasting bond. She will give you essential advice for those currently dating a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, including effective communication techniques to prevent unintentionally creating distance in the relationship.

So, if you're struggling to date a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, how do you know if you're dating a fearful-avoidant attachment style woman, and how do you finally open her up? Then, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:33 - Apollonia talks about the different attachment styles. But in today's podcast, she will discuss one attachment style: A fearful, Avoidant Attachment Style.
• 1:25 - A little background on the theory of Avoidant Attachment Style. John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth tested their attachment theories by analyzing babies' earlier experiences. They saw a pattern of how they would develop later in life in personal growth and relationships.
• 1:50 - People with Secure Attachments are easy to show affection and interest. They uphold their values, exclude confidence, and, most importantly, set boundaries for people around them.
• 2:06 - What is an Avoidment Attachment style? Unlike Secure Attachment, they value independence. They hate the idea of being controlled or settling; this leads to unfilling or long-lasting relationships.
• 3:02 - You might see people with an Avoidment Attachment style holding on to friendships or relationships. However, they have one foot out the door, ready to leave when things get serious.
• 4:04 - They fear emotional and physical commitment and lash out when confined. They often do things alone and would rather not seek emotional support since they don't trust people.
• 4:18 - Like Avoidant Attachment, Anoxius Avoidant has some same qualities. They lack self-confidence, suppress their emotions and don't seek help. And unlike Avoidant Attachments, who like to do things alone, they would instead be alone to avoid getting hurt.
• 5:26 - To date someone with a Fearful, Avoidant Attachment style, you must know when and how to communicate your frustrations. When she promises to call or text and still doesn't, don't get mad, and send her a fury of texts immediately. Take a deep breath, relax, and then send your text.
• 6:08 - Communicate like adults. No demanding, no controlling the situation, talk. List your needs and wants, and listen to hers.
• 7:05 - Be patient with her. It's hard to do when she keeps pushing her away and wants to be alone. But remember, she likes to be alone to ease her anxiety. She needs time to think, sometimes requiring her to withdraw a bit.
• 7:50 - Tap into your empathy, but dont try to fix her. Understand her emotions and let her name her feelings. Support her, but don't push her. If you see that she doesn't want to express her feelings or change, except her or move on to another relationship. You can't change someone to fit your needs, but you can express your desires and wants.
• 9:31 - Respect their boundaries and maintain your independence. Sometimes, trying to rush the relationships and Fearful, Avoidant Attachment may try to run away at the sight of commitment. That's why giving her space is one way to make her know you respect her boundaries while maintaining yours.
• 10:47 - The most important thing to do when dating and fearful-avoidant attachment is not to be clingy. Picture this: you have a close friend who tries to cling to you and wants to know everything you do the whole day and every day. This can be overwhelming, so give her space. And she will go to you.

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

7 Signs A Woman Is Gaslighting and Manipulating You! (EXPOSING Toxic Women)

Do you feel like you are constantly second-guessing yourself in the relationship?

Do you see that sometimes your partner is always lying and making it sound like you're the crazy one?

Suppose you constantly see a pattern of lies and distorted information in the relationship. Then you might be dating a gaslighter. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will explore recognizing signs of gaslighting and manipulation in a relationship, thereby shedding light on toxic dynamics within relationships.

Apollonia has seen men fall into the cycle of manipulation by the woman they're dating. She understands how frustrating it can be when you're trying to express your discomfort to your manipulator only to be brought down. However, with Apollonia's guidance, she will provide insights into the concept of gaslighting, defining it as a manipulation tactic that deliberately induces doubt in another's mind, causing them to question their thoughts, feelings, and actions.

These practical examples will help you know how gaslighters often distort or misrepresent situations to suit their agenda, even when the facts contradict their narrative—involving a distorted version of reality implemented on their partner's view of the world.

