Divorce Coaches Academy

The Role of Ego in Divorce Conflict (and how to manage it)


Listen Later

Send Us a Message (include your contact info if you'd like a reply)

In this episode, we dive into the significant, but often unrecognized role of ego in divorce conflict. In William Ury’s book "Possible", he identifies how ego plays a significant role in escalating conflicts.

But this really shouldn’t come as much of a surprise. When we focus on being "right" or protecting our pride, we may very well lose sight of the larger goals. This is what we refer to as an inner conflict and there is a critical connection between resolving inner conflict and addressing external conflict. Part of working to resolve inner conflict often involves setting aside ego-driven impulses to prioritize constructive solutions.

We know that divorce can be one of the most challenging experiences in life, and understanding how ego plays into the dynamics can be a game-changer. So, whether you’re going through a divorce yourself or supporting someone who is, listen in as we explore some insights and strategies to help navigate this emotional minefield. 

Divorce is never easy, but understanding the role of ego in the process can help you navigate it with more clarity and grace. By recognizing when ego is driving reactions, one can choose healthier responses that prioritize resolution and well-being over pride and resentment.

Divorce coaching can offer clients support to identify when ego is creating obstacles to conflict resolution. Learn more about training to become a certified divorce coach or find a divorce coach at divorcecoachesacademy.com


Learn more about DCA® or any of the classes or events mentioned in this episode at the links below:

Website: www.divorcecoachesacademy.com
Instagram: @divorcecoachesacademy
LinkedIn: divorce-coaches-academy
Email: [email protected]

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Divorce Coaches AcademyBy Tracy Callahan and Debra Doak

  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5

5

17 ratings


More shows like Divorce Coaches Academy

View all
Divorce Dialogues by Katherine Miller

Divorce Dialogues

12 Listeners

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson by Rick Hanson, Ph.D., Forrest Hanson

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

2,499 Listeners

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett by DOAC

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

8,917 Listeners

Flying Free by Natalie Hoffman

Flying Free

1,068 Listeners

On Purpose with Jay Shetty by iHeartPodcasts

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

27,703 Listeners

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast by Kate Anthony, CPCC

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast

570 Listeners

How to Get Over Your Ex by Breakup Coach Dorothy

How to Get Over Your Ex

540 Listeners

The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq. by Susan Guthrie

The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq.

230 Listeners

The Practice Playbook Podcast with Susan Guthrie by Susan E. Guthrie LLC

The Practice Playbook Podcast with Susan Guthrie

32 Listeners

Huberman Lab by Scicomm Media

Huberman Lab

29,222 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

We Can Do Hard Things

41,561 Listeners

On Attachment by Stephanie Rigg

On Attachment

1,043 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,129 Listeners

Just B Dating with Bethenny Frankel by iHeartPodcasts

Just B Dating with Bethenny Frankel

2,588 Listeners

Divorce with Sam and Leah by Sam and Leah

Divorce with Sam and Leah

43 Listeners