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My guest on the podcast this week is the wonderful Nadia Huq.

Nadia is one of my fabulous Thrive Solo membership women, and so it goes without saying that she is single and doesn’t have kids!

Nadia works in technology in the government as her day job, but her real passion is writing which she also does regularly, via both Medium & Substack. She writes about all sorts of things including single life, not having children, and feminism. Nadia lives alone in a house she completely renovated in London.

Nadia discusses her heartfelt piece 'The Childless Woman Who Soared,’ which delves into the journey of a woman navigating life without children. We also explore her personal experiences of shame and grief around childlessness, her growth through reading and community support, and her decision to never compromise for a relationship that doesn't fulfill her. Highlighting the influence of cultural messaging on women's perceptions of singlehood and childlessness, we discuss the joy and empowerment found in embracing life as it is. Nadia also shares how renovating her home affirmed her independence and creativity. The conversation touches on societal narratives in media, advocating for greater representation and normalisation of single, childless women. Nadia invites listeners to discover her articles on Substack and Medium to explore more of her thoughtful and inspiring writing.

00:00 Welcome and Introduction

00:40 Nadia's Writing Journey

01:19 The Childless Woman Who Soared

03:34 Personal Reflections on Childlessness

05:14 Overcoming Grief and Finding Hope

07:02 The Impact of Cultural Messaging

14:47 Navigating Single Life and Relationships

25:25 Reflecting on Past Experiences

25:54 Discovering New Passions

26:56 Inspiration from Role Models

28:03 Embracing Singlehood

30:27 The Myth of Having It All

34:30 The Joy of Independence

48:09 Representation in Media

50:43 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Read 'The Childless Woman Who Soared': https://lifewithoutchildren.com/the-childless-woman-who-soared-5a101f52f1b4?sk=595576ad9096145bd598a5171d3cf609

Read Nadia's piece 'How I Grew To Love The Single, Childfree Me': https://nadiahuq.substack.com/p/b6469738-ee5d-4f94-b642-d39167c6c879

Subscribe to Nadia's Substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/nadiahuq

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