In this episode, I answer your burning questions from the first two episodes!

From balancing finances with my dominatrix career to navigating dungeon dynamics, I spill the details on rates, tips, and the unwritten rules of conduct. I also share some valuable lessons that are pretty useful even outside the dungeon like how to negotiate, set boundaries, and truly connect with people on an intimate level.

If you’re curious about all of these, then be sure to tune in as I take you behind-the-scenes. 

Episode Highlights 

00:54 How Much I Make as a Dominatrix 

04:09 Some Challenges and Realizations

05:33 Favorite and Least Favorite Clients

09:34 Dominatrix Name and Conduct Rules

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Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!
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In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how I went from a Wall Street Journal desk job to stepping into a dominatrix role I never saw coming. I’ll take you through the nerve-wracking moments of my first day in a Garment District dungeon, where I faced unexpected client requests and discovered a side of myself I didn’t know existed. I’ll also share the adrenaline-pumping experiences that made this the most exhilarating job of my life—and why I couldn’t wait for the next session.

Tune in to hear how my secret life began, the wild twists along the way, and the invaluable lessons I learned!

Episode Highlights 

01:03 The Craigslist Ad That Changed My Life 

05:39 First Impressions and Rules

08:49 Preparing for the First Shift

13:28 Meeting the Clients and Learning the Ropes

18:34 What Made Me Want to Go Back 

Connect with Me: 

https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant

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Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!
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Welcome to the first episode of The Kink Consultant! I’m excited to take you on a journey into the world of kink, BDSM, and sex positivity.

In this episode, I share my story—starting with a childhood fascination with spanking that grew into a passion for kink. At 24, while working in finance by day, I answered a Craigslist ad for dominatrixes by night, and it changed my life.

Balancing my Wall Street career with my secret life as a dominatrix was thrilling, but when both worlds collided, I had to make some tough choices. Eventually, I left the dungeon and followed a new path: becoming a sex and relationship coach. Now, as The Kink Consultant, I’m here to demystify kink, break down stigmas, and create an open, fun space for exploration.

Join me, subscribe, leave a review, and keep on kinkin' on!

Episode Highlights 

01:07 First Encounter with BDSM

02:38 Becoming a Dominatrix

04:53 Balancing Two Worlds

07:33 Transition to Kink Consultant

10:37 Why I started the Podcast

Connect with Me: 

https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant

https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/

Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!
Book your consultation here.