So, if you're struggling with dating a gaslighter, how do you know if you're being manipulated, and how do you get out of one? Then, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:46 - What is gaslighting in the relationship? It's a person who will make you second-guess everything you do. They also try to palpitate or twist a situation to favor themselves even though it's completely wrong and feed you with lies until you are convinced they're right.
• 1:07 - Apollonia's example of a partner trying to gaslight someone and manipulate them. The person always tells you one thing but does the other; they will try to make you feel bad even though it wasn't your fault.
• 1:55 - To know a woman is a gaslighter and manipulating you is that she's constantly lying even after being confronted with the truth. Even when confronted with evidence that she was lying, she is so confident in her lies that it makes you second guess.
• 3:00 - The gaslighter wants the upper hand. She wants control of the situation even though it's her fault.
• 3:16 - the gaslighter questions your insanity. For example, when you tell a story, she will say how the events didn't happen or comment that your memory is terrible even though it was all true. Again, a gaslighter wants the upper hand in your life.
• 4:03 - A gaslighter will lower your self-esteem and confidence. When she's constantly telling you, you're wrong and feeding you with her lies. It will make you second guess everything you do in life and friendships and drift away from family. This is dangerous.
• 4:35 - When she accuses you of behaviors that she's engaging in. If you bring up her toxic behaviors, she will flip the situation, saying that you're the one with the unhealthy behaviors.
• 5:17 - she will make you rethink your perceptions and memories. Let's say she is flirting or talking to another man; when you express your discomfort, she will blame it on you, saying that you are too flirty with women and possessive.
• 5:57 - A gaslighter and a manipulator will make you second guess everything, down to everyday activities.
• 6:38 - Her goal is to make you dependent on her. She will want you to guess everything second so you can rely on them, to the point where you ask them for advice for even the most mundane things.
• 7:19 - She will try to isolate you. Let's say you have a close friend or family member, and she will start to talk about them in a bad light, making them seem like they don't support you or are bad people. This is a way of her controlling your life.
• 8:27 - When their actions don't match their words. She is telling you what you want to hear but does nothing. She is a walking contradiction. She will make you doubt your feelings and your sense of reality.
• 9:31 - The most significant sign is when she plays on your insecurities. When you express your insecurities, she will use that as advance to control your emotions (ex., If you're insecure about your age, she will say things like, "You look good. For your age")

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

Are All Women Emotionally Unavailable? (What EVERY Man Needs To Know)

Do you feel like you might be dating an emotionally unavailable woman?

Do you feel that most of the women you date lead to nowhere?

If you are with a woman and the relationship is heading nowhere, you might be dating an emotionally unavailable woman. But how do you know if you are dating an emotionally unavailable woman? In this podcast episode, coaches Apollonia Ponti and Coach Cynthia delve into the crucial topic of female emotional availability, providing invaluable insights for every man dating an emotionally unavailable woman.

Both Apollonia and Coach Cynthia have worked with many men who have dealt with dating an emotionally unavailable woman. They empathize with the frustration when men want to take the relationship to the next level, only to have the woman pull away.

Apollonia and Coach Cynthia will provide insights into effective communication strategies when dealing with an emotionally unavailable woman and offer guidance on navigating situations while helping you find the right emotionally available woman.

So, if you're struggling with dating an emotionally unavailable woman, how do you know if you're dating an emotionally unavailable woman, and how do you find an emotionally available woman? Then, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:08 - Understand that there are a lot of emotionally available women. However, it's your job not to fix that emotionally available woman. And focus on searching for an emotionally available woman instead.
• 2:14 - A lot of men get confused about why a woman lies about wanting emotionally available men. Most of the time, a woman who constantly seeks emotionally unavailable men is, too. Because they are emotionally unavailable, you must remember to watch for her behaviors and patterns.
• 2:59 - You want to be the emotional choice. Emotionally available women base their decisions on their emotions; if you constantly bring in negative emotions everywhere you go, she will see it as someone who can't take care of her emotional needs.
• 4:35 - You might still have that hero complex. You might be very empathetic, seeing emotionally unavailable women and wanting to help them. You mentally choosing an emotionally unavailable woman, start by stopping this hero complex to see if there is a shift in your dating life.
• 6:18 - What is the concept of being emotionally unavailable? Some men are confused about the difference between her wanting to get to know you better vs. just enjoying the dating process. Is she only happy when you give her or do things for her? Or is she happy just being in your company?
• 7:18 - Many men seek only one positive thing in the relationship and let go of the negatives. Usually, when men are in denial when dating an emotionally unavailable woman, they will be sucked into the ideal fantasy of what she could be rather than seeing the reality that she might be a walking red flag.
• 7:42 - When you're dating an emotionally unavailable woman, she will do nothing but break your heart and waste your time. It's easy to date someone, but it's hard to establish a relationship with them. An emotionally unavailable woman should not be your top priority in life.
• 9:18 - Let us be honest with ourselves. Sometimes, when we are not seeking honesty within ourselves, we ignore the mixed signals and patterns she is showing in the relationship. She might be saying one thing but contradicts herself; she will be affectionate with you but stops when she leaves. This is a sign that she's an emotionally unavailable woman.
• 10:54 - Why do you always end up dating an emotionally unavailable woman? It might be because you're intentionally seeking an emotionally unavailable woman.
• 11:38 - Dont try to fix her pain. When an emotionally unstable woman is still stuck in her trauma and past pains, you can help her, but don't try to fix it for her. Let her learn from her mistakes, and let her heal.
• 13:39 - There is a plan for you already set in your life. You have to choose the best one. Treat yourself like you're the best plan, take care of yourself mentally or physically, and reconnect with your wants and needs. It is then that you will start to attract emotionally available women.

