The Elevated Man

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

Do Women Prefer Dominate Men? Assertive Men vs. Controlling Men (6 Dominate Traits She Finds HOT!)

Do you know if you're an Assertive or Controlling man?

Do you wonder if there is any difference?

If you ever thought that if an woman wants a more assertive or controlling man, you are in for a special treat. In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into women's preferences regarding assertive and controlling men. The discussion focuses on six dominant traits that women find appealing, differentiating between assertive and controlling behaviors.

Apollonia has seen the behaviors of Assertive and Controlling men. And she sees how women are attracted to assertive men.

But what is an assertive man? Assertive men emphasize the importance of direct yet sensitive communication with their partner. The Assertive man establishes clear boundaries, which he adheres to while respecting those of others.

Conversely, the controlling man resorts to manipulative tactics, such as guilt-tripping, to fulfill his desires. This dynamic creates an unhealthy scenario where the partner feels the need to constantly please the controlling individual, often at the expense of neglecting their own needs and desires.

If you want to learn the difference and become a man who can attract high-quality women, this podcast episode is for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:00 - High-value women love assertive men, not controlling ones. Apollonia will explain the difference between being assertive and controlling behaviors in the relationship.
• 1:26 - The way an assertive man communicates is direct and yet sensitive. At the core of his assertiveness are boundaries that he had set up, and he respects other people's boundaries.
• 2:23 - Decision-making isn't only for him to make but collaborating with everyone involved. An assertive man communicates his thoughts and feelings while embracing his partners.
• 3:25 - An Assertive Man respects his partner's independence. He helps her or creates that space of autonomy, gives a sense of security in the relationship, and offers support when his partner needs reassurance.
• 4:04 - In contrast to Assertive Man, a Controlling Man looks at relationships to exhibit his power and authority. He goes his way or no way.
• 5:01 - A Controlling Man will manipulate situations. Not only does it erode trust and understanding in the relationship, but it will create an unhealthy dynamic.
• 6:15 - Emotional manipulation is joint in controlling men. He does it through guilt-tripping to get the things he wants. This creates situations where his partner constantly tries to please him and disregards her needs and wants. This is toxic.
• 7:14 - There's always a vast difference between awareness and controlling behaviors. An assertive man is what women want and are attracted to.
• 7:45 - Apollonia explains why an Assertive man is highly sought after in dating.
• 9:36 - healthy relationships need to have nurture and assertiveness. They need to balance supporting each other while setting boundaries most healthily.

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Why You Become TOO NICE When You Like A Woman! (Then Get REJECTED)

Are you frustrated when a woman rejects you and you're just being nice?

Do you feel like she's drifting away, confusing you because you do everything to make her happy?

If you don't understand why she's not interested when you're just being nice to her, it might be because you might have the Nice Guy syndrome. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into 'Nice Guys' and how men give excessive niceness when expressing romantic interest in a woman, ultimately leading to rejection.

Apollonia knows how contradicting it is when a woman rejects you because you're too nice. Should I be nice to her? What does she want? Apollonia explores the underlying reasons nice guys may find themselves at a disadvantage in relationships and offers valuable insights into striking a balance between kindness and assertiveness when pursuing romantic connections.

She emphasizes the significance of understanding the concept of polarity in relationships, highlighting the crucial interplay between masculine and feminine energies and offering what you should do as a man if you want her to start attracting you.

So, if you're having trouble attracting her to you, how do you stop being the 'Nice Guy' and start dating the woman you want to be with. Then, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:31 - Why do nice guys finish last?
• 1:32 - Being too nice might be the problem. Of course, a woman wants to date a nice guy, but if you keep treating her like one of her girlfriends, it will throw her off.
• 2:15 - Apollonia will start to explain tips and tricks on balancing being a nice guy and leading with intention when trying to seduce her.
• 2:40 - Usually, nice guys finish last because they have the wrong attraction ideas. They dont embrace that masculine energy, not taking leadership when it comes to dating.
• 3:25 - The concept of polarity is important to every relationship. The balance of masculine and feminine energy is essential in the relationship. It's now about dressing 'feminine' or doing 'masculine' activities. It's about the traits.
• 4:10 - When embracing too much of your feminine energy, you signal that you want to be her friend rather than a potential partner. This is how guys get friend-zoned.
• 4:33 - It might be because you lack self-confidence in your ability to attract women. You keep her around because the idea of being her friend is better than losing her. You can't expect someone to fall in love with you when you're not being yourself.
• 5:43 - There should be a balance. Are you a people pleaser? Do you allow people to treat you wrongly? Remember, don't settle for less.
• 6:30 - Dont date someone because you're lonely. They have some self-worth when dating someone, usually nice guys, who always want to be nice to the woman they're dating because they feel they need extra work to like him. That is not all true.
• 7:11 - The right woman will be attracted to your self-worth. When she sees you have a healthy relationship with yourself, she sees you can maintain that healthiness in other relationships.
• 7:51 - Nice guys fear of setting boundaries. It's not bad. It's about giving yourself choices and setting boundaries will help you attract the woman you want to date. And you are not attracting emotionally unavailable women.

