The Momset Podcast

You've tried the black out curtain, sound machine, weighted blanket, reward, sleep consultant, prayer and routine and you kiddo is still an early morning riser.

Well, same! I'd say you are in dang good company!

My oldest is approaching 6 and quiet literally from the time he was born until now, he's been an early morning riser.

I remember obsessing over our routine, his food, the schedule and feeling complete panic each day as I wearily awaited the outcome of my efforts to see what time he'd wake up.

Back then it was between 4:00-5:00 am each day, and now he is a solid 5:45/6:00 am and I AM GRATEFUL.

I've had my fair share of negative thoughts around this still and this past week I gained a new perspective on his early mornings that has me welcoming him into my routine to journal and workout with great JOY! It's like I finally "get it!!!"

I want to share this perspective with you in the hopes that you start your day with peace, even if it's at 5:30 am with your little one.

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This Thanksgiving I intentionally decided to do something I swore I'd never do and intentionally avoided at every opportunity for the last 11 years.

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"You shouldn't feel guilty for that..."

Have you heard that little phrase being tossed around on social media or even in your friends circle?

It's sounds pretty convincing right? Like we can just hype ourselves up and out of the feeling of guilt by chanting "I shouldn't feel guilty for this!!!"

Only, that's not how feelings work and what does it do to tell ourselves we shouldn't feel any feeling?

How do you feel when someone says

"you shouldn't feel mad about that..." rather than seeking to understand why you feel mad about that?

"you shouldn't feel excited about that..." rather than holding space for your excitement to grow?

I am opening up my unpopular opinion on the feelings of guilt we experience as mothers to best help you know how to actually help yourself through it and receive the value that comes from your emotions.

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I've worked with women that have felt crushed by the weight of a past experience for 55 years. It's my own experience to carry debilitating anger and use destructive tendencies to try and "keep myself safe" for over 12 years.

I know it is not time that heals our wounds.

You don't need to count that time that passes in anger and make sure that you've hated yourself for a certain amount of time first.

No, there is a much better way.

You can heal more in five days than most people hope to heal in five years, because it is YOU that heals the wounds. It is you that actively chooses who you are, what you want and what you are willing to do.

Time is patient and gracious letting us choose how we use it and ensuring to pass at the same steadfast pace regardless.

Be grateful for time and be the one that heals now.

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Is it just me or does "service" get tangled up with some "woe is me" mentalities like it's a bad thing we do it?

I get it. We, as moms and wives and sisters and daughters and neighbors and community leaders and employees and owners do A LOT. The idea of adding more to that would rightfully make us a little dizzy.

I also see how much fulfillment service brings. I know the lightness that comes when you move through your day with seamless service rather than a competitive "tit for tat" tally score of who is doing more.

You can do a whole lot AND feel free when your mind has a better focus that "of course I have to" and "it shouldn't be me."

Seamless service is our nature, especially as women. It's time to come back to the warmth movement that comes when we lead with service and allow gratitude to fill our hearts and mind.

You can have my oh so very free and inspiring 70 Acts of Seamless Service to get you started and have fun seeing all of the ways you can and already are serving seamlessly.

Holidays are in full swing and that means YOU need to get your identity and Mommy Vision on track to serve you because there is a high likelihood that something will feel difficult.

Going to that persons house.

The gifts or lack there of.

Burning a dish or being responsible for all of the meals.

Family conflict that may come up.

Behavior firing off from different sources of stimulation &

usually you've been caring for yourself with low quality.

This episode will walk you through the common identity and narrative that comes around the holidays so you can be prepared to do different this year.

Now we are focused on who we DO want to be.

Focused on what we DO want to happen.

What a freaking blessing to make this shift.

Let's dive in!

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I get it, I really do.

It's fun to say catchy slogans and our mind loves a good rhyme and humor feels really good especially in the hard times.

Even with all of that being true, there is also truth that some slogans and phrases and rhymes and humor- are bad for us.

They feel good in the moment and then unintentionally work their way into our subconscious mind and change the focus of our lives and what we seem to be looking for each day.

All of a sudden we feel angry and stuck. We start complaining more than before and losing our patience with our kids and spouse.

Why? Unintentional programming with a mix of experiences and a pinch of influences. It all adds up and makes a big impact.

This episode is unpacking "nap trapped" as a way to share perspective that makes a difference and the way you can keep what you love about catchy phrases while protecting your feelings of empowerment at the same time.

You are a mommy and a difference maker by nature.

The new MOMMY Mindset Course is coming so, so soon and it is designed to teach you practical mindset tools and skills that you can practice and sharpen EVERYDAY while finally feeling like the gentle, soft, empowered, cared for and remarkable mommy of your home.

Thank you for being here and caring about words as much as I do. Thank you for bettering yourself with me so we can give our kids an incredible head start in life and loving relationships.

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Tess Romero

You know when you have a full circle moment as a mother?

It's the time that your kids are doing something that you did as a child and you are the one showing up as the mother now. Kinda trippy!

I had this moment when my two older boys fell down while chasing waves and got all soaking wet, sandy and very upset. I wanted to share that moment in this episode and how I showed up for them in a different way than what I experienced as a child.

You can change the way you respond in hard circumstances and have full circle moments in motherhood that truly heal your own childhood.

You can do some visualization work in this episode and use the power of mental rehearsal to start getting there.

I love you a whole bunch,

Tessa Romero

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WELCOME to the Momset Podcast- I'm so thrilled and just giddy to finally share Momset with you over here.

Momset is for you to come Raise Your Words and learn the tools that change your mindset and truly soften your heart through real healing and becoming the mommy you want to be in todays motherhood.

I am still very much getting life figured out alongside you and I know I am extremely devoted to this work and truly living it.

This episode is about three simple ways you can "get your spouse on board" since it's a top five question I get asked on a daily basis. YOU have a whole lot you can control and do in this, and that can start with these three practical steps!

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I love you dearly,

Tess

Come hang out on Instagram for more daily mindset work and inspiration!

I have noticed a growing nagging narrative that mothers need to do less and this podcast episode is all about drive my pointed tip pen into that myth bubble.

Just over it.

The answer to feelings of exhaustion is not going to be doing things that leave you feeling exhausted, uninspired, unintentional, procrastinating, avoiding and numbing.

If we want to grow the feeling of exhaustion into the feelings of fulfillment, creativity, enthusiasm and excitement, then we are going to be required to do MORE of what creates those things.

That can look different for us, so let's dive into the episode!

I also mentioned the workout app that I personally use and LOVE, is Mamele :) You can find the details here!

Quick update:

New brand will have an appearance soon!

The new MOMMY Mindset Course will empower you to raise your words and teach you valuable tools that make it fulfilling to do so.

That course will be coming in October!

I love you dearly,

Tessa Romero