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

7 Masculine Habits That Women Find Really Hot! (DRIVE Her WILD)

Do you feel that you are not attracting high valued women?

Do you sometimes think that it might be your masculinity that doesn't attract the right woman?

If the thought of not attracting highly valued women because of your masculine traits. Then you are in for a special episode; Apollonia Ponti explores seven male habits that are particularly appealing to women, elevating their level of attraction.

Apollonia has worked with many clients and has seen that many of her men have suffered from trying to captivate high-value women through the expression of their masculinity. But Apollonia delves into the reasons behind potential challenges in attracting highly valued women, even for those already embracing their masculine traits.

This practical guidance on cultivating and enhancing one's masculinity will encourage alignment with women whose values resonate with one's own.

So, if you're struggling with attracting high-valued women, identifying your masculinity, and having that masculine allure, this podcast episode is for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:07 - You have reponsblities. If a woman can see that you are sticking to your responsibilities, she will know you are looking for a committed relationship.
• 1:49 - If a man can take hold of his own life, he is seen as reliable and a leader; most women will like to see that. If a guy can show that he is responsible with his finances and life, he is mature and shows that he can work together toward a common goal (ex. having a family).
• 2:39 - High-valued woman is attracted to courageous men. A brave man shows confidence and is a sign that he believes in himself; he can provide a sense of adventure. Most women are attracted to that sense of experience and security.
• 4:23 - Kindness is one of the most apparent traits a masculine man should possess. Life can get to you, and sometimes stress turns into anger, which a woman doesn't like. If she can see that you can show kindness and compassion throughout your stress of life, this will instantly attract her.
• 4:58 - Being kind isn't just doing charity or something grand. The small things build up over time, checking up on a family member, grabbing her favorite drink on the way back from work; these little things can make her want to embrace her feminine side around you.
• 5:41 - A masculine trait is thinking things logically. That self-assuredness in your life shows her that you know what you want and how to get it. This, again, security can help her feel safe around you and open up to new possibilities with you.
• 6:30 - When you can handle things well under pressure. When can you solve problems quickly, see that you're a great communicator, and keep the connection strong.
• 6:53 - All the traits that Apollonia has discussed will also get her to admire you. This is the ultimate attraction; if you can maintain these traits, she will see that you are a reliable partner seeking long-term relationships and adaptable to every situation; these are what a woman wants.
• 7:33 - Have that positive attitude. Bring positivity in the relationship; leading with a positive outlook can create open communication and form a strong bond.
• 8:41 - If you're always complaining, she will turn away. This is why having a positive attitude is the best way of living for men and everyone. You, too, should seek a highly valued woman with a positive attitude and willingness to navigate the ups and downs with you.
• 9:00 - Woman are attracted to men who live in their purpose. Witnessing someone catching their goals is very admirable. If a woman sees this, she knows that you has a purpose in your life; it might not be career-wise, but something like; wanting to learn how to sail a boat or build your own home (or owning one); it things that you want to do in your life, and going after it can make her see that you too are a high valued man.
• 9:56 - Pursuing your goals can show relisences. Showing determination and strong values will make you more interesting. If you can show you're willing to persist in your dreams, then she will feel the need to be around your ambitious energy.

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

How To Turn Pain Into Power Coach Andres Roadmap to Overcoming Fear w/ Coach Cynthia

Do you feel like you haven't moved from your trauma?