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The Power Of Polarity To Attract Women (Create "Seduction Loops" To Attract Her)

What is the Power of Polarity?

Have you ever heard of masculine and feminine energies?

If you heard of the concept of attraction in poetry or heard of feminine and masculine energies but are unsure what it means. Then you're in for a special treat; in today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti explains the influential dynamics of polarity in attraction, specifically focusing on creating "seduction loops" designed to captivate women.

Apollonia has worked with many clients and has seen that men have trouble balancing their masculine and feminine energies in their relationships.

However, Apollonia will delve into the nuanced concept of polarity, emphasizing the necessity of maintaining a delicate equilibrium between masculine and feminine energies within the context of a relationship. This will help you gain insights into attracting a feminine partner while preserving the essential balance of these energies within yourself.

So, suppose you're unsure about understanding the power of polarity, balancing out your masculine and feminine energy, and how to start embracing your masculine energy correctly. In that case, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:48 - What is the attraction of polarity? In other words, this effect of a masculine and feminine balance in the relationships is what you lack is what you attract.
• 1:04 - Have you noticed that you never dated someone who was just like you?
• 1:32 - Many men mistake feminine and masculine energies, reading as more girly or manly. This isn't the case.
• 2:09 - Apollonia gives an example of feminine and masculine energies in the relationship. If you both have masculine energies or too much feminine energies, it will not balance out, and the relationship will fall apart.
• 2:52 - The key to a long-term relationship is balancing or sitting between masculine and feminine energies. Apollonia will begin to explain this concept in more detail.
• 3:16 - What is a masculine energy? It is all about creating the push-and-pull effect between you and your woman, which means taking the lead, being confident and assertive, and knowing what you want.
• 3:56 - Remember, if there is the same level of masculine energy within the relationship, it will not work out. This is why many men get friend-zoned.
• 4:21 - You do need to have a feminine energy. It's all about communication, talking about your feelings, and expressing your needs and wants.
• 4:38 - Feminine energy is all about nurturing. It's about caring, being cared for, open communication, and being emotionally stable.
• 5:17 - Apollonia always tells her clients about men being 70% masculine while 20% feminine. You need that leadership role and a nurturing side to help her feel secure and safe in the relationship.
• 5:55 - In the attraction and seduction stages of the relationship, she needs to see the masculine side of being confident and assertive. But also the feminine side; again, she wants to feel safe. This is the definition of the push and pull effect.
• 6:42 - Being busy is the easiest way to create that push-and-pull effect. Be active in your life and your goals; that sets the pace of the relationship, showing her that you won't be too clingy and giving her space while letting her miss you and crave your presence.
• 8:03 - Self-awareness. Being self-aware helps you embrace your masculine and feminine sides. Start journaling and doing more self-awareness exercises; the brain is a muscle that needs training.

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Dating A Woman With A Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style! (Make Her WANT You MORE)

Do you feel like the woman you're dating is not fully there?

Do you see that sometimes, when things get serious, she pulls away?

If you ever see her doing the push and pull, but she is not fully committed, Then you might be dating a Fearful-Avoidant, Attachment-style woman. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the intricacies of dating a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, shedding light on strategies to enhance your appeal and foster a more profound connection while dating a fearful-avoidant attachment style woman.

Apollonia has worked with many clients to see a pattern in a man dating a fearful-avoidant woman.

However, by offering insights into the dos and don'ts of navigating a relationship with a woman exhibiting fearful-avoidant attachment tendencies, Apollonia provides valuable guidance on establishing and sustaining a lasting bond. She will give you essential advice for those currently dating a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, including effective communication techniques to prevent unintentionally creating distance in the relationship.

