Is sex really casual? This is the question being pondered upon in this episode.

Join The Slumflower as she toys with the debate of whether a woman can truly benefit from 'no strings attached' sex!

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Do you find yourself having to keep repeating your requests to the man in your life? Do people keep telling you that you need to 'communicate' if you want a healthy relationship (even though the person you're communicating to is not listening)? Have you found yourself feeling fatigued in your relationship?

This episode is specifically for the women who are trapped in the communication loop. There's a way out! Join Chidera as she helps you untangle the knots to finally find clarity in handling men who don't listen to you.

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Are you a hopeless romantic? Do you believe that love conquers all? Do you live in the hope that one day, you'll fall in love and things will fall into place as they were always meant to?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she debunks the concept of being a 'hopeless romantic', while she exposes the true intentions of men who call themselves that!

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Do you feel guilty about using men in a world where men created a system where women will always be commodified? Have you found yourself feeling tongue-tied when wanting to ask a man for help? Should men be of service to us?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses why we should put these men to work! ;)

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Do you struggle with premature attachment to men? Do you fear you'll never stop being a lover girl? Is it really the man you're attached to or are you attached to the idea of being desired?

In this episode, join Chidera as she helps you banish the demonic spirit of unnecessary attachment to straight men!

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Is that man using you as an ego boost? Is he really 'just shy' or is he waiting for you to chase him? Do men deserve our friendship?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the ways men steal our energy for their own empowerment...

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Is your loneliness starting to become obvious? Do you secretly fear that you're not going to find your person? Are you losing hope?

It's okay! Let's chill out, take a deep breath and reground ourselves.

In this episode, join Chidera as she talks you through your FOMO and debunks your fears.

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Are you a strong woman who takes pride in being independent? Do you secretly wish you knew how to receive support without 'losing' your strength? Do men praise you for being 'strong'?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses why being strong doesn't mean you have to struggle! Besides, what's the man there for?

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Has your poor coochie management led to your demise? Are you in denial about the ripple effect your sexual decisions have on the quality of your life? Are men onto something when they tell us sleeping with them makes us 'impure'?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the ramifications of being sexually careless - and why we all ought to step up the pussy security IMMEDIATELY!

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Have you ever been accused of being 'toxic' for holding a man accountable? Do your friends consider you 'too harsh' in your dating decisions and conclusions? Is there something you enjoy in giving men a taste of their own medicine?

If so, you'll definitively enjoy this episode. Join The Slumflower, as she reclaims the term 'toxic' and flips the script once again! 

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