Do you feel like you want something new but are scared of doing it?

If you're at a place where circumstances are not in your favor, then this is the best time to start being your best self, but how? In today's special podcast episode, Coach Cynthia is joined by special guest Coach Andres, who will provide insights on transforming adversity into empowerment through his Roadmap to Overcoming Fear.

As a life coach known for his work under the banner of Coaching with Andres, he fosters a positive mindset for personal growth, professional development, and navigating the challenges of losing a loved one. Coach Andres is dedicated to assisting individuals in reaching their optimal selves, irrespective of their circumstances.

Coach Andres knows how hard it is to think positively under stressful situations.

Coach Andres candidly shares his journey of overcoming traumatic situations. His transformative experience led him to achieve his best self and inspired him to guide others in overcoming their obstacles. Experiencing the best quality of life, and being their best self.

So, If you're struggling with overcoming trauma, staying positive, and just trying to be your best self, then this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this special episode:

• 2:07 - Who is Coach Andres? Coach Cynthia will introduce him, what he does, and his inspiration to be a coach.
• 3:22 - We all have fear, but is it holding you back? Coach Andres starts introducing the idea of how to overcome that fear.
• 4:19 - To overcome fear and to be empowered, you must accept failure. Coach Andres explains that most people must learn to fail and overcome it.
• 6:48 - How do you turn pain into power? Coach Cynthia explains a lot of men in this modern world are overcome by the stress of their daily lives and the expectations placed on them. Coach Cynthia advises on how to overcome those stresses of life.
• 8:19 - Coach Andres explains the traumatizing life experience that made him who he is today.
• 8:47 - Sudden changes can contribute to the cycle of pain. Coach Andres talks about how he didn't process sudden changes like moving and the pandemic—turning him to relieve stress from exercising.
• 10:13 - Coach Andres discuss his journery of relearning how to walk again after his accident.
• 12:12 - We always forgive but never forget. When coach Andres discusses how some people suffer in their pain by not learning how to open up and let other people help them. This contributes to their relationships and often why they might have difficulty maintaining one.
• 14:12 - Coach Cynthia asked Coach Andres how he was motivated to get his body moving and healthy again. What was the click for him to start doing the work?
• 16:00 - Attitudes and egos kick In a time of hardship. Coach Andres explains how his ego and aggressive attitude thought he could recover quickly and walk again. He explains that this attitude wouldn't help him recover and that he must learn slowly through trial and error.
• 19:54 - Often, putting on a strong face doesn't mean it will help your quality of life. Coach Andres talks about how being strong for yourself and others wouldn't help you. Ask, lean on family or friends, and most importantly, seek support or advice.
• 22:03 - Coach Andres advises to help men turn pain into power. His most important advice Is to to surround yourself with people who are overcoming their hardships and are now thriving, join a support group, and talk to people or look up people who have gone through the same hardships as you. Being inspired to improve is a way to get motivated to overcome hardships.

Get more Coach Andres on:

Website; https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRtP-4zvbNB-EOEDet5dU6g

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people just like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

I Get Women, But I CAN'T KEEP Them! (Exactly How To Keep Her Interested)

Do you constantly find yourself in new relationships? Are you unable to maintain a long-term one?

Do you see the women you want to attract but reject you?

Suppose you see yourself in a cycle of moving on to the next woman and want a more meaningful connection and a long-term relationship than a short one. In that case, you are in for a special treat because, in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the intricacies of attracting and maintaining meaningful connections with women and centering on the challenge many individuals encounter in successfully transitioning from initial attraction to a lasting relationship.

Apollonia has seen many of her highly valued clients that end up with unfulfilling relationships.

She will explain the underlying factors that can hinder the establishment of long-term bonds. She adeptly explores the common dilemma of attracting women but failing to sustain a committed relationship. And why often a highly valued woman rejects you.

