The Openlove101 Show

#93 Question from a viewer for today: 

We're thinking about going to a lifestyle club. What am I going to expect? My nervousness and fear is that people are going to push me to do things we're not ready yet.

#92 In this episode, John and Jackie dive into the exciting world of threesomes, offering guidance on how to introduce the idea to your partner and ensure that everyone has an amazing experience. 

They share their own experiences and offer insights on building trust, communication, and making the transition from fantasy to reality.

#91

So you've proudly mustered up the courage to go to a club or party for the first, started a conversation with a random stranger/couple, and you and your partner are interested in playing. Now what? We've had a couple of guest speakers at our webinars talk about this subject and now it's our turn! :)

90 

The pineapple is a commonly recognized symbolism for swingers, but are there more "signs" out there we're not aware of?

What about garden gnomes or flamingos? Red ball caps or loofahs?

We share our insight on which signs are legitimate, and which signs may just be misconceptions.

You won't want to miss today's episode!

How do you best navigate your relationship if one partner has more experience than the other?

How do you go about in your relationship if your partner is on a (much) different experience level as you?

To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit httyp://www.openlove101.com

#88 Have you ever started a conversation about your relationship in a civil and cordial manner... And then things quickly took a turn for the worst and escalated to the point of anger and maybe bad words?

Well, you're not alone because we've had those types of "conversations" before. So how do you navigate through that? Let's discuss! 

#87 - At our colette lifestyle clubs, we're starting to see more and more people with diverse desires (and hence labels) in their open relationship. Many years ago, it was just the term "swinger" and that encompassed practically all of us. However, these days it's a whole lot different with many new terms as this beautiful relationship model is continuously evolving. So which "label" are you? To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#86 - John & Jackie discuss various aspects of ethical non-monogamy, including different forms and labels. We also dive into the importance of creating a relationship model that works for you, and the undercurrent of consensual non-monogamy growing among younger people. Don’t miss as they share experiences from promoting swinger clubs to open-minded individuals and discuss the topic of threesomes. This is an important chat about communication and creating judgement-free zones in relationships that reminds us that successful open relationships involve both autonomy and partnership. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#85 - Shame and how it can hold us back from fully experiencing and enjoying the lifestyle...We do coaching with couples and a lot of the women openly share how shame hits them hard and becomes quite debilitating in the lifestyle journey. We want to express ourselves and feel authentic to who we are, but we can easily encounter that old tape replaying in our head about how we're supposed to behave based on our childhood upbringing, background, and religion - and that's when shame likes to rears its ugly head. So what do you do about it? To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#84 - In this episode, we explore the fascinating world of ethical non-monogamy and its impact on relationships. Our guest, a filmmaker working on the documentary "Open: A Journey Through Love," shares their personal journey and the importance of authenticity in relationships. They reveal their autism diagnosis and how it influences their filters and social expectations. Join us as we delve into the challenges, growth, and transformative power of ethical non-monogamy, and learn about the upcoming documentary project that aims to de-stigmatize this lifestyle. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com