Do you know what tantric sex is? Most people heard about for the first time 20 years ago, when lead singer of The Police, Sting, famously talked about having sex with his wife for 7 hours.

Is that kind of mind-blowing sex even possible for everyone else?

On this episode, Hilary and Sandra talk to tantra and intimacy coach Heidi Leoppky. She is the founder of Shamaya Tantra and tells all about the lifestyle. From eye gazing to breathing, she gets into tantra techniques — including the health benefits of being so connected to your own body.

You can learn more by going to shamayatantra.com.

How many myths do you think exist about the vagina? You’d be surprised how many there are. This week, Hilary and Sandra welcome Dr Jen Gunter on the podcast. She is an OBGYN, a health columnist, the host of “Jensplaining” and the author of THE VAGINA BIBLE. A lot of people are talking about this book because it is considered the ultimate guide to everything you need to know about the vagina and vulva.

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You really learn a lot about a person when you hear how they lost their virginity. On this episode, Hilary and Sandra find out for the first time how each other lost their VCard.

They also welcome radio colleague Wendy Boomer and Q&D listener Lee Williams to talk about their first time. Sometimes there’s love, sometimes there’s laughter, sometimes there’s tears. Spoiler: Alcohol seemed to be a common thread in all their stories.

Do you know what a Japanese Love Hotel is? There are over 10,000 in Japan… and now there is one in Canada. On this episode we talk to Priscilla Tang. She is one of the founders of the Tokyo Love Hotel that opened in Toronto recently.

So what is a Love Hotel? And how is it different than a No Tell Motel?

And let’s talk about the people that rent these rooms. Yes, some are cheaters who are looking for a discreet location. But you’d be surprised who else is checking in!

You’ve probably heard a lot of stories involving men behaving poorly in the workplace, especially in the wake of #MeToo and #TimesUp. But what happens if it’s a woman behaving badly? Katy Perry was recently accused of sexual misconduct. Are we treating women the same way we’re treating men facing similar accusations?

This week on The Quick & They Dirty, Hilary and Sandra welcome Karen Brownrigg, the CEO of IHR Advisory Services. She’s seen it all in the HR world. She says there are just as many women behaving poorly on the job as men and even breaks their behaviour down into 2 categories: the Climber and the Thrill Seeker.