So, if you're struggling with maintaining a long-term relationship, finding the right woman, and ensuring you're a highly valued man, this podcast episode is for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:58 - You get the girl, but you can't keep her. Apollonia will explain why you always seem to get any girl you want, but she's always getting away.
• 1:32 - One reason you can't keep a woman is an avoidment attachment style. It means that they tend to be more independent and don't try to foster an emotional connection to other people. This is usually because they don't want to get hurt.
• 1:59 - How do you know if you have an avoidant attachment style? People with an avoidant attachment style have a habit of not wanting to have deep conversations or are emotionally distant when it comes to dating.
• 2:40 - Most people with an avoidant attachment style might attract anxious people. The anxious attachment people seek more reassurance while the avoidant will try to seek independence, which can both be catastrophic.
• 3:37 - When men keep getting women but can't keep them, it might be because they are emotionally unavailable women instead of a highly valued woman who plays hard to get. This might be tricky, but it's all about seeing the patterns in the relationship.
• 4:13 - Apollonia proves an example of a highly valued woman playing hard to get. A high valued woman will seem very selective regarding dating, is open to communication, and is honest about what she wants in the relationship.
• 5:15 - An emotionally unavailable woman (or a commitment-phobe) will back away when things get serious in the relationship. She will try to create distances from them. She's leaving them unsure about what she wants in the relationship. And send mixed signals.
• 6:47 - Sometimes, men have a 'frat boy' mentally. It's okay for a man to be a carefree guy, but a woman wants to see some stability in their life. Or at least some sense of responsibility.
• 7:28 - Sometimes, they might be too focused on the attraction. It's not all about looks; it's about emotional attraction. Some good-looking men see this problem of getting the woman because he is attractive but always fail to have that emotional connection.
• 8:28 - They wait for her to initiate things. Both partners must contribute to the relationship's growth; it's not who does more than the other. It's about working together to make this relationship work.
• 10:29 - When can a guy struggle to keep the woman in the relationship is because they are not in touch with themselves. Throughout life, they have been high achievers and tried to be the man the girl wants. But it's never what he wants. They need to make sure when going into a relationship that you must be in love with yourself to love her.

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

How To Know You're Being Too Clingy! (The Right Amount Of Attention To Give In A Relationship)

Do you feel that your woman is pushing you away?

Do you see that your girlfriend is often telling you that she needs more space than usual? Or do you think that you may be overly clingy but aren't sure?

Suppose you see a sudden pattern of her making up excuses or wanting more distance from you and are unsure why; you are in for a special episode. Apollonia Ponti will share guidance on recognizing signs of excessive clinginess in a relationship and establishing a healthy balance of attention.

Apollonia has seen many clients destroy their relationships, with their excessive clinginess.

Apollonia dives into specific behaviors and characteristics that may render an individual excessively clingy within their romantic partnership; Apollonia offers a comprehensive analysis. She provides practical strategies for managing moments of clinginess and transforming them into constructive interactions.

This practical advice will help you on proactive steps to prevent inadvertently pushing one away. This episode is a valuable resource for fostering harmonious and balanced relationships.

So, if you are struggling with over-clinginess, to stop being clingy with her, or how to know if you are in the first place, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:32 - The start of the podcast: How To Know You're Being Too Clingy! (The Right Amount Of Attention To Give In A Relationship).
• 1:10 - When you're too clingy, you constantly seek validation from a woman. A clingy man will fish for compliments and seek validation of her feelings and never will try to give her the space that she needs.
• 2:01 - A woman Likes to have space and think. Just like any man or person, space in the relationship is crucial. If you want her to think about you and know what you're doing, keeping that space will let her think more about you.
• 2:47 - A clingy man will overanalyze their relationships through the amount of sex they are having. He will think that with less sex, the less the person is interested. Of course, sex in the relationship will decrease over time, but it doesn't mean that they are not attracted to you anymore.
• 3:08 - Another huge sign of clinginess is when you give all your attention to her and lose sight of yourself. They will all lose track of their life, neglecting their goals and friends and family. This is a massive turn-off to a high-value woman; she sees this as an immature trait that a man has.
• 4:08 - When a man is clingy, he will ignore the red flags from a woman. A clingy man will miss all the red flags in the relationship and cling to the idea that she will change for him as the relationship progresses. But this rarely happens.
• 4:54 - There are no standards for the woman he dates. He doesn't care if her values align with his, and most likely will neglect his values for her, just get obsessed with the idea of getting her that he doesn't see if she's interested in the first place.
• 5:29 - What is the right amount of attention to give to a woman? It all comes down to your life. Make yourself busy, do what makes you happy by exploring your hobbies, and provide time to hang out with friends and family. A balance in your life is what makes a woman attractive to you.
• 6:19 - When there is a healthy balance in your life, the push and pull become easy. You don't need to make plans when going out with her; it comes naturally, and you don't wait for her to talk or text you. And when she does, you will have some time to tell her. Personal development is what makes a woman attracted to you.
• 7:12 - A balance in your life varies from person to person. It all comes down to one thing is: having full days and not left wondering. When you're in the beginning stages of dating a woman, you need that balance of communication and mystery.

