In today's episode, I share why I actually don't think all Mums need a hobby. For some people, they are deeply fulfilled in their family life and find a way to get their needs met within that space.

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If you've followed my work for a while you'll know I'm big on releasing the expectation of being the entertainer of your child's life. In today's episode, I share about one Mum's insight into WHY she unconsciously felt that she needed to do this for her child. So many of you will relate to her "why" and understanding this deeper unconscious desire can be the thing that allows you to work towards integrating it and updating it to something that works for the whole family.

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It can be really important to have children witness conflict because it is an inevitable part of life however, they TYPE of conflict they witness is essential to consider.

]In this episode, I share the 5 things that my husband and I try and do if we are having a challenging conversation in front of our children.

In this episode, I guide you through a short inquiry practice to help you see how jealousy is simply feedback. The emotion of jealousy can be used to help you understand yourself and your desires more deeply.

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This is a story of an incredible client of mine and the analogy she used to explain to her daughter who was feeling nervous.

This mother tapped into a deeper knowing of emotions because she had been doing her own inner work and it is THAT inner work that allows parents to just know what to say. We don't need scripts, we need to walk the path ourselves.

If you want to dive deeper into my Membership: https://learning.holisticfamilypsychologist.com/bundles/The-Raising-Humans-Collective

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In this episode I dive into why disappointment is so important and how it helps reduce aggression.

I share 3 ways that you can help your child stay in their feeling of disappointment without defending against it.

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In this episode I dive into why guilt is so important for children to feel.

I talk about what it looks like for them to defend against it and 3 ways that we can help them really stay in the moment to allow the natural consequence to play out.

Last week's episode on vulnerability is here: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/5-reasons-children-need-to-feel-their-vulnerability/id1607415212?i=1000612761789

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In this episode I share 5 of the reasons why it's so important for children to feel and access their vulnerability.

I dive into what it looks like when they are accessing that state of vulnerability and what it looks like when they're more defended against that vulnerability.

This episode will help you know exactly what to look for in your child and why it's so essential to keep your child's heart open to the world.

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Feeling Fables workshop: Coming Soon

In this episode I guide you through an approach that will help your child recover from trauma.

This approach can be used on any example of trauma however, in this episode I am going to focus on sleep training.

I have so many parents tell me that they wished they hadn't sleep trained but now they don't know what to do or how to move forward. This episode is for those parents - the parents who have been saying, well I did sleep train, so what on earth do I do now?

If you want to dive deeper, my workshop Healing at Home is on Sale until Sunday (Melbourne time) for only $29 and can be found here: https://learning.holisticfamilypsychologist.com/courses/healing-at-home

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This is the 4th episode on this mini series where I unpack different ways of looking at picky eating.

The important link I make in today's episode is how an imbalanced microbiome can influence a child's desire for a variety of food. If this is the case, that a child's gut health needs attention, then their selective eating isn't a "wait it out issue", it becomes much more of a "work it out issue". It could mean that the selective eating is simply a symptom, or a red flag, showing us that there is a deeper issue that needs to be addressed.

Listen to the first episode in this minis series on picky eating called "Our Long Term Relationship with Food - What really Matters" here:

https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-raising-humans-kind-podcast/id1607415212?i=1000605248444

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