So, if you're struggling to date a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, how do you know if you're dating a fearful-avoidant attachment style woman, and how do you finally open her up? Then, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:33 - Apollonia talks about the different attachment styles. But in today's podcast, she will discuss one attachment style: A fearful, Avoidant Attachment Style.
• 1:25 - A little background on the theory of Avoidant Attachment Style. John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth tested their attachment theories by analyzing babies' earlier experiences. They saw a pattern of how they would develop later in life in personal growth and relationships.
• 1:50 - People with Secure Attachments are easy to show affection and interest. They uphold their values, exclude confidence, and, most importantly, set boundaries for people around them.
• 2:06 - What is an Avoidment Attachment style? Unlike Secure Attachment, they value independence. They hate the idea of being controlled or settling; this leads to unfilling or long-lasting relationships.
• 3:02 - You might see people with an Avoidment Attachment style holding on to friendships or relationships. However, they have one foot out the door, ready to leave when things get serious.
• 4:04 - They fear emotional and physical commitment and lash out when confined. They often do things alone and would rather not seek emotional support since they don't trust people.
• 4:18 - Like Avoidant Attachment, Anoxius Avoidant has some same qualities. They lack self-confidence, suppress their emotions and don't seek help. And unlike Avoidant Attachments, who like to do things alone, they would instead be alone to avoid getting hurt.
• 5:26 - To date someone with a Fearful, Avoidant Attachment style, you must know when and how to communicate your frustrations. When she promises to call or text and still doesn't, don't get mad, and send her a fury of texts immediately. Take a deep breath, relax, and then send your text.
• 6:08 - Communicate like adults. No demanding, no controlling the situation, talk. List your needs and wants, and listen to hers.
• 7:05 - Be patient with her. It's hard to do when she keeps pushing her away and wants to be alone. But remember, she likes to be alone to ease her anxiety. She needs time to think, sometimes requiring her to withdraw a bit.
• 7:50 - Tap into your empathy, but dont try to fix her. Understand her emotions and let her name her feelings. Support her, but don't push her. If you see that she doesn't want to express her feelings or change, except her or move on to another relationship. You can't change someone to fit your needs, but you can express your desires and wants.
• 9:31 - Respect their boundaries and maintain your independence. Sometimes, trying to rush the relationships and Fearful, Avoidant Attachment may try to run away at the sight of commitment. That's why giving her space is one way to make her know you respect her boundaries while maintaining yours.
• 10:47 - The most important thing to do when dating and fearful-avoidant attachment is not to be clingy. Picture this: you have a close friend who tries to cling to you and wants to know everything you do the whole day and every day. This can be overwhelming, so give her space. And she will go to you.

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7 Signs A Woman Is Gaslighting and Manipulating You! (EXPOSING Toxic Women)

Do you feel like you are constantly second-guessing yourself in the relationship?

Do you see that sometimes your partner is always lying and making it sound like you're the crazy one?

Suppose you constantly see a pattern of lies and distorted information in the relationship. Then you might be dating a gaslighter. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will explore recognizing signs of gaslighting and manipulation in a relationship, thereby shedding light on toxic dynamics within relationships.

Apollonia has seen men fall into the cycle of manipulation by the woman they're dating. She understands how frustrating it can be when you're trying to express your discomfort to your manipulator only to be brought down. However, with Apollonia's guidance, she will provide insights into the concept of gaslighting, defining it as a manipulation tactic that deliberately induces doubt in another's mind, causing them to question their thoughts, feelings, and actions.

These practical examples will help you know how gaslighters often distort or misrepresent situations to suit their agenda, even when the facts contradict their narrative—involving a distorted version of reality implemented on their partner's view of the world.