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

How To Get A Younger Woman's Attention! (Older Men Can WIN A Younger Woman Over EASILY)

Do you ever wonder how to attract a younger woman?

Do you feel, as an older man, unsure of how to attract a younger woman respectfully?

Suppose you're unsure about how to approach the first steps of attracting a younger woman. In that case, you are in for a special treat because, in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti offers valuable insights on capturing the attention of younger women, particularly for older men seeking to establish meaningful connections.

Apollonia has worked with many older clients and recognizes common mistakes they make when trying to attract a younger woman.

Apollonia delves into the underlying reasons behind the attraction that younger women often feel for older, more mature individuals. She emphasizes the importance of adopting a mature and experienced mindset, as well as demonstrating strong leadership qualities and masculinity.

The practical advice that Apollonia discusses will help older mature men understand initiating and sustaining successful relationships with younger women. And to gain essential knowledge and enhance your dating prospects with younger women.

So, suppose you're struggling with how to attract a younger woman, how to approach a younger woman respectfully, and how to start having engaging conversations with a younger woman. In that case, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:07 - To attract a younger woman is to let her see you as a leader. This means leading the conversation and talking about your wants and needs. Be confident in the conversation.
• 1:30 - There is a reason why younger women are attracted to older men. He doesn't have a young person mentality but a mature and experienced one. He is taking the lead and being masculine.
• 2:09 - Ask her things to see that you want to get to know her. A younger woman wants an older man to ask her something about herself, leading the conversation and getting to know her more.
• 2:35 - One thing that can turn young women away from older men is focusing too much on the age gap. If the older man keeps making comments about the age gap, then the younger woman will be turned off and make her feel that the age gap will become a recurring problem.
• 2:58 - Apollonia talks about one of her older clients trying to date a younger woman. He spoke of the age gap and did it so much that the woman felt uncomfortable. She saw that he wasn't confident about his age, therefore leaving him.
• 3:57 - The younger woman loves adventure. Older men have the stereotype that they lose interest in having fun once they get older. That is not all true; being open to trying new things and exploring each other's interests is a good start.
• 5:07 - Show that you offer stability in your life. One reason a younger woman is attracted to older men is because they're emotionally secure and stable in their lives; he knows what they want and is not afraid of getting it.
• 6:10 - Don't hide your past to a younger woman. Telling her your stories and struggles can make her open up to you. This can emotionally attract her to you, knowing that you can open up about your past, not only showing that you can be vulnerable but showing that you're a great communicator as well.
• 7:25 - Act your AGE! When an older man tries to attract a younger woman, he tries to act like a younger man; this will instantly turn her off. There's a reason why a younger woman is attracted to an older man; he shows signs of maturity and balance in his life. Embrace this; don't try to hide from it.

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

7 SNEAKY Reasons Why Women Friendzone Men! (Why RESPECT Gets You Nowhere!)

Do you often get friendzone?

Do you feel like there might be something you're doing wrong that makes her friendzone you? But I'm not sure what it is.

Suppose you don't want to end up in the friend zone forever and possibly make the relationship a romantic one. In that case, you are in for a special treat because, in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will share the intricacies of why men sometimes find themselves in the challenging position of being friend-zoned by women. Emphasizing the significance of maintaining a balance between masculine and feminine energies, Apollonia provides actionable insights on how to navigate the friend zone and cultivate a more desirable sense of male power.

Apollonia understands the frustration of men trying to get out of the friend zone. But in this podcast episode, Apollonia uncovers seven subtle yet crucial reasons contributing to this dynamic.

This practical advice on getting out of the friend zone can help you understand why women perceive a man as a friend rather than a romantic interest, shedding light on potential behaviors that may inadvertently lead to this perception.