So, if you're struggling with dating a gaslighter, how do you know if you're being manipulated, and how do you get out of one? Then, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:46 - What is gaslighting in the relationship? It's a person who will make you second-guess everything you do. They also try to palpitate or twist a situation to favor themselves even though it's completely wrong and feed you with lies until you are convinced they're right.
• 1:07 - Apollonia's example of a partner trying to gaslight someone and manipulate them. The person always tells you one thing but does the other; they will try to make you feel bad even though it wasn't your fault.
• 1:55 - To know a woman is a gaslighter and manipulating you is that she's constantly lying even after being confronted with the truth. Even when confronted with evidence that she was lying, she is so confident in her lies that it makes you second guess.
• 3:00 - The gaslighter wants the upper hand. She wants control of the situation even though it's her fault.
• 3:16 - the gaslighter questions your insanity. For example, when you tell a story, she will say how the events didn't happen or comment that your memory is terrible even though it was all true. Again, a gaslighter wants the upper hand in your life.
• 4:03 - A gaslighter will lower your self-esteem and confidence. When she's constantly telling you, you're wrong and feeding you with her lies. It will make you second guess everything you do in life and friendships and drift away from family. This is dangerous.
• 4:35 - When she accuses you of behaviors that she's engaging in. If you bring up her toxic behaviors, she will flip the situation, saying that you're the one with the unhealthy behaviors.
• 5:17 - she will make you rethink your perceptions and memories. Let's say she is flirting or talking to another man; when you express your discomfort, she will blame it on you, saying that you are too flirty with women and possessive.
• 5:57 - A gaslighter and a manipulator will make you second guess everything, down to everyday activities.
• 6:38 - Her goal is to make you dependent on her. She will want you to guess everything second so you can rely on them, to the point where you ask them for advice for even the most mundane things.
• 7:19 - She will try to isolate you. Let's say you have a close friend or family member, and she will start to talk about them in a bad light, making them seem like they don't support you or are bad people. This is a way of her controlling your life.
• 8:27 - When their actions don't match their words. She is telling you what you want to hear but does nothing. She is a walking contradiction. She will make you doubt your feelings and your sense of reality.
• 9:31 - The most significant sign is when she plays on your insecurities. When you express your insecurities, she will use that as advance to control your emotions (ex., If you're insecure about your age, she will say things like, "You look good. For your age")

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Are All Women Emotionally Unavailable? (What EVERY Man Needs To Know)

Do you feel like you might be dating an emotionally unavailable woman?

Do you feel that most of the women you date lead to nowhere?

If you are with a woman and the relationship is heading nowhere, you might be dating an emotionally unavailable woman. But how do you know if you are dating an emotionally unavailable woman? In this podcast episode, coaches Apollonia Ponti and Coach Cynthia delve into the crucial topic of female emotional availability, providing invaluable insights for every man dating an emotionally unavailable woman.

Both Apollonia and Coach Cynthia have worked with many men who have dealt with dating an emotionally unavailable woman. They empathize with the frustration when men want to take the relationship to the next level, only to have the woman pull away.

Apollonia and Coach Cynthia will provide insights into effective communication strategies when dealing with an emotionally unavailable woman and offer guidance on navigating situations while helping you find the right emotionally available woman.

So, if you're struggling with dating an emotionally unavailable woman, how do you know if you're dating an emotionally unavailable woman, and how do you find an emotionally available woman? Then, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:08 - Understand that there are a lot of emotionally available women. However, it's your job not to fix that emotionally available woman. And focus on searching for an emotionally available woman instead.
• 2:14 - A lot of men get confused about why a woman lies about wanting emotionally available men. Most of the time, a woman who constantly seeks emotionally unavailable men is, too. Because they are emotionally unavailable, you must remember to watch for her behaviors and patterns.
• 2:59 - You want to be the emotional choice. Emotionally available women base their decisions on their emotions; if you constantly bring in negative emotions everywhere you go, she will see it as someone who can't take care of her emotional needs.
• 4:35 - You might still have that hero complex. You might be very empathetic, seeing emotionally unavailable women and wanting to help them. You mentally choosing an emotionally unavailable woman, start by stopping this hero complex to see if there is a shift in your dating life.
• 6:18 - What is the concept of being emotionally unavailable? Some men are confused about the difference between her wanting to get to know you better vs. just enjoying the dating process. Is she only happy when you give her or do things for her? Or is she happy just being in your company?
• 7:18 - Many men seek only one positive thing in the relationship and let go of the negatives. Usually, when men are in denial when dating an emotionally unavailable woman, they will be sucked into the ideal fantasy of what she could be rather than seeing the reality that she might be a walking red flag.
• 7:42 - When you're dating an emotionally unavailable woman, she will do nothing but break your heart and waste your time. It's easy to date someone, but it's hard to establish a relationship with them. An emotionally unavailable woman should not be your top priority in life.
• 9:18 - Let us be honest with ourselves. Sometimes, when we are not seeking honesty within ourselves, we ignore the mixed signals and patterns she is showing in the relationship. She might be saying one thing but contradicts herself; she will be affectionate with you but stops when she leaves. This is a sign that she's an emotionally unavailable woman.
• 10:54 - Why do you always end up dating an emotionally unavailable woman? It might be because you're intentionally seeking an emotionally unavailable woman.
• 11:38 - Dont try to fix her pain. When an emotionally unstable woman is still stuck in her trauma and past pains, you can help her, but don't try to fix it for her. Let her learn from her mistakes, and let her heal.
• 13:39 - There is a plan for you already set in your life. You have to choose the best one. Treat yourself like you're the best plan, take care of yourself mentally or physically, and reconnect with your wants and needs. It is then that you will start to attract emotionally available women.

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7 Masculine Habits That Women Find Really Hot! (DRIVE Her WILD)

Do you feel that you are not attracting high valued women?

Do you sometimes think that it might be your masculinity that doesn't attract the right woman?

If the thought of not attracting highly valued women because of your masculine traits. Then you are in for a special episode; Apollonia Ponti explores seven male habits that are particularly appealing to women, elevating their level of attraction.

Apollonia has worked with many clients and has seen that many of her men have suffered from trying to captivate high-value women through the expression of their masculinity. But Apollonia delves into the reasons behind potential challenges in attracting highly valued women, even for those already embracing their masculine traits.

This practical guidance on cultivating and enhancing one's masculinity will encourage alignment with women whose values resonate with one's own.

So, if you're struggling with attracting high-valued women, identifying your masculinity, and having that masculine allure, this podcast episode is for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:07 - You have reponsblities. If a woman can see that you are sticking to your responsibilities, she will know you are looking for a committed relationship.
• 1:49 - If a man can take hold of his own life, he is seen as reliable and a leader; most women will like to see that. If a guy can show that he is responsible with his finances and life, he is mature and shows that he can work together toward a common goal (ex. having a family).
• 2:39 - High-valued woman is attracted to courageous men. A brave man shows confidence and is a sign that he believes in himself; he can provide a sense of adventure. Most women are attracted to that sense of experience and security.
• 4:23 - Kindness is one of the most apparent traits a masculine man should possess. Life can get to you, and sometimes stress turns into anger, which a woman doesn't like. If she can see that you can show kindness and compassion throughout your stress of life, this will instantly attract her.
• 4:58 - Being kind isn't just doing charity or something grand. The small things build up over time, checking up on a family member, grabbing her favorite drink on the way back from work; these little things can make her want to embrace her feminine side around you.
• 5:41 - A masculine trait is thinking things logically. That self-assuredness in your life shows her that you know what you want and how to get it. This, again, security can help her feel safe around you and open up to new possibilities with you.
• 6:30 - When you can handle things well under pressure. When can you solve problems quickly, see that you're a great communicator, and keep the connection strong.
• 6:53 - All the traits that Apollonia has discussed will also get her to admire you. This is the ultimate attraction; if you can maintain these traits, she will see that you are a reliable partner seeking long-term relationships and adaptable to every situation; these are what a woman wants.
• 7:33 - Have that positive attitude. Bring positivity in the relationship; leading with a positive outlook can create open communication and form a strong bond.
• 8:41 - If you're always complaining, she will turn away. This is why having a positive attitude is the best way of living for men and everyone. You, too, should seek a highly valued woman with a positive attitude and willingness to navigate the ups and downs with you.
• 9:00 - Woman are attracted to men who live in their purpose. Witnessing someone catching their goals is very admirable. If a woman sees this, she knows that you has a purpose in your life; it might not be career-wise, but something like; wanting to learn how to sail a boat or build your own home (or owning one); it things that you want to do in your life, and going after it can make her see that you too are a high valued man.
• 9:56 - Pursuing your goals can show relisences. Showing determination and strong values will make you more interesting. If you can show you're willing to persist in your dreams, then she will feel the need to be around your ambitious energy.

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How To Turn Pain Into Power Coach Andres Roadmap to Overcoming Fear w/ Coach Cynthia

Do you feel like you haven't moved from your trauma?

Do you feel like you want something new but are scared of doing it?

If you're at a place where circumstances are not in your favor, then this is the best time to start being your best self, but how? In today's special podcast episode, Coach Cynthia is joined by special guest Coach Andres, who will provide insights on transforming adversity into empowerment through his Roadmap to Overcoming Fear.