So, if you're struggling with how to get out of the friendzone, how to stop getting into the friendzone, and which steps to take when getting out of the friendzone, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:25 - One reason men get friendzone is not embracing their masculine side. Men should have a polarity of masculine and feminine energy. Usually, men lack their male side and go far into their feminine; women start to see you as more of a friend.
• 2:33 - Again, a woman, to be physically attracted to you, needs to see you in your masculine. Of course, a woman wants a man to be friendly and caring, but being too much into your feminine side can make her think you're more of a friend than a potential boyfriend.
• 3:07 - Frienzones happen when men are not comfortable with their seduction. Women want to crave your presents and feel that you are attracted to them. Showing intent with a woman can make her see you're more interested than just being friends.
• 3:42 - The woman wants to feel the flirty playfulness. If a man is too shy to flirt or show intent, she will take it as if you're not interested in her.
• 4:06 - One common reason you are a friendzone is the lack of sexual tension. That is what separates friendships and romantic relationships. Create the sexual tension and keep doing it.
• 5:10 - Putting more effort into being flirty and showing intent can have a great outcome. That healthy push and pull from a woman can make her feel wanted by you and create that sense of desire for you when you're not around.
• 5:50 - The structure in your intent. When men are too shy to talk to a woman, don't try to call or go up to her and flirt with her, then the friend zone immediately starts to form.
• 7:00 - The mistake of focusing on rational attraction rather than emotional attraction. Men will think about how to attract a woman by gaining muscles and or picking up a masculine hobby instead of not focusing on their values. Do you two have the same values? How about big life goals? These questions should be your priority instead of rational attraction.
• 9:10 - Friendzone happens when men are overly submissive. He will try to make her happy all the time; they will show no boundaries and neglect their values and put her values instead of his own. Women are attracted to men who hold strong values and take the lead in their lives.

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

Are You A Man That's Too Much In His Feminine? (Lacking Masculine Balance)

Do you feel a woman always sees you more like a friend than a potential boyfriend?

Have other women told you that you exclude feminine energy even though you don't want to?

If the thought of being too feminine is affecting you, attracting highly valued women, you are in for a special podcast episode; Apollonia Ponti discusses maintaining a healthy balance between masculine and feminine energies in individuals.

Apollonia knows the frustration of men who face potential challenges in the dating world because they are deficient in their masculine energy. They lack what makes a woman attracted to a man seeking to appreciate a strong sense of masculinity.

This practical advice on being masculine while balancing out your femininity will help you attract feminine women. Apollonia will provide insightful examples of masculine energy traits and offers practical guidance on how men can effectively express and embody their masculine selves.

So, suppose you struggle with your feminine energy, not knowing if you're using it, and how to finally get a woman who is in their feminine energy. In that case, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:58 - Why do women go for the men who mistreated them when im so nice? Apollonia explains the polarity effect and how men and women have both masculine and feminine energies. And sometimes, the lack of male energy can be the leading cause of why a woman will friend zone you.
• 1:22 - Apollonia explains that her polarity affects the masculine and feminine energy philosophy. Masculine energy is goal-oriented and takes leadership, while feminine energy is nurturing and patient.
• 2:21 - In a relationship, men and women must use this polarity effect. However, if a man isn't showing his masculine energy and embracing his feminine energy, then the woman will not be interested.
• 3:15 - Apollonia always tells her male clients to have at least 70% masculine energy while having 20% feminine energy. The feminine energy is also vital; for example, when you talk about your feelings.
• 3:48 - Apollonia tells a story about one of their male clients being in his feminine too much. She explains how her client constantly sent poems and love letters to the woman he was interested unknowingly making the woman move away.
• 5:02 - You talk about your feelings all the time. When a man is too much in his feminine, he will constantly talk about his emotions and hold no mystery for the woman to explore.
• 5:48 - When a man is too much in his feminine, he will never say 'no.' This can be a people-pleaser tendency, but a woman likes a man who can stand his ground and take the lead. If she sees you let her control your life, she might pull away from the relationship.
• 6:46 - A man who isn't taking the lead is too much in his feminine. When a man doesn't take leadership in his life, the woman will lose Interest. A woman will want to fall into her feminine, but when she doesn't see you as a reliable person, she will start to lose Interest.
• 8:03 - You are unable to regulate emotionally. This is losing your cool and emotions when there is a tricky situation that you're facing.

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.