As a life coach known for his work under the banner of Coaching with Andres, he fosters a positive mindset for personal growth, professional development, and navigating the challenges of losing a loved one. Coach Andres is dedicated to assisting individuals in reaching their optimal selves, irrespective of their circumstances.

Coach Andres knows how hard it is to think positively under stressful situations.

Coach Andres candidly shares his journey of overcoming traumatic situations. His transformative experience led him to achieve his best self and inspired him to guide others in overcoming their obstacles. Experiencing the best quality of life, and being their best self.

So, If you're struggling with overcoming trauma, staying positive, and just trying to be your best self, then this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this special episode:

• 2:07 - Who is Coach Andres? Coach Cynthia will introduce him, what he does, and his inspiration to be a coach.
• 3:22 - We all have fear, but is it holding you back? Coach Andres starts introducing the idea of how to overcome that fear.
• 4:19 - To overcome fear and to be empowered, you must accept failure. Coach Andres explains that most people must learn to fail and overcome it.
• 6:48 - How do you turn pain into power? Coach Cynthia explains a lot of men in this modern world are overcome by the stress of their daily lives and the expectations placed on them. Coach Cynthia advises on how to overcome those stresses of life.
• 8:19 - Coach Andres explains the traumatizing life experience that made him who he is today.
• 8:47 - Sudden changes can contribute to the cycle of pain. Coach Andres talks about how he didn't process sudden changes like moving and the pandemic—turning him to relieve stress from exercising.
• 10:13 - Coach Andres discuss his journery of relearning how to walk again after his accident.
• 12:12 - We always forgive but never forget. When coach Andres discusses how some people suffer in their pain by not learning how to open up and let other people help them. This contributes to their relationships and often why they might have difficulty maintaining one.
• 14:12 - Coach Cynthia asked Coach Andres how he was motivated to get his body moving and healthy again. What was the click for him to start doing the work?
• 16:00 - Attitudes and egos kick In a time of hardship. Coach Andres explains how his ego and aggressive attitude thought he could recover quickly and walk again. He explains that this attitude wouldn't help him recover and that he must learn slowly through trial and error.
• 19:54 - Often, putting on a strong face doesn't mean it will help your quality of life. Coach Andres talks about how being strong for yourself and others wouldn't help you. Ask, lean on family or friends, and most importantly, seek support or advice.
• 22:03 - Coach Andres advises to help men turn pain into power. His most important advice Is to to surround yourself with people who are overcoming their hardships and are now thriving, join a support group, and talk to people or look up people who have gone through the same hardships as you. Being inspired to improve is a way to get motivated to overcome hardships.

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Website; https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRtP-4zvbNB-EOEDet5dU6g

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I Get Women, But I CAN'T KEEP Them! (Exactly How To Keep Her Interested)

Do you constantly find yourself in new relationships? Are you unable to maintain a long-term one?

Do you see the women you want to attract but reject you?

Suppose you see yourself in a cycle of moving on to the next woman and want a more meaningful connection and a long-term relationship than a short one. In that case, you are in for a special treat because, in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the intricacies of attracting and maintaining meaningful connections with women and centering on the challenge many individuals encounter in successfully transitioning from initial attraction to a lasting relationship.

Apollonia has seen many of her highly valued clients that end up with unfulfilling relationships.

She will explain the underlying factors that can hinder the establishment of long-term bonds. She adeptly explores the common dilemma of attracting women but failing to sustain a committed relationship. And why often a highly valued woman rejects you.

So, if you're struggling with maintaining a long-term relationship, finding the right woman, and ensuring you're a highly valued man, this podcast episode is for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:58 - You get the girl, but you can't keep her. Apollonia will explain why you always seem to get any girl you want, but she's always getting away.
• 1:32 - One reason you can't keep a woman is an avoidment attachment style. It means that they tend to be more independent and don't try to foster an emotional connection to other people. This is usually because they don't want to get hurt.
• 1:59 - How do you know if you have an avoidant attachment style? People with an avoidant attachment style have a habit of not wanting to have deep conversations or are emotionally distant when it comes to dating.
• 2:40 - Most people with an avoidant attachment style might attract anxious people. The anxious attachment people seek more reassurance while the avoidant will try to seek independence, which can both be catastrophic.
• 3:37 - When men keep getting women but can't keep them, it might be because they are emotionally unavailable women instead of a highly valued woman who plays hard to get. This might be tricky, but it's all about seeing the patterns in the relationship.
• 4:13 - Apollonia proves an example of a highly valued woman playing hard to get. A high valued woman will seem very selective regarding dating, is open to communication, and is honest about what she wants in the relationship.
• 5:15 - An emotionally unavailable woman (or a commitment-phobe) will back away when things get serious in the relationship. She will try to create distances from them. She's leaving them unsure about what she wants in the relationship. And send mixed signals.
• 6:47 - Sometimes, men have a 'frat boy' mentally. It's okay for a man to be a carefree guy, but a woman wants to see some stability in their life. Or at least some sense of responsibility.
• 7:28 - Sometimes, they might be too focused on the attraction. It's not all about looks; it's about emotional attraction. Some good-looking men see this problem of getting the woman because he is attractive but always fail to have that emotional connection.
• 8:28 - They wait for her to initiate things. Both partners must contribute to the relationship's growth; it's not who does more than the other. It's about working together to make this relationship work.
• 10:29 - When can a guy struggle to keep the woman in the relationship is because they are not in touch with themselves. Throughout life, they have been high achievers and tried to be the man the girl wants. But it's never what he wants. They need to make sure when going into a relationship that you must be in love with yourself to love her.

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How To Know You're Being Too Clingy! (The Right Amount Of Attention To Give In A Relationship)

Do you feel that your woman is pushing you away?

Do you see that your girlfriend is often telling you that she needs more space than usual? Or do you think that you may be overly clingy but aren't sure?

Suppose you see a sudden pattern of her making up excuses or wanting more distance from you and are unsure why; you are in for a special episode. Apollonia Ponti will share guidance on recognizing signs of excessive clinginess in a relationship and establishing a healthy balance of attention.

Apollonia has seen many clients destroy their relationships, with their excessive clinginess.

Apollonia dives into specific behaviors and characteristics that may render an individual excessively clingy within their romantic partnership; Apollonia offers a comprehensive analysis. She provides practical strategies for managing moments of clinginess and transforming them into constructive interactions.

This practical advice will help you on proactive steps to prevent inadvertently pushing one away. This episode is a valuable resource for fostering harmonious and balanced relationships.

So, if you are struggling with over-clinginess, to stop being clingy with her, or how to know if you are in the first place, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:32 - The start of the podcast: How To Know You're Being Too Clingy! (The Right Amount Of Attention To Give In A Relationship).
• 1:10 - When you're too clingy, you constantly seek validation from a woman. A clingy man will fish for compliments and seek validation of her feelings and never will try to give her the space that she needs.
• 2:01 - A woman Likes to have space and think. Just like any man or person, space in the relationship is crucial. If you want her to think about you and know what you're doing, keeping that space will let her think more about you.
• 2:47 - A clingy man will overanalyze their relationships through the amount of sex they are having. He will think that with less sex, the less the person is interested. Of course, sex in the relationship will decrease over time, but it doesn't mean that they are not attracted to you anymore.
• 3:08 - Another huge sign of clinginess is when you give all your attention to her and lose sight of yourself. They will all lose track of their life, neglecting their goals and friends and family. This is a massive turn-off to a high-value woman; she sees this as an immature trait that a man has.
• 4:08 - When a man is clingy, he will ignore the red flags from a woman. A clingy man will miss all the red flags in the relationship and cling to the idea that she will change for him as the relationship progresses. But this rarely happens.
• 4:54 - There are no standards for the woman he dates. He doesn't care if her values align with his, and most likely will neglect his values for her, just get obsessed with the idea of getting her that he doesn't see if she's interested in the first place.
• 5:29 - What is the right amount of attention to give to a woman? It all comes down to your life. Make yourself busy, do what makes you happy by exploring your hobbies, and provide time to hang out with friends and family. A balance in your life is what makes a woman attractive to you.
• 6:19 - When there is a healthy balance in your life, the push and pull become easy. You don't need to make plans when going out with her; it comes naturally, and you don't wait for her to talk or text you. And when she does, you will have some time to tell her. Personal development is what makes a woman attracted to you.
• 7:12 - A balance in your life varies from person to person. It all comes down to one thing is: having full days and not left wondering. When you're in the beginning stages of dating a woman, you need that balance of communication and